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I agree with Pjay. If someone would come to me with a story about an ex and what their "issue" was, my first question would be how long were you with that person after they found out and if it' more than a week then obviously they musat have gotten something out of it too. If it had been that bad, she would have run for cover as soon as she found out. yeah a woman scorned can be tough but in the end she will be the one who looks bad. I must admit I like the one about I sucked her toes and she sucked my d^%&* so what's the problem.
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quote:Originally posted by Mrlhf: Have any of you experienced this? What do you think?
Oh most definitely know how you feel. Here is a post I had made a while back (it is cut & pasted in quotes below) about a girl who was trying to sabatoge me by exposing my foot fetish to others. She was a heartless bitch too and thought i was a weirdo with many problems just cuz i liked her feet:
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.: I had some serious problems recently that backfired with respect to the idea of "having normal intimacy".
I met a girl 8 wks ago who also broke up with me recently.
Toward the end of our hookup she started to express more and more how my attachment to her feet was causing us more and more problems. And basically how I just phrased it in that last sentence was a very nice way of saying this. She had a much more harsh way of telling this to me and others around us.
She was often quoted telling me that "I couldn't f*ck" and telling her friends in front of me on the phone how "I need a foot to get hard". And she said these things in the most humiliating way possible to degrade what I liked, stating it almost objectively on the phone to her friends like "he needs me to step on his dick" or "he wants to lick and smell my feet" and saying it in a way like they should instantly understand her pain and what a sick freak I am.
And often, she personally told me that I was "too complicated". As much of a bitch this girl is, the one thing that was true about her was her blatent honesty factor and how she never hid behind a facad.
Anyway, I caught the brunt of this from her toward the end of our relationship. She's a pretty girl too and here is an image of her rolling her eyes one of the very last times I talked her into giving me a FootJob.
She really hated my perversions often due to the lack of intimacy and focus on pleasuring the male. She also hated the fact that I picked up other women (but it was a taste of her own medicine, that whore)
Just for background concerning my ability to meet her needs from a normal capacity, here are some facts: ** I gave her multiple orgasms often BTW (vaginal), when we 1st f*cked ** and 5-orgasms in one screw was my record for her. ** Things got worse when i started wanting the feet stuff too much in place of sex. ** She loved my dick though throughout ** and would rarely ever insult the little guy personally (even when taunted to) ** but usually only focused her degredations on my mind complications instead.
None of these problems would've ever happened if there was an easy way to make normal girls enjoy our kinks.
Are there any guys out there who have successful methods of taking a typical gal off the streets and getting her to sexually enjoy our (often one-sided) acts of fetishism? I am pleading to know some of the methods used out there to makes converts of these type of everyday women when it comes to introducing them to fetish.
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Thanks everyone for the encouraging posts! To add alittle more information to the subject I ended up staying with this woman for 10 yrs before I finally go out. We had 2 children together and I raised her son from birth to age 9. It took me a long time to realize that this was a person that was incapable of genuine love for anyone. By nature I'm a giver and she's a classic taker.I am now aware that you can give too much of yourself to a person and God help you if that person is unworthy of you love and trust! Be careful who you share your innermost feelings with!
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Happened to me too, man. Glad to see a bunch of you guys had a similar problem. The woman is a complete bitch and thinks she's better than anyone. Any idea she's ever had is hers whether she took it from somewhere else or not. And she's out to get me pretty much any chance she gets. I wasn't that great to her towards the end, but when her biggest blow to me was to tell a ton of people that I'm into feet?
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My ex 'outed' me many times whilst I was with her...I didn't care, I'm extremely happy and at ease with my love of female feet.
And I stuck with her for years because she had feet to die for...sexy size 7.5 (UK) and she always painted them sex red.
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yep happened to me 9 years ago, with an ex. We had mutual friends, and that was one of the things she told everyone, i didnt deny it, i actually just completely owned up to it, and it made me feel alot more free about it, and opening up to women that i dated later
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i had a girl I used to date pull that, but everybody already knew about my fetish, so it didn't matter. A situation that kinda bothered me, but not much, was when a girl I know, who knows about my fetish but that I have never been involved with in any way, made sure my fetish was known to another girl that I was halfway interested in. That kinda torqued me off, but the girl already knew too, so no biggie there, either...
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I had an ex of mine start taking the mick out of me at a party which I wasn't attending, imitating the footjob she gave me and saying how I was weird and the act was weird. Well. I'd feel bad but actually she's the one who gave me a footjob (which was pretty damn good) and also the people she spread it to weren't worth shit anyway. So... Yeah. Doesn't bother me.
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