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I bet most the guys who find the idea of their woman fucking another guy would be up for her and another female going at it though. Either that, or both of them fucking him. What does it matter if some people are up for it either way? Kind of reminds me of the foot fetish as I hear people into feet telling me that smelling a girl's sweaty feet is nasty. To each their own as long as all involved enjoy it. I, myself, had talked with a previous girlfriend about her allowing a friend of mine who happens to be black (we were both white) to have some foot fetish fun with her. I secretly had hoped that it had went further though and I am pretty sure my girlfriend also knew that.
quote:Originally posted by ThisisMe373: i personally would hate the thought of another guy giving my wife/gf a good fucking. Suppose maybe that makes me a little insecure?
if it's insecure to be disgusted by the thought of seeing another man fuck the woman I love than i don't want to be secure
seems kind of gay too, why watch another guy fuck your wife when you can fuck her?
why would you rather sit in the corner and jerk off while some other guy pounds your girl?
this boggles my mind
i can understand if it's not your girl, i love straight porn and don't like the lesbian stuff but if it's your girl why would you rather watch some other guy
I think this is another case of foot guys being submissive
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quote: I think this is another case of foot guys being submissive
In some cases I am sure that is true. But I also think many guys like to see that slutty girl come out in their woman as to some it is a desirable trait. And remember, sex isn't 100 percent physical either. There can be a mental component to it as well. This is why many women don't understand porn because they don't get into just the physical/visual aspects. Many people who enjoy such things enjoy it on all levels.
quote:Doesn't make you insecure mate. People who like their partners to be with other people usually have cockuld fetishes.
They enjoy seeing another man take possession of their women and they are made to feel inferior and insubordinate.
errrr.. no. my wife and i are swingers too and a cuckold fetish has nothing to do with it. when she's with another person, be it a guy or girl, i enjoy seeing her being pleasured and in the full throes of passion. as for those of you who take offense at it or if it makes your hackles rise, yeah, you are insecure.. no offense.
swinging is about sex and pleasure, not love. when we are with other men and women its a purely physical connection, thats all it is plain and simple. when i am making her feel good, its a completely different, it involves emotions. she can touch me on my arm with her fingers and it will reach me like no woman can sucking my dick. if you are secure in your relationship 100% and trust your spouse with all your soul, then seeing them with another person should not threaten you... well i did forget about throwing off the shackles of societal pressures and religious control.
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I've fantasized about it for as long as I can remember. Wife wants no part of it in reality but she has fantasized about it with me from time to time cause she knows it's a turn on for me.
Not sure I'd like it in real anyway in fact probably not.
Can't explain it but it sure gets me excited! No right or wrong here. Just the way some of us are.
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When my wife gives me FJ's, she teases me visually with sexy shoes, toe rings, sexy polish, etc, and; mentally by using stories of her giving FJ's to other men and of her friend giving me a FJ. It's an erotic fantasy that is just that...fantasy. It heightens the experience as a fantasy.
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Fantasies are natural and they are safe! My wife knows my desire to see her with another man and is willing to engage on the fantasy level. What more can I ask? I'm happy!
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quote:Originally posted by nusuth: swinging is about sex and pleasure, not love. when we are with other men and women its a purely physical connection, thats all it is plain and simple. when i am making her feel good, its a completely different, it involves emotions. she can touch me on my arm with her fingers and it will reach me like no woman can sucking my dick. if you are secure in your relationship 100% and trust your spouse with all your soul, then seeing them with another person should not threaten you...
quote:Originally posted by IFlyFA18s: When my wife gives me FJ's, she teases me visually with sexy shoes, toe rings, sexy polish, etc, and; mentally by using stories of her giving FJ's to other men and of her friend giving me a FJ. It's an erotic fantasy that is just that...fantasy.
That's VERY hot! I'd even be happy getting that from my wife-without her actually doing it!
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quote:Doesn't make you insecure mate. People who like their partners to be with other people usually have cockuld fetishes.
They enjoy seeing another man take possession of their women and they are made to feel inferior and insubordinate.
errrr.. no. my wife and i are swingers too and a cuckold fetish has nothing to do with it. when she's with another person, be it a guy or girl, i enjoy seeing her being pleasured and in the full throes of passion. as for those of you who take offense at it or if it makes your hackles rise, yeah, you are insecure.. no offense.
swinging is about sex and pleasure, not love. when we are with other men and women its a purely physical connection, thats all it is plain and simple. when i am making her feel good, its a completely different, it involves emotions. she can touch me on my arm with her fingers and it will reach me like no woman can sucking my dick. if you are secure in your relationship 100% and trust your spouse with all your soul, then seeing them with another person should not threaten you... well i did forget about throwing off the shackles of societal pressures and religious control.
This is spot-on. Wish I had written it myself. It sums up our situation perfectly.
quote:Originally posted by Patrick: I bet most the guys who find the idea of their woman fucking another guy would be up for her and another female going at it though. Either that, or both of them fucking him. What does it matter if some people are up for it either way? Kind of reminds me of the foot fetish as I hear people into feet telling me that smelling a girl's sweaty feet is nasty. To each their own as long as all involved enjoy it. I, myself, had talked with a previous girlfriend about her allowing a friend of mine who happens to be black (we were both white) to have some foot fetish fun with her. I secretly had hoped that it had went further though and I am pretty sure my girlfriend also knew that.
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Also very well said.
In our particular case, we love to play with other women, too. I love to watch Dee with another woman, and she like to watch me with another woman. The knife cuts both ways ... man or woman, we enjoy any situation that brings us intense sexual pleasure.
We also enjoy each other's company, just the two of us ... it doesn't have to be all threesomes, all the time. We're equals, we're partners, we're friends, we're lovers. We enjoy sensual experiences of every stripe.
I'm not a cuckold. I'm not submissive (not at all, actually). On the other hand, I am a hedonist.
quote:Originally posted by spartanguy: My wife knows my desire to see her with another man and is willing to engage on the fantasy level. !
lol what a shock
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