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I've recently had a real wake up call. Nearly 20yrs ago after a successful tour in the US Army I returned home and met my ex I let her move in with me.For a short time we were a nice couple.She was the first woman that I was able to explore full "foot activity" with. She would let me worship her feet in any way that I wanted. That was something that I appreciated greatly.It helped being a new level to my sex life. Since I had never experienced this with any other woman, it helped me understand my love for women and especially their feet. The problem is that when we broke up I found out that she's telling everyone that she can about my "fetish" and trying to make me look like a freak!I've even had a few people question me about it (I haven't denied it). I now see that even though I wish her the best, she doesn't feel the same way and wants to hurt me by exposing this personal side of myself. Just know that I will not run and hide from this. I'll face it head on! If this forces me to "come out" then I will. Have any of you experienced this? What do you think?
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Although i havent, I would definatley respond the way you have, meaning I wouldnt deny it, I would hold my head up high and say "yes, I am a foot guy, whats it to ya?" and just carry on nmy business. Youll be the bigger person rather than cowering away in shame and allowing her to use something important to you as a weapon against you.
hopefully she will end up looking the fool that way.
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I think your handling this the right way Mrlhf, this might even work to your advantage, some women might hear about your foot fetish and be curious
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Yeah I had a similar outing, and now I have to put up with the occasional joke about it, but I've also had my fair share of girls being interested about it too So be cool about it and show people that you're not a freak and put your old gf to shame!!
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quote:Originally posted by Mrlhf: I've recently had a real wake up call. Nearly 20yrs ago after a successful tour in the US Army I returned home and met my ex I let her move in with me.For a short time we were a nice couple.She was the first woman that I was able to explore full "foot activity" with. She would let me worship her feet in any way that I wanted. That was something that I appreciated greatly.It helped being a new level to my sex life. Since I had never experienced this with any other woman, it helped me understand my love for women and especially their feet. The problem is that when we broke up I found out that she's telling everyone that she can about my "fetish" and trying to make me look like a freak!I've even had a few people question me about it (I haven't denied it). I now see that even though I wish her the best, she doesn't feel the same way and wants to hurt me by exposing this personal side of myself. Just know that I will not run and hide from this. I'll face it head on! If this forces me to "come out" then I will. Have any of you experienced this? What do you think?
More power to you, Mrlhf! You are courageous in your resolve to not run from the truth about yourself. You have a foot fetish. Big deal! Any of your mutual friends and acquaintances who will be put off being your friend because they now know you have a foot fetish are not worth knowing in the first place.
You might consider reminding anyone who comes to you with nasty stories she may have told them that IT SHOULD TELL THEM MORE ABOUT HER THAN IT DOES ABOUT YOU, that she is out there vindictively being a psycho-ex and spilling info about your private life!
Ask these people if THEY will now trust her with any secrets they held with her. If she'd do this to someone she formerly loved?...
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quote:Originally posted by shook: I think your handling this the right way Mrlhf, this might even work to your advantage, some women might hear about your foot fetish and be curious
That would be the hope!! (MY hope, anyway!)
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