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communication is a big key also. another thing people told me on this forum!
mind you i tried with my ex and it always ended with arguing, anything concerning the relationship.
i have a new girlfriend now and its completely different. really chilled out and we talk about sex etc. a lot. it seems to help and we feel much more comfortable.
i told her about my foot fetish upfront. she thought it wasnt a big dea and has been asking questions etc. she seems willing to get into it but im not gonna rush into it or push her.
by the sounds of things you are doing a similar thing so your not doing anything wrong! you'vedone the best thing you can. try not to see it as an issue untill it really gets hopeless. thinking positive helps a lot too
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thank you lucky teen! ive been waiting many years for the opportunity! finding an easy going girl does make a huge difference and makes me want to love her in every way haha!
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I told my gf about my love for feet after our first date and we were texting and she said that she had a lesbian experience a while ago and hoped it didnt freak me out..i txt her back saying i have a foot fetish and hoped it didnt freak her out. she replied "thats hot and what do you like about feet?" She had never had her toes sucked and now loves it and gets turned on when she knows she can turn me on so fast with her feet. I used to not tell girls but the past few girls i dated up to my current gf i just throw it out there. I have had one girl not keep dating me and a great situation like i am in with my current gf.
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quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: I think you should just come out and admit it. If you can't see yourself being this bold, then you could give subtle hints. When the two of you are hanging out on the couch, massage/play with her feet.
wow! i do the same, i always give little hints like that then they say stuff like "i got pretty feet dont i"? then thats the usual moment i open up to her.
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