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Has there ever been a point in your life where you just accepted your fetish and told everyone about it..what were their reactions and to who did you tell..? random topic but would appreciate the feedbacks..
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Well, at this stage of my life, I haven't told EVERYONE about my fetish. I have, however, told the women I date. The majority either don't think it's a big deal and allow me to enduldge in my fetish or they totally get into it. In the past, I've met women that didn't understand it at all or thought it was weird. For the most part, they don't mind a bit. Still haven't worked up enough courage to tell my buds or family.
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Its 2-3 years ago and I told it to my best friends and they accepted it im 21 years old now. Only my BEST friends know it. I love foot fetish...and now its summer again, there is so much feet/toes to look at on the way home from work wuhu! I LOVE MY LIFE!
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So far the only people in my life that know about my foot fetish are my wife, my brother, and the women I have had intimacy with.
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I have always "accepted" my foot-fetish. I have felt no particular urge or need to share this proclivity with anyone beyond a few intimates. I am fortunate that the bulk of my friends are a very understanding and accepting group. There are some things about me which they need not have to understand or accept.
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i'm cool with my 'interest'..... old a few gal pals.. my wife.. and a few co-workers. my brother surprised me this weekend.. asking my wife if she knew. yeah.. i only told one of my brothers because he's cool. the rest of my fam... i play it down.. or avoid it.. or change the subject. why create stress.
like it was told before by footjoyboy.. who would i impress by advertising?
quote:Originally posted by footjoyboy: I accepted mine years ago, but I tell as few people as possible. Why bother? What would it prove? Who would it impress?
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i feel the same
i don't think i would have anything to gain by sharing this personal detail with every person i know
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quote:Originally posted by footjoyboy: I accepted mine years ago, but I tell as few people as possible. Why bother? What would it prove? Who would it impress?
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i feel the same
i don't think i would have anything to gain by sharing this personal detail with every person i know
made that mistake and i'm still paying for it socially
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There are a few people that know. My best friend in the world knows. My wife, my brother.
I'm becoming much more open about it now, though. I hate hiding behind the wall of normality. (That's a generality, of course. I don't need a ton of flames for using that word.) I'm getting tired of pretending that T&A turns me on.
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I've never told anybody, even ex girlfriends, and because of this I've probably missed some golden opportunities. The trouble with my circle of friends is that if you tell one in 'confidence', every other person would know within a week, and I don't think I could handle that.
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quote:Originally posted by footjoyboy: I accepted mine years ago, but I tell as few people as possible. Why bother? What would it prove? Who would it impress?
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I agree, fjb. There's no point in telling people something that is your own personal preference because it's just that - personal. It should only be shared on a "need to know" basis, if at all.
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