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If your married, and your spouse has gone away on holiday for the week, and every day you look at Foot videos (or other types of porn) in your spouses absense and masturbate, without them knowing (secretly) is that considered cheating?
or would you only consider it cheating if it was done with another physical human, where you touched them?
how about if you masturbated WITH their consent, would that make a difference?
(I am not married, nor have a gf, just single- but the answers to this question would be handy for me for when i do get married loll)
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quote:Originally posted by Tiny Dave: Yes youre cheating on yourself with "Uh" yourself.
I meant is it cheating on your marriage (kinda like an affair- that type of cheating- but while pleasuring by yourself)
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Yes it is cheating on your wife. Since your not married I would stop masturbating completely and save yourself to you are married.
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Punching the clown is a natural human function and is no more cheating than holding your tallywacker while you are standing at a urinal taking a piss. Eventually if you don't get a little release stress levels will rise, you won't be able to relax, and more likely to go on the prowl to look for someone else to dip your wick in while the missus is away. Women do the same damn thing as well and I'm sure they are better for it!
Did some religious authority figure sometime in your life lay a heavy guilt trip on your about "self abuse?" They actually lectured us on that one day back when I used to go to Sunday school as a child before I reached the age of reason.
I consider cheating actual physical sexual contact with another living human being. Squeezing one out into a tissue with your drawers around your ankles while sitting on the can with a LegShow magazine for a point of reference is not. Maybe pathetic and embarrassing if your wife walks in on you, but definitely not cheating.
quote:Originally posted by TommyGavin: Yes it is cheating on your wife. Since your not married I would stop masturbating completely and save yourself to you are married.
I think if you are single, it is ok to masturbate, but if married/ or in a relationship then you should perhaps have sexual fun with your partner.
If i want to have some sexual pleasure but she doesnt feel up for it then i would offer to masturbate infront of her with some mags.
Why should i loose out, if she doesnt want to play ball? - hehe
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That's a new one to me LaDae "Punching the clown"
quote:Originally posted by Tiny Dave: Yes youre cheating on yourself with "Uh" yourself.
Reminds me of a quote/line from the movie "Click"... "Micheal Jackson (the first man to clone himself) is now suing himself for molesting himself..."
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I see it as cheating unless consented in which case be "not cheating" ..... as cheating is "deception" and when consented, you ain't deciving nobody...
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The late, great Richard Jeni - whom I was fortunate to see LIVE many times said.
"The great debate is to spend your life single and have an opportunity to make love to anyone and end up having sex with yourself in the bathroom." "Or get married, and have an opportunity to have sex with that one person, and end up having sex with yourself in the bathroom."
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I would say it depends upon your beliefs; you can do anything you want to, in fact, you will do anything you want to. However, whatever choice you make is yours. In my opinion, masturbating is no better than having sex before marriage.
I have a whole lot more to say about this matter, and I'd love to discuss it here, but I don't think this is the place to do it. I'll post a debate post on my blog at: somanydimensions.blogspot.com
If you want to continue discussing the "religious" aspects of this conversation, reply there, and we can discuss it there. I put religious in quotes because I hate religion, but I know that people, as a general standard, do not differentiate between religious beliefs. Either way, it all comes down to what you believe to be "the Truth."
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HELL NAW IT AINT CHEATIN' I USED TO JACK OFF ALL THE TIME WHEN I WAS MARRIED AND STILL FUCK MY WIFE AFTERWARDS, WHEN U JACK OFF ITS JUST PRACTICE UNTIL U GET THE REAL THING
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I hammer a load out so I don't cheat! My girl is in another province right now...just til Saturday but for the past month that we were apart it was constantly a challenge to not want to go out and cheat..I mean with summer time here and all the pretty peds floating around and not to mention going to a club and seeing all these available hot girls. I jerk off as a way to do "self control"...as sad as that sounds I am not a sex addict but going out in public and seeing all these hot peds and knowing I could probably get with them...as cocky as that sounds its true. Sorry for this long ass rant but the moral of this post is that jerking off is not cheating it is a method of self control to prevent cheating.
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quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: I hammer a load out so I don't cheat! My girl is in another province right now...just til Saturday but for the past month that we were apart it was constantly a challenge to not want to go out and cheat..I mean with summer time here and all the pretty peds floating around and not to mention going to a club and seeing all these available hot girls. I jerk off as a way to do "self control"...as sad as that sounds I am not a sex addict but going out in public and seeing all these hot peds and knowing I could probably get with them...as cocky as that sounds its true. Sorry for this long ass rant but the moral of this post is that jerking off is not cheating it is a method of self control to prevent cheating.
I love your answer...
'It's a method of Self control!', you make it seem so simple with your explanation.
Your explanation should be in the dictionary as the new explanation for the word Masturbation. Posts: 138 | Registered: Feb 2008
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