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You know, thinking about it no matter how popular foot fetishes may become, I think there's always going to be a burden and that is the ticklish factor - whether some women are into our fetish or not there's always gonna be a problem getting through the ticklish barrier. Maybe there is a way to get through it, but I just don't know.
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quote:Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05: You know, thinking about it no matter how popular foot fetishes may become, I think there's always going to be a burden and that is the ticklish factor - whether some women are into our fetish or not there's always gonna be a problem getting through the ticklish barrier. Maybe there is a way to get through it, but I just don't know.
A better question to ask might be, how can we reduce the ticklish barrier of being tickled.....i know it is a natural feeling. Do some girls adapt/get used to it?
or do you NOT do certain foot activites to them as they tickle too much?
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just lick harder. that usually is the way to lessen the tickle effect. but it creates other side effects which may or may not be beneficial to the situation, ie. appearance of greater desperation being one.
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I'm sure the "ticklish factor" is a reason. However, I don't think it's the main reason why having a foot fetish won't catch on. Most people in society as a whole think it's just plain weird to be turned on by a woman's feet.
The thing that bodes well though is that women can be very open to things if they are in the right environment with a person they feel safe with and that they trust. If you can gain a woman's trust and be designated "safe" to a woman, then the odds of her being open to trying something new and different go up quite a bit.
Case and point - I have a female friend that has pretty ticklish feet. Early on in knowing each other, we were out one time and she stated that her feet hurt. I offered to give her a foot massage but she declined, using the excuse that she would be okay, plus she stated that her feet were, in her words, "very ticklish" and she probably couldn't handle having her feet touched because they were so ticklish and the massage wouldn't feel all that good anyway. I didn't make an issue out of it and just let it go.
Fast forward to several months later, after we had hung out together quite a bit more and knew each other better. She came out to visit her sister who, at the time, lived in the same area where I was living. She asked if I was free and if we could get together and just go hang out at a bar. Long story short, we ended up getting together, hanging out and having good conversation as friends often do. We ended up going back to her sister's house where she was staying. We ended up on a couch in her sister's basement. By this time, we were pretty comfortable with each other so I decided to just take action. The worst that could happen is that she would say no and that would be the end of it. It was pretty chilly that night so she ended up getting a blanket and put it on both of us while we got comfortable on her sister's couch. She put her socked feet up on the couch but didn't stretch her legs out all the way. At that point, I said, "Why don't you stretch your legs out so you can be more comfortable? I won't mind." With that, she stretched her legs out, putting her socked feet right in my lap. Since it was chilly, I started to massage her feet and said, "This will help warm your feet up." For someone who was supposed to be so ticklish, she sure didn't act like it! She simply relaxed and commented on how good the foot massage felt. I then replied, "Well, I'm sure that feels good. But it would probably feel even better if I take these socks off." Just before I finished what I was saying, I began pulling her socks off. Again, this was met with no resistance on her part and no protesting about how ticklish her feet were. I started massaging her bare feet and, again, there was no "ticklish" reaction. I couldn't resist tickling her soles a little bit, just to see how ticklish her feet were and, yeah, they were ticklish! However, because she was now comfortable being around me and trusted me, she didn't put up any resistance or made excuses as to why I couldn't touch or massage her feet. Things went so well that, after spending some time on the foot massage, I decided to just go for it and, eventually, began sucking on her toes. Not only did she completely enjoy having her toes sucked, she admitted to me later that she had never had that done to her feet before and was shocked, in a good way, as to how good it felt to her. She said she couldn't believe she could feel that much pleasure from someone sucking on her toes and licking her feet! This was coming from someone who flat out said no to me when I offered a foot massage to her several months prior to this occasion.
I don't think a foot fetish will really be completely "acceptable" or be, as some term "mainstream". Unfortunately, there are too many negative stigmas attached to the fetish. However, when dealing with a woman on a one on one basis, earning her trust and creating a safe environment for her, that stigma can completely disappear and you can "persuade" her to think otherwise about a foot fetish.
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I had a girl I knew who had ticklish feet but didn't mind a foot massage. I think it's important that they know you're not trying to tickle and then they get used to your touch. She would always be a bit ticklish at first and eventually was not tickled at all.
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Regardless of how ticklish a woman's feet might be, I promise that it won't tickle (or have "a little pinch" like your local M.D.); might feel unusual, at first, but this is going to feel very good....
