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I don't really know what happened to me. I use to really enjoy having sex with my girlfriend. Now I'd rather just get a blow/foot job and suck, kiss, lick, and taste her feet and be very well satisifed. Is it that I'm losing interest in her? It seemed like If I can just have feet and have my way with them and get the occasional blow job then I'm a very happy person. She always begs for sex but I always tell her that I hate using condoms to get out of it.. What's wrong with me??? Is it time for me to move on??
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Try and think of it in a more relaxed way. If you HAVE to have sex with her you will not be relaxed in doing so because you look at it as something obligatory. Just start out with the stuff that drives you wild and take it from there. If you stop looking at it as compulsory, the desire will come back, after all, our deepest instinct won't let itself be snuffed out just by some tinsy whinsey modern times fetish thingy.
Enjoy!
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7 years..... But I must say that I'm a constant flirt and If the opportunity ever presented itself for some new feet... I'd be right there!!
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i kinda agree. i felt this way with every woman i was ever with. i got bored with them sexually within 6 months.. as long as i got off once in a while, i was happy. it was almost a chore to have sex with them.. until i met my wife. after 7 years, she still has to be careful when i am around her and she is naked cause i will take every opportunity to get anything with her.
bottom line is.. i thnk the relationship has run its course. time to move on.
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"7 years..... But I must say that I'm a constant flirt and If the opportunity ever presented itself for some new feet... I'd be right there!!" Comment by Mcpuffkins
"bottom line is.. i thnk the relationship has run its course. time to move on." Comment by nusuth
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No there is nothing wrong with you everyone goes through stages... Here is a suggestion, try to integrate the foot play with the sex. If you finish inside her use her feet to help you get back up again so that you can pleasure her again so that all the while her feet are on you and getting you aroused all over again.
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Meh...your going through a stage...me and my g/f having been going out for about 5 years now, as much as I say I would hump the shit out of "new feet if it was presented" I couldn't. Too much guilt. If you have been together for 7 years there has to be something that keeps you together, the best way to slap yourself so to speak is to think about what it would be like if you were to be in a relationship with some other girl or single for that matter. I do it once in awhile and it works for me. I just remind myself how good I got it with my g/f and try to picture myself with another girl(as in living or going out with another girl...not just fucking). As for the wanting only her feet/mouth don't play into it too much, you haven't grown tired of her just your FF took control for a bit...just ride it out. Good luck bro and keep us posted!
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quote:Originally posted by Mcpuffkins: I don't really know what happened to me. I use to really enjoy having sex with my girlfriend. Now I'd rather just get a blow/foot job and suck, kiss, lick, and taste her feet and be very well satisifed. Is it that I'm losing interest in her? It seemed like If I can just have feet and have my way with them and get the occasional blow job then I'm a very happy person. She always begs for sex but I always tell her that I hate using condoms to get out of it.. What's wrong with me??? Is it time for me to move on??
NOPE IT'S JUST MOST GUYS LOVE THE BJ'S MORE. ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE BEEN TOGETHER AWHILE, ONCE THE LUST WEARS OFF THE LOVE SETS IN...OR NOT, THINK ABOUT BEING WITHOUT HER AND IF THAT MAKES YOU HAPPIER THEN IT IS TIME TO GO IF NOT ..YOU ARE JUST IN A RUT...MAYBE SHE FEELS THE SAME AND IF YOU DON'T TAKE CARE OF HER NEEDS SHE WILL DECIDE FOR YOU!!