quote: To tell you the truth, I honestly believe that there's something in our personality that gives us this "addiction" or attraction, and I believe that, were it not feet- it would be something else. So wishing it away IMHO is fruitless.
Exactly...that's why I don't wish it away either, but rather "ride it out". I don't know where this crazy ol' roller coaster of obsession kinda' ride is going to lead me, but it should be an interesting trip getting there.
As far as something being in our personality fueling the desires...I believe you make a very good point feetluvr...speaking for myself of course. I've noticed that even in certain hobbies of mine, like video games for instance, I tend to get really hyped up and passionate about certain aspects of it, whereas fellow gamers may simply show a moderate interest at best. That's just one of several examples that come to mind...
When I was younger I used to think that I might have a touch of OCD, but after knowing people who really do have the disorder, I can safely say that this isn't the case for me. I just think that some people tend to take things much more seriously...and with this serious behavior comes a more passionate feeling toward things...and with these passions can come the "obsessions". However, I don't think obsessing is an entirely bad thing. There's too much mediocrity and sheep in the world as it is, so I personally see strong feelings as positive characteristics...just so long as the strong feelings don't go toward negative things.
And if nothing else, it's always fun to sit back and ponder this stuff.
Mid-life crisis? Cut me some slack man...I got at least 17 more years before I can officially claim anything like that!
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I have no problem with having a foot fetish. I figure girls who would get upset about me having a foot fetish are basically dumb bitches caught up in their pathetic "unattainable princess" mentality and not worth bothering with. The majority I've talked to think it's cute or have no real opinion whatsoever on it.
Basically it's the attitude that turns some women off. If you act like Genghis Khan ready to ravage her little piggies and take no prisoners or like some Woody Allen style neurotic who's scared of his own shadow, you'll turn any woman off fetish or not.
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I don't blame the fetish. The interest intself never hurt anybody. It's the attitude and the emotional personality that, working in tandem with the interest, ever brought me problem. And it did (bring me problem).
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It is indeed the most frustrating fetish to have because it's not always a reciprical one.
When growing up I always hoped that when I met a girl, nature would somehow take over- but it never did.
What people don't realise about this fetish, or any fetish for that matter, is that it might be the ONLY sexuality. What happens when you cannot perform sexaul intercourse because all you've ever wanted was feet?
A foot fetish is not as cute as people seem to think it is. If there was a cure for it, I would be the first in line!
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quote:Originally posted by Lick: A foot fetish is not as cute as people seem to think it is. If there was a cure for it, I would be the first in line!
If it were humanly possible for people to actually rid themselves of their foot fetishes, I'd offer a public service by taking them off the hands of anybody who no longer wants theirs. All free of charge of course, because that's just the kind of guy I am. hehe
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I haven't given this any thought in a long time. Let me see if I can run down the reasons:
(1) I've been with a chick who loves that I love her feet fore a long time now. Gotta be reason number one. So I don't have to talk anybody else into having foot sex with me! I honestly think a big part of that has nothing to do with feet. It's frustrating needing to talk strange women into doing *anything* and it's a relief to have that taken care of. That's why we put up with married life.
(2) I talked to my girlfriends about their past boyfriends. Do you like a chick to stick her finger up your butt? Me neither; but it's pretty much just me and you. The other 3 billion dudes need a finger up there. After years of that, chicks are glad to stick their feet in your face. It's all relative.
(3) Women don't mind if you look at their feet. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. Maybe they think I'm shy. Maybe they see me looking dead at their feet and to them it means I'm looking at nothing. Those are probably it. But when I am staring, unblinking, at pedicured feet with toe rings and anklets on them, dangling a slide with a 4-inch heel, and I peek up at her face and she's *smiling* a little bit - well, you guys know how that seems to me.
I've heard as much stuff as the rest of you about feet are gross or w/e, sometimes from chicks, but they'd probably also say that a finger up the butt is gross too, in polite company. Also they might secretly be afraid that *their* feet are gross. Also, people only want what they expect, even if they don't want it.
Here's one big point that doesn't fit anywhere and also it fits everywhere: Women by and large don't like being approached in a sexual way or vibed on in a sexual way by strange men. I don't blame them. Maybe you're just foot watching, but if you aren't putting out the right energy you might as well be telling them, It puts the lotion in the bucket. Maybe you've had a bad run and you're scared and overthinking it. Don't do that. Don't be creepy and chicks won't notice you unless you want them to.
I don't think it can be denied that it is easier for us now that it was. AIDS was good for us b/c it made kink a real option. That's a f'ed up thing to say but it's true. When I was a kid, there was *zero* toe sucking on TV.
Thing is, I don't think we can look for a chick who wants foot sex, then try to get along with her. I think you have to find chicks you get along with, then ease them into foot sex. That's huge.
Anyway, I love loving feet cuz it makes being at the airport security check just like being at a titty bar.
Sorry about my crazy Andy Rooney ramble
mas
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quote:Originally posted by mas: Here's one big point that doesn't fit anywhere and also it fits everywhere: Women by and large don't like being approached in a sexual way or vibed on in a sexual way by strange men. I don't blame them. Maybe you're just foot watching, but if you aren't putting out the right energy you might as well be telling them, It puts the lotion in the bucket.
That's about the gist of what I was trying to say with my Genghis Khan and Woody Allen analogy. If you act weird they will think your weird. If you act calm and normal about then they have no problem.
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I have no problem with my fetish and i dont think i could go on without one. Im lucky enough to have a g/f that acknowladge's it and she participates in my fantasies. So im very happy with it.
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No way do I regret it, I love it! It has never bothered me any foot man can get what he wants if he does it right. I feel gifted I can enjoy the smell of a woman's feet as much to treat her whenever she wants with massages and kisses.
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LuckyTeen, do realize you've been bringing back 2 year old threads to the top of the board? I started reading through it and realized several of the posters on it hadn't been on the board in over a year.
quote:Foot fetish do you wish sometimes you never had it?
Never. The truth is that I can't begin to fathom my life without my foot fetish, nor would I even want to. I've been open with people and forthright about my fetish for as long as I myself have even known that I had one, and it's been a constant joy for me that's brought and continues to bring unparalleled pleasure into my life. From time to time out here on the forum I've addressed the importance of one's foot fetish being an indulgence rather than a compulsion. We must not lose sight of this concept because without a firm grasp of what it means, we can easily find ourselves in over our heads and consumed whole. If a healthy and well-adjusted foot fetishist has the wherewithal to master his fetish rather than to be mastered by it, then the rewards he can reap from it are seemingly limitless.
Calico Jack
Enough said.
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Yeah I do, but I'm new here and wanted to see all topics and share my thoughts on topics that already exist rather than starting identical ones.
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