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Well me and my wife have been together for 8 years now and she is cool with my ff. She has always gave me footjobs but here recently I have been having her give my fj with one foot and having her other foot by my face so I can suck on her toes. She asked why I was doing that and I told her that I couldnt help it.
So last night she gave me another fj but wouldnt let me suck on her toes. Did I say something wrong or did I go too far?
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Ask her if she felt alarmed or uncomfortable about the position. She could've possibly been a little freaked out for some reason if she is suddenly pulling away. That is usually a tell tale sign of female discomfort is when she doesn't want to do a certain something with you anymore. Believe me when I say I know about female discomfort.
Well she didnt pull away. She let me do it like 3 times before she stoped. She even told me that I should wash her feet before I stuck them in my mouth..
Should I keep trying?
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kinda wierd. i think after being married that long, you should be able to do whatever you want.
My girl lets me suck her toes and she will give me head every single night, then we have sex, and i hold, suck, smother her feet in my face the whole time. She doesnt even care, and has said something like maybe 4 times, like why do you do that. LOL. im just like i dont know i love your feet. And i guarentee they are the best feet that you will ever see. she gets compliments from guys randomly when were out, and it pisses me off.
Shes about 5'3 115 lbs, half mexican half white, blond dyed hair, implants and gorgous size 5-6 feet with pedicured toes always. i am a lucky man.
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umm... my wife didn't let me close to her feet because she sweats 'alot'. took a long time to have her get used to it. now... she's more or less ok with it. i can do nearly anything i want to them.. however.. should she have sweated more than usual... she is a lot more shy and reluctant. even though she knows it drives me wild. it's her deal bud.. work with her on it.
RPM
p.s. to her.. she's showing you respect by having them clean before your lips get on them (one idea).. i know this gal who won't kiss her man if her feet has been in his mouth.. to her it's too gross a thought to get over. he must brush his teeth right away if her fee get in his mouth
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I'm not sure what to offer as specific advice. Women are truly the epitome of the word inscrutable, sometimes deliberately so,
I can offer this piece of general advice (which I overlook taking myself from time to time and it has led to disaster):
The Problem: At the risk of sounding like a pop-psychology book, men and women actually do speak in two separate languages; men tend to talk in a language of simplicity - or a language of "do" - while women's words have subtleties, emotional overtones, conditional underpinnings, etc. - the language of "feel" - which men just can't perceive or comprehend. It isn't our fault, honest, but, nevertheless, we will be held accountable for our insensitive lack of understanding.
The Remedy: When in doubt, or trouble, start asking questions. She will give you an answer that seems clear and concise to both of you. It isn't. Repeat to her the answer she gave. Not verbatim! Don't be a parrot. Tell her, in your own words, what you think she just told you. She'll tell you whether you got it right and, if you didn't, she will likely tell you again. Continue this process until you both agree on what has been said.
A hint: DON'T start your question with, oh, something like, " Now let me get this straight..." DO try to start your question with something akin to: "I feel that what you told me is..."
Success won't be found the first time out but, with practice, a greater communication can be established.
Still, as a male, you are as much in the dark about matters of female thought as were our male ancestors 100, 1,000, or, 10,000 years ago.
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Maybe in a way, she might be off put by the fact that you're putting something that was on your penis directly into your mouth, some sort of latent homophobia, if you will. It might not be for her sake at all in her mind, but for yours. Will she kiss you after she gives you a blow job, if indeed she does that for you to begin with?
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