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Do you care what others think about your gf? Do you judge others that may have fat gfs? My gf has put on a decent amount of weight in the last year. I have found myself worrying about what others think about me being with a girl overweight. I am working on net letting this effect me since I still find her pretty and she will one day lose the weight. I just hate myself for worrying about what others may think. That is bs and beauty is skin deep. She loves having her feet worshiped and loves teasing me with them. We get along well, but I am having issues with the weight gain. I told her and she became very upset which I would expect. We are ok now but I was just curious what you guys think.
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fuck that don't care what people think about her. it's what makes you happy. Some people can be very judgemental if you love her it shouldn't be a problem
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Is there a reason for the weight gain raja? Maybe you could start a healthy regime together, sometimes we need someone to help us to lose the weight, but it is the person who counts. My motto is love me for me or don't bother. I am sure that if your friends know your gf as you do they accept her for who she is.
quote:Originally posted by Mr.Papers: fuck that don't care what people think about her. it's what makes you happy. Some people can be very judgemental if you love her it shouldn't be a problem
Amen... Enough said here. I totally agree. Happiness is key to everything.
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they don't lose the weight, they only gain more as time goes on, but she sounds great if she's into having her feet worshipped.
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i dont worry either about what others think of my wife. i will admit to wondering what they think, but if they dont like her.. *shrugs.. their loss. if you are having issues with her weight then thats a different issue. hey.. maybe you dont find yourself as attracted to since she put on the pounds and honestly, personality only goes so far. ok, i know that sounds callous and shallow, but honestly.. if it was all about personality, how come no one wants to hear that their blind is.. really nice and has a great personality. there is definitely a certain amount of physical attraction that just has to be there.
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Dont worry about what people think. The people who matter will get to know her for who she really is. They will get to know her personality. And IMO personality goes waaay further than looks. And you will be spending waay more time with her than you will with any of your critics.
And as for the weight gain. There super simple things you do. You can get a couple of weights (I use 20lb weights, but if your just starting out, you may want something lighter) and a workout dvd (I like the Biggest Loser dvd myself) from the store. Play sports on nice days (I like tennis, but you can find the sport that you enjoy, maybe ultimate frisbee?) and simply get out of house for a nice walk together (if you adopt a dog, you will always have to walk it). You can also do simple things, for example, if you read a book, you can burn more than double the caleries you would watching television or using the computer. But the key is eating right, you can simply go to your local bookstore and get a cookbook on healthy cooking (I like gordon ramsay's healthy appetite). And before you know it, the pounds will shed really quickly. But you need to continue with this if you want to lose FAT.
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"Bottom fuckin line...Are her feet as nice as they always were?yes or no? "
Yes her feet are perfect. I am very attracted to her even with the weight. She is pretty and I do feel that personality trumps looks. Spending time with someone you enjoy being with is better than looking good and not enjoying their company. You guys are right and that I should say fuck everyone who may not approve. Thanks for the advice.
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You want our opinion... we want her photos. You may cover her face, but we need to see if she's over weight, or not. More importantly, serveral shots of her Feet...
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They don't know her like you know her. Are you still as attracted to her now as before? Thats a problem if you're not. I'm not in a relationship now, but I know it's important to look good for your significant other. If she's just your gf now whats going to happen 5 years down the line?
This is your shot at leadership. Seize the opportunity to get yourselves both in shape. Both of you hop on diets. Both of you workout. This can be used as a reason for both of you to get even closer. Sign up at the local gym together. This establishes a strong precedent in your relationship. "When one person has a problem, we have a problem and we get closer as a result" handle things that way and not only will you have a hot in shape gf, but the two of you together will be unstopable!
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quote:Originally posted by raja: Do you care what others think about your gf? Do you judge others that may have fat gfs? My gf has put on a decent amount of weight in the last year. I have found myself worrying about what others think about me being with a girl overweight. I am working on net letting this effect me since I still find her pretty and she will one day lose the weight. I just hate myself for worrying about what others may think. That is bs and beauty is skin deep. She loves having her feet worshiped and loves teasing me with them. We get along well, but I am having issues with the weight gain. I told her and she became very upset which I would expect. We are ok now but I was just curious what you guys think.
seriously dude why the hell would you be worried about what people think of your girl? if you don't mind her extra pounds why would you care about other people?
my dream is to find a woman that i think is beautiful but everybody else thinks is disgusting, that way i will own her and she will worship the ground i walk on
not possible because i only like the best looking girls and they always have guys kissing their ass
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