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Last night, I took this girl out for dinner and a movie, and then afterward we went back to her place and passed out - to get her back for tickling the hell out of me, I tickled her feet I'm still not too good at incorporating my fetish with other girls, but the other nite we were both chillin' on her bed, and she kept saying the arch of her foot kept botherin, her and I offered her a massage and she was like "you're gonna tickle my foot again" (she's extremely ticklish!) I did mention to her last night that she has very nice feet, but all in all I still feel like, even though I have been more open than ever, I still need help here. Do you guys have any advice for me here?
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quote:Originally posted by AFfootdude05: and she kept saying the arch of her foot kept botherin, her and I offered her a massage and she was like "you're gonna tickle my foot again" (she's extremely ticklish!) any advice for me here?
Her saying this to you about her arch, is an invitation to caress her feet. I would just be honest and say how you are atracted by her feet. If you are affraid that she knows you have a foot fetish right away, then slowly work into it by giving her compliments on "How beautiful she looks with those sandals, flip-flops etc..."
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Just be truthful with her. Also if she's making a mention about her feet hurting, tell her that you promise to not tickle her feet and that you're just going to massage them as your reaching for them. Move slow and deliberate, and win her confidence back.
This has worked for me in the past, but realize that no two girls are the same as no two situations are the same. With that being said, try this: as your massaging, tell her that you have an affection for feet. Again, just be honest. Slowly work into the things that you like to do with feet with her. Depending on the girl, you'll know how fast or slow to move. I told my current girlfriend of one year (today actually) when we first we're getting to know each other that I appreciate every part of the body, and I do. Each part has its own beauty and there are things that I like about each of them. Go from there. Now that's not smooth talk, that is truly how I feel. If the right girl is in your life, then she'll understand you. Most importantly, have fun with each other and find out what she likes. Include her tastes in this conversation too. Ask her what qualities or parts of a guy she likes. Let me know how you do whether you take my advice or not.
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If you are just dating and want nothing more...then tell her, you both might as well enjoy your time together...and you have nothing to lose right....If she says yes, then make us proud if not...well you know the next line....
And if you want something more....than take your time dude, if you like her and she likes you, then whats is the rush...
Bottom line, whatever the case, is that Life is too fuckin short....so just enjoy all of the time you spend together...and the feet will follow!!!
Cheers
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Assuming tickling is not your thing you have to instill trust that you won't tickle her. Offer a foot massage but pause if she gets the least bit ticklish and start slowly. Eventually if she feels comfortable with you touching her feet it could lead to something more but go slowly, don't try anything on the first massage. I'm almost 50, been doing this for awhile LOL.
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Tickling isn't my thing, which is helpful here. She's actually going to be enlisting in the army very soon, so I need to hurry things up here. But it's more than her feet, this girl is really something special.
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If she is something special and you show her that she is and she likes you she'll probably be happy with anything you're interested in, so concentrate more on pleasing her than getting at her feet and everything should fall in place.
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