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i wont quote it all again, because it will be a monster comment lol.
i wasnt attacking you specifically, and i meant it in a non-defensive way. it was in response to the general vibe i was getting (not just from your post) that wives are millstones. it is more than possible that i misinterpreted what you were saying, and if thats the case i apologise. but i do think it is safe to say that you have a negative view about marriage, and it was that assertion that i was commenting on.
no offence intended
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quote:Originally posted by Michael P: any guy with a girlfriend or wife pays
That maybe true for most people, but I just don't see it that way. Over the years, I've heard that same old "song & dance" from so many different people (co-workers, relatives, associates, non-foot folks) who still say marriage isn't worth it. I honestly can't speak for myself {never been married} nor with regards to couples who actually share our fetish! Let's face it, there aren't any polls or studies being done on this phenomenon--@ least none that we know of. I also realize the divorce rate in America is 50% ~ But that's not gonna stop me from finding TRUE LOVE!!!!! But I digress...
Yes, I've paid before. ($100/hr)
We'll see if your singing the same tune after you've been married for five years.
Mikey P is right, your paying alright. When you consider the FULL costs i.e. time, energy, opportunity costs, in addition to all the money you put into the relationship and the money you stand to lose on the back end if it doesn't work out. It's the quintessential bad investment. The downside risk is too high and too probable.
If you want to waste your time and money -- go to Vegas.
maybe its naive if me, but i genuinely believe in true love and equal partnership. not all women are coniving, manipulative, high-maintenance wives who are just secretly after a juicey divorce settlement.
marriage is when you are saying to the world that you love this person so much, you dont want anyone else. i dont care what anyone else says, i think if youre counting up the 'time and energy' youre putting into a marriage (or any relationship for that matter) then you shouldnt be in it. marriage shouldnt be a chore, or looked at like an 'investment'...its hard not to revert to cliche, but id rather be a naive stereotypical optimist than an embittered pessimist.
thats just my 2c though.
would you marry a guy that will flip burgers for the rest of his life?
don't confuse being realistic with being a pessimist
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depends why he was flipping em. i couldnt love someone who had no drive or passion, so if it was a choice of pure laziness and lack of motivation, then it wouldnt be an issue. i wouldnt be attracted to them in the first place.
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depends why he was flipping em. i couldnt love someone who had no drive or passion, so if it was a choice of pure laziness and lack of motivation, then it wouldnt be an issue. i wouldnt be attracted to them in the first place.
what if flipping burger was what he loved to do?
could you tell your friends 'my husband flips burger for a living" if nothing made him happier?
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depends why he was flipping em. i couldnt love someone who had no drive or passion, so if it was a choice of pure laziness and lack of motivation, then it wouldnt be an issue. i wouldnt be attracted to them in the first place.
what if flipping burger was what he loved to do?
could you tell your friends 'my husband flips burger for a living" if nothing made him happier?
i couldnt give a fuck what my husband does for a living. we choose to marry people we are compatable with. as a person, i place very little value on money/possessions/'esteem' (in a business sense). if my husband had a passion for something, and it was economically viable (ie we could afford to feed ourselves, our kids and pay the mortgage) then go for it.
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quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa: (to Mike) - called love mate.
many factors determine whether you love or not love a person
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quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa: (to Mike) - called love mate.
many factors determine whether you love or not love a person
Money isn't one of them.
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there is a foot worship store in clearwater florida called Fantasy in Lingerie. its a lingerie store, but the employees will take you back and model them for 75$ plus tip. i've been a few times and got to worship the ladies feet each time.
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nope, i haven't. but i would pay then freak out more then likely, idk. but if i could pay someone, i would.
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