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I chose option two. I would try to sit down with her, and lovingly explain how important foot worship was to me, and try to come to some kind of agreement, if she had all the other qualities. This is an issue I've discussed with my male friends many times, as they all know I have a foot fetish. The feedback I've gotten from them is, that, unless someone is really unyielding, one should be able to come to some kind of agreement with their significant other, to get fetish pleasure at least sometimes. That being said, if the person I was with was so self centered, that they said "You absolutely can never, ever, touch my feet, Mitch, not even during lovemaking, or while you're satisfying me" I dont think I could stay with that person long term. To me, that says: "I only care about myself, and I dont care what you, Mitch, need or want from our relationship". Hopefully, the extreme case wont happen, and, even if I did meet, date, or marry someone who wasnt into our interest, I could come to some compromise with her.
quote:Originally posted by Bondo: Although it seems a little extreme the way it's worded, I chose the last answer about finding someone who will let me express my fetishes.
In the long and short of it, that's kind of what we do anyway. I don't neglect my wife's feet, but she's not into the foot things that I'm into. So she allows me to "explore alternative venues" to put it politely.
Does she at least let you rub her feet occasionally, Bondo? Thanks for all your responses. And in case some of you are wondering, this is NOT happening to me! I just thought I'd explore this hypothetical situation with all of you.
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Oh hell yeah Dougie, my wife can't live without the ol' Bondo foot massage. I rub her feet many nights a week with lotions she gets from Bath & Body Works. She's just not into the toe sucking and foot kissing that I'd like to do with her.
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ask yourself, what would your wife do if you denied her sex, or whatever it is that pleasures her?
perhaps some of you might wanna try saying that to your sig other if they are not satisfying you in the foot sense.
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