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ok guys well i have ticklish feet also, but i love havin them massaged the way i get around it is...........................
start with the tops of the feet as they r not as ticklish (well not for me) then once the girl starts gettin comfy u take it a little further, but u must start with the tops as if u go straight to the bottoms of the feet the girl will probably start gigglin and it will ruin the mood, so start with the tops........ do this for as long as u can like 10 minutes , stroakin maybe kissin, but like Tyler.d said the harder u go the less ticklish it is, so maybe like soft of the tops and then harder on the bottoms, massage the bottoms once the girl has got comfy and feels relaxed. kiss and rub harder tho , not like really rough as that wont b sexy but just enough to get a good reaction, avoid really light strokes on the bottom cos it will ruin the whole thing.
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Any woman that says her feet are too sensitive to be touched is usually just uncomfortable because once they push past that the tickle sensation will more often then not just turn out to be relaxing to them.
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i agree with fate. trust is a big issue. i also agree with tyler keep going it goes away. also...if it's a new thing sometimes a few giggles are hot and helps to break the ice!
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quote:Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05: You know, thinking about it no matter how popular foot fetishes may become, I think there's always going to be a burden and that is the ticklish factor - whether some women are into our fetish or not there's always gonna be a problem getting through the ticklish barrier. Maybe there is a way to get through it, but I just don't know.
this is pretty far down the list of why it won't catch on
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I think they're ticklish mainly because you're trying something different and new. Once you get past that, it should be fine.
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quote:Originally posted by Fate111: I'm sure the "ticklish factor" is a reason. However, I don't think it's the main reason why having a foot fetish won't catch on. Most people in society as a whole think it's just plain weird to be turned on by a woman's feet.
The thing that bodes well though is that women can be very open to things if they are in the right environment with a person they feel safe with and that they trust. If you can gain a woman's trust and be designated "safe" to a woman, then the odds of her being open to trying something new and different go up quite a bit.
Case and point - I have a female friend that has pretty ticklish feet. Early on in knowing each other, we were out one time and she stated that her feet hurt. I offered to give her a foot massage but she declined, using the excuse that she would be okay, plus she stated that her feet were, in her words, "very ticklish" and she probably couldn't handle having her feet touched because they were so ticklish and the massage wouldn't feel all that good anyway. I didn't make an issue out of it and just let it go.
Fast forward to several months later, after we had hung out together quite a bit more and knew each other better. She came out to visit her sister who, at the time, lived in the same area where I was living. She asked if I was free and if we could get together and just go hang out at a bar. Long story short, we ended up getting together, hanging out and having good conversation as friends often do. We ended up going back to her sister's house where she was staying. We ended up on a couch in her sister's basement. By this time, we were pretty comfortable with each other so I decided to just take action. The worst that could happen is that she would say no and that would be the end of it. It was pretty chilly that night so she ended up getting a blanket and put it on both of us while we got comfortable on her sister's couch. She put her socked feet up on the couch but didn't stretch her legs out all the way. At that point, I said, "Why don't you stretch your legs out so you can be more comfortable? I won't mind." With that, she stretched her legs out, putting her socked feet right in my lap. Since it was chilly, I started to massage her feet and said, "This will help warm your feet up." For someone who was supposed to be so ticklish, she sure didn't act like it! She simply relaxed and commented on how good the foot massage felt. I then replied, "Well, I'm sure that feels good. But it would probably feel even better if I take these socks off." Just before I finished what I was saying, I began pulling her socks off. Again, this was met with no resistance on her part and no protesting about how ticklish her feet were. I started massaging her bare feet and, again, there was no "ticklish" reaction. I couldn't resist tickling her soles a little bit, just to see how ticklish her feet were and, yeah, they were ticklish! However, because she was now comfortable being around me and trusted me, she didn't put up any resistance or made excuses as to why I couldn't touch or massage her feet. Things went so well that, after spending some time on the foot massage, I decided to just go for it and, eventually, began sucking on her toes. Not only did she completely enjoy having her toes sucked, she admitted to me later that she had never had that done to her feet before and was shocked, in a good way, as to how good it felt to her. She said she couldn't believe she could feel that much pleasure from someone sucking on her toes and licking her feet! This was coming from someone who flat out said no to me when I offered a foot massage to her several months prior to this occasion.
I don't think a foot fetish will really be completely "acceptable" or be, as some term "mainstream". Unfortunately, there are too many negative stigmas attached to the fetish. However, when dealing with a woman on a one on one basis, earning her trust and creating a safe environment for her, that stigma can completely disappear and you can "persuade" her to think otherwise about a foot fetish.
Great points, especially about the "safe' factor being an essential necessity to a woman opening up to the idea of her feet being the object of desire. It is in the timing, mood, environment, and person your are with that can make the moment.
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