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Let me explain this a bit--a few months ago, I posted a video clip that turned off at least 3 dudes (meaning 3 was all that responded to show their dislike--more probably saw and didn't like but didn't post) It was a video of 1 guy with 3 girls--at one point, the guy is getting blown while getting his ass licked and fingered.
(The video went off the deep end for me--the first 5 minutes is what I just explained--the remaining 20 minutes or so involved the guy gettin fucked with a dildo--that I don't like even in my head)
This is something that has always turned me on in my head, but I think I'd be too weirded out to try it out. It looks like it would feel amazing, but in a way it may be too gross for me to subject a girl too. Now it goes the other way too--I've gotten off to vids or just fantasies of me licking a girl's ass to orgasm. I don't know if I would really try this.
To bring it on home to a foot theme, I fantasize all the time (and am in fact excited right now) about worshipping a girl's feet right out of sneakers with no socks. In my head this turns me on as much as anything, but as something I've actually tried in real life, (as opposed to any ass action) the smell is just too strong for me, and in fact, as a specific type of smelly foot guy, is not the type of smell I like in feet.
How is this to be explained?
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It's great although the first time you lick a balloon knot it tastes like a copper penny. It's unbelievable how much a woman gets turned on by this.
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quote:Originally posted by DancingFool: This is something that has always turned me on in my head, but I think I'd be too weirded out to try it out. It looks like it would feel amazing, but in a way it may be too gross for me to subject a girl too. Now it goes the other way too--I've gotten off to vids or just fantasies of me licking a girl's ass to orgasm. I don't know if I would really try this.
Fantasy, especially if not bounded by reality (in other words, you've never experienced it) can be extremely heady. Unfortunately I've found that the fantasy can often surpass the reality.
I'll often get quite horny and aroused planning sexual activites to do with my wife, but often the reality just doesn't happen the way I fantasized about it. In some case I fantasize about things she'd never do- that can be extremely arousing.
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This is an interesting question that really has me thinking. I'm of the type that likes to keep my fantasies bounded by reality. I don't really have anything that turns me on in my head but wouldn't do it for me in real life. However there are some fantasies that I have that absolutely must involve a certain person if they were to happen IRL though they can never realistically happen. It's more than a fantasy about a certain person mind you. I think it may be a comfort thing.
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the day i discovered that my "reality based" fantasies didn't have the potential of exciting me that much in reality, i made a point of limiting that amount of mental energy!
some scenes, had i been single still, or with another woman, would take place and can be very very arousing (not like in my head) but just as instense.. however.. my lady isn't really into that scene or themes.. she's played along, but not with much enthusiams to make me happy. so.. i've stopped.
i hate getting reved up and excited only to be let down.. so.. i stay away!
so, for feet, i don't allow myself to get too excited about when i'll play with her feet straight out of pumps. because she's not the very 'active' type when it comes to that. but.. every once in a while she surprises me. she rather sit and watch me enjoy.
further more, she tends to only wear her heels on the weekends, not to work like when we used to date.
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I'm probably gonna get chewed out for this but....footjobs. I have always been turned on by the idea but I've never had one. On top of that, I don't see how I would cum. I dunno. I guess it's becuase I never had one.
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soopaman.. you're not alone there.. i thought a FJ with hose would be fantastic.. never had one.. but came close twice with wifee.. not the same way i pictured it in my head!!!
quote:Originally posted by RPM: .. my lady isn't really into that scene or themes.. she's played along, but not with much enthusiams to make me happy. so.. i've stopped. i hate getting reved up and excited only to be let down.. so.. i stay away!
Exactly. Same sentiments here my friend. Nothing pours cold water on a "get together" faster than your fantasies not coming true or your desires getting met. And half enthusiasm is the same as none at all to me.
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In my mind I imagine the perfect scenario, then I look at people engaged in the realities of being a parent and/or spouse and I'm turned off completely.
I'd rather spend my time, money and energy elsewhere than on a marriage. I certainly don't want the responsibility of being a parent.
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Hmm, I hadnt thought of the 'wife/girlfriend not being into it' angle--thats a commmon reason a fantasy wouldn't live up to expectations. Had a girlfriend once who said, and I quote, that me licking her feet 'felt like you were licking my thigh or something.' My pleasure is tripled if the girl gets into it vocally.
Something else that didn't quite live up to the fantasy in my head is getting a blowjob with my hands tied--not that it wasn't great, it was, but the bondage didnt add anything to the experience--I might as well have been literally sitting on my hands.
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I'd have to say my one and only 3 way experience. Perhaps because it was me, my former best friend and his now ex-wife. She had always been flirty with me and forward. She pressed him to have a 3 way on more than one occasion and he got down right pissed a few times. You have to bear in mind I was 19 and they were both 20 at the time.
Eventually he caved in and I was like hell yeah. Being 19, single and care free. Why not, she was pretty, had a great body (1 kid) and nice D cups. Later on she also ended up being my first Footjob. It ended up being more awkward than sexy. lol
She took turns sucking us both and I swear it took me forever to get fully hard I was so nervous. I didn't know where to look or what to look at half the time. I was going with it, then I would realize I am banging my BFF's girl with him. lol Kinda would weird me out for a minute.
I mean here I am hitting her from the back while she blows him. We both look at each other and are like...uhhhh....and look away real fast. I'm kinda chuckling thinking about it now. The only cool part was that I lasted forever and I purposely didn't stroke for like a week and a half before that weekend.
So when she asked me to cum on her tits I blew a massive load. My friend...not so much. Then again he was getting laid like every night to my couple times a month if I was lucky at the time. lol Long story short she was too freaky for him.
They were together from 15-20, married at 21, divorced at 22. She went a little wild, I think the 3 way kinda set things in motion and he knew it. Jacked our friendship all up. She ended up stepping out on him, I gotta admit they were still together when the footjob happened.
So in retrospect I kinda wished it had never happened. It was kinda cool and sexy. But it seemed a lot of damage resulted from it. Probably would have happened either way, but it still sucks to know I was part of it.
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I promised myself I wouldn't post this....but I gotta tell somebody. I really luv it when women wear strap-ons!
Before anyone gets any weird/sick ideas....I'm not daydreaming about chicks fuckin' me up the ass!! I refuse to "go there!" But what's even more sick than that...is admitting that I've actually asked my ex-gf {who owns a vibrating dildo} to stroke it for me ~ as if she were masturbating! (That gets me off!) Please don't ask me why.
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quote:Originally posted by LuckyTeen: You have never tried licking a womans anus? Well I advise that, it's hot as hell. Be safe though, make sure it's clean or use a dental dam.
I always like to share a shower with my lady before I lick her ass. I make sure it's clean that way, because I clean it for her, and she absolutely loves that also. I love fingering her ass in the shower and her ass and tits all soaped up too. Dayum, I'm getting sort of out of control just writing about it. But, ass licking is just like the old saying, "if you ain't tried it, don't knock it."
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