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ok, so anyone who knows me on here will know that ive used this place to have a good moan and explore my mind! many people on here have told me i should get rid of my girlfriend due to her negativity to sex.
well recently the relationship broke down and i cant say i didnt see it coming. apart from the sex it wasnt working. its my first long term relationship so i held on.
anyway, ive met a new girl now who is really dirty! just what i need and she makes me feel wanted. i feel like i can talk to her about sex nd not feel akward or like im pressuring her. ive had sex with this new girl and she's given a blow job and we also had phone sex the other night!
ive only been seeing her a week or so and im at that point of wondering when to tell her about my foot love! i think she'll be cool about it but i also know she's into traditional kinda regular sex and dont wanna freak her out! not only this but her feet are a tiny bit smaller than my previous girlfriends and maybe not as nice, but i think they could be nice with a little pampering!
its ages since ive felt passionate about feet as i learned to deny myself off it with last girlfriend. i know how i need to go about this but when would you guys suggest i tell her?
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I agree with FJB. Just let her know without words in the heat of the moment. She will let you "express" yourself in the foot fetish area without denial if you are giving her a pleasurable experience! Afterwards you could talk about it after you've worn her out with a couple of hours of banging her silly.
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I think that might be your safest route. But start light though. Maybe kissing and a lil rubbing. If she's cool with that then go for it!
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quote:Originally posted by footjoyboy: Don't say anything; the next time she's on her back and you are on your knees inserted, just pull her feet up to your face and go to town.
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This is your best bet. Get her comfortable with it and she will probably just figure it out for herself.
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Plus you said she is dirty. FIrst a BJ isnt dirty lmao but regardless- she isnt just into regular sex if she went down dear... SHe is open to a little more than VANILLA SEX as I call it.
Wait til you can get a chance with them in bed and things are hot.
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i agree with everyone here, while your sharing and 'intimate moment' lol just go for it and see her reaction, if she's turned on enough she should be into it.
-------------------- 'Toes all painted, feet all out, it's the aphrodisiac for tommorow without a doubt' - Keith Murray Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2007
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ahh yeh makes perfect sense, cheers guys. infact when we were having sex i grabbed her feet a little and she didnt mind!
i didnt imply that blow job was dirty! she is generally very dirty and open about sex unlike my previous gf.
problem is that my ex gf is still quite bitter about the break up and decided to tell me she thought any other girl i meet wouldnt do what she did for me feet wise. and its made me a little nervous.
ive just been talking to her on msn and somehow got on the topicof fetishes, she started it and she said oh ive heared about people using feet before! but that she hadnt tried it. to which i repleid yeh i think thats pretty common. im up for trying anything!
but luckily she hasnt dropped the dreaded bomb yet of "oh i hate my feet" . keeping my fingers crossed. NO WAY am i spending another 3 years with an up tight narrowm minded woman!
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ive spent a whole week with my new lady and she has been amazing! we've been having sex at least 2 or 3 times a day, and spent all last night banging her crazy, im dry out of semen!
she absolutely loves to suck my cock also and i feel myself getting really really satisfied by whats called "regular sex". she has a super relaxed attitide about it, the complete opposite of my last girlfriend.
i decided to just tell her about my fetish and she said it wasnt a big deal. she's a little self concious about her who body as she was in an abusive relationship previously but is totally up for anything!
last night i was doing her from behind and we were both really enjoying it and she lifted her legs up to meet my back and ass and gripped on to me so i grabbed them with one hand and she didnt mind at all. i can see this girl being realy cool about stuff and us getting into making videos etc.!
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i say videos becasue she has already made vids of herself! watch this space for some picture posting!
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