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There is a women I work with at my new job of 2 months and I want to see her bare soles so bad.She always has sexy boots on and most of our time together I am looking down at her feet.Did anyone esle ever feel this way and what did u do ?
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yeah.. i did get bold at work.. for a while it was great. then.. it bit me, but not too hard thankfully. it's going back to normal as folks are forgetting about it. so.. do be careful. it may not be all perks.
RPM
p.s. maybe if you were friends outside of work, you may get away with it outside of work.. but at work, unless it's a totally laid back place.. be careful
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there are plenty of attractive girls out there that you don't work with
concentrate on them rather than the ones that could file sexual harrassment lawsuits against you
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quote:Originally posted by Elvzz: ^ I agree! Don't sniff where U eat.
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quote:Originally posted by RPM: yeah.. i did get bold at work.. for a while it was great. then.. it bit me, but not too hard thankfully
Pretty much the same situation here, except that I rarely get bold at work -- it's just not the place. Try socializing with her somewhere else, ambrose.
There was once this very attractive South-African woman at my job who I'd had a brief but friendly relationship with. I was ringing up customers once while she was passing by, and she suddenly blurted out, "Why are you looking at my feet?" -- loud enough for the customers to hear.
Embarrased, I had the natural reaction of acting like I didn't understand her, an automatic "Huh?" escaping my lips.
Wrong move.
She then repeated her question loud and clear while walking, at which point I quickly changed the subject. Later on, I simply made up the excuse of finding her shoes attractive (they were flip-flop like and revealed some of her skin).
The only thing pleasant about it was that there was a slight hint of eroticism present. Naturally, it's fun to hear a woman you find attractive say the words "my feet" for the first time. Also, she had a suspicious grin on her face while asking the question -- as though she figured I might be...well, one of us.
In any case, though, I'll reiterate what everyone here has said: Work really isn't the place -- and should you decide that it is, you have to be very careful.
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I felt that way about quite a few Women that work or have worked with me. Usually I will just wait until it's nice and warm, because eventually they will or might wear sandals/flip flops. But I don't think you should ask a co worker at work that sort of thing.
A few times I was able to coax a Woman out of her shoes by pulling the Foot fetish card... I freely admit to my friends that I have a Foot fetish... And I have let it be known to certain Women that I have a "thing" for Feet. These Women are ones I might ordinarily joke or clown around with. People see me as a "wild n' crazy" guy any way, so when I bring up the Foot thing, they don't feel threatened by it or think it's "weird." I guess my sense of humor gets me by. LOL. They just kind of laugh it off... But mean while... deep inside I'm goin' nuts because I got to glance at their Toes or Soles.
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throw caution into the wind. life is not worth living unless you take some risks. if you are ready to handle the consequences, then go for it. i don't think you'll get fired. all of this comes from the assumption that you'll muster up enough courage to ask her to remove her shoes. i don't think you want her to see you as a strange person.
if you want to see her feet without asking her, then just wait for the weather to make her change her footwear. what are the chances that she'll wear boots thoughout the spring?
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I'm pretty conservative with my foot fetish, so I agree with the folks that say to steer clear from the direct approach of "I want to see your feet" until you get to know her a little better. Is she single? If she is, invite her out sometime. Then after a little while longer, invite her (and if it's not romantic, other people) to your home for a movie / video games, something. Chances are she'll remove her shoes when she gets in the door so she won't mess up the carpet. I got to see a friend of mine's feet that way. Very nice.
If she's dating someone / married...well, that's a little more tough. Either wait for her to change her shoes to something more revealing, or get on the summer picnic committee and suggest going to a water park. LOL
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1. Wait until summer time. 2. Go to her house or have her come to your house. You'll at least get to see her in socks.
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Work is for work, not play...it is in my experience that alot of women can be weireded out by those kinds of suggestions and then next thing you know you'll be in HR and they'll be asking you the definition of Sexual Harrasment. Don't get me wrong I've been there before, but you really need to wait and be patient and who knows you might get lucky. But bottom line, not a good idea bro, Theres my wisdom for today!
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