Okay - have you EVER done foot-stuff with her before? How long have you been with her/how do you feel about each other? Have you already had sex? Why don't you tell her to her face and she'll probably respect you more...?
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Definitely would not recommend that. Why not just talk to her about it first, see what her reaction is, and if she is still confused on what exactly you want her to do, ask her if you can show it to her.
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I'd advise not to send any links that indicate any preference to your liking of feet.
The best way I think to handle this, if you two have been going out awhile and are comfortable with each other, is to let her know without internet links and without telling her. Let your actions speak for you and just take control of the situation the next time you two are alone.
Start with giving her a foot massage. Then once she's a little bit relaxed, start sucking on her toes. After that, one of two things will happen. She'll spot how turned on you are and she'll move her feet there or you can slowly guide her feet down your chest and onto your crotch. Either way, she'll get the message loud and clear that what you're doing is a turn on for you and you don't have to worry about any awkwardness around how you're going to tell her you like her feet. You're much better off demonstrating your love for feet in the heat of the moment, rather than stating your preference for feet outside of the bedroom where being intimate is probably not foremost in her mind.
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quote:Originally posted by Fate111: I'd advise not to send any links that indicate any preference to your liking of feet.
The best way I think to handle this, if you two have been going out awhile and are comfortable with each other, is to let her know without internet links and without telling her. Let your actions speak for you and just take control of the situation the next time you two are alone.
Start with giving her a foot massage. Then once she's a little bit relaxed, start sucking on her toes. After that, one of two things will happen. She'll spot how turned on you are and she'll move her feet there or you can slowly guide her feet down your chest and onto your crotch. Either way, she'll get the message loud and clear that what you're doing is a turn on for you and you don't have to worry about any awkwardness around how you're going to tell her you like her feet. You're much better off demonstrating your love for feet in the heat of the moment, rather than stating your preference for feet outside of the bedroom where being intimate is probably not foremost in her mind.
I think Fate111 has expressed it perfectly! I know from my own experiences that I was introduced to it slowly by little comments about how pretty my feet were and then a little foot massage and then one night after a nice long foot rub I was asked if I would mind if he sucked on my toes... I was a little hesitant but then was like...why not? I didn't know whether it would be good or bad so I had no reason to say NO! And it turns out -- I liked it!
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My friends, many thanks for your kind comments. But I have to say that... IT WORKED!
But instead of sending an e-mail, I did the following: I left in my desktop a text file with the links and named it "sexy videos". So when I was with my gf, I opened the laptop to check the email. We were in bed, and my gf was beside me. Of course, she saw the text file called "sexy videos" and asked what it was. She even tryed to struggle and get the laptop to see what it was. So finally I admited it was something I wanted to show her, a sex fantasy. She got curious and into the game, really open to it.
We saw the videos and she said it was ok. At first she thought I was going to ask her for some anal stuff. And after that, she did me an oily footjob. Excelent, great, amazing... I cummed with a big shot.
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What u can do is just send one simple link....Like a footsie scene under the table then tell her that for some strange reason...this scene got u Hard...
quote:Originally posted by CaPTaiN MuRphY: Wow, i'm speechless! That's awesome man. Is that your first fj?
It's the first fj I receive from her (and hope it's not the last!). But in the past I received some footjobs from exs
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quote:Originally posted by silke: My friends, many thanks for your kind comments. But I have to say that... IT WORKED!
...and after that, she did me an oily footjob. Excelent, great, amazing... I cummed with a big shot.
A good, and maybe very lucky call on your part. As others have said it could have gone the other way too! Glad it worked out for you! Here's to being brave, making your move, and to many more footjobs! Posts: 9728 | Registered: Feb 2004
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Still the point remains, you didn't send them to her in an email. That had DISASTER written all over it, as it turned out, you are very lucky and played it out just right. ned
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