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Its not cheating. What are you supposed to do when its their time of the month, or they're just don't want sex? Wait until they're ready? As long as another woman isn't physically involved, its not cheating.
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quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: 3) The male body retains semen for a maximum of 3 day and then it is passed on to be expelled in the urine. Conclusion: Sperm has a "shelf-life", why not have some fun since you're going to throw it away, anyway?
Exactly, that's why if you don't empty your balls once in a while you will wake up from a "wet dream" one night. I think I experienced that maybe once in my life.
A friend of mine that is about 10 years my junior told me he had never wacked off in his entire life when he was 19 years old. I told him that it was humanly impossible and then he mentioned that he would have wet dreams every few weeks. Shortly after that he got his first girlfriend, lost his virginity, and became a real male whore.
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I dont think it's cheating. Besides this is the wrong place to ask because even if it was, most people on here wouldn't admit it. Alot of married/in a relationship members are here for masterbatory purposes anyway!!!
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quote:Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05: A poll would have been good but perhaps unecessary as we almost unanimously claim it to be not cheating.
Maybe those of us in a relationship should asks are wives/girlfriends if they believe its cheating? I'll ask mine and see what she thinks.
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quote:Originally posted by FtLckr26: Its not cheating. What are you supposed to do when its their time of the month, or they're just don't want sex? Wait until they're ready? As long as another woman isn't physically involved, its not cheating.
I concur. Dude, you do what you have to do to make it through the dry spells. Watching videos, DVD, mags, webpages, etc. and doing your thing is not cheating. It is just that simple. When you over think it that is when you get all confused and start second guessing yourself. I see nothing wrong with spanking the monkey from time to time and it feels good.
-------------------- V/R, FM9 aka Mr. Footbooty "She had real pretty feet. I was always a sucker for pretty little feet... Outside of her being pretty and hip, with a good body, her feet is what attracted me." - p. 39 of "Miles" (Davis) The Autobiography Posts: 8821 | Registered: Sep 2003
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i find it best to use an old measure.. ask the woman you're with if it's cheating. if it is to her.. than it's cheating. if it's not.. then it's not.
trust me.. each woman is different.. and that can be hard to gage.
as for me.. i never fancied masterbating. i've been made fun of for saying this in the past. i've not done it. don't have the fancy to do it.
makes it easier, now married. when she doesn't want it.. i don't have to go jerk off. besides.. to my wife. it is almost like cheating. the only time for her it's no biggie is if you're donating sperm for later use inside the marriage.
jerking off to porn.. to vids of women... cheating. by yourself... when wifee is away.. depends on the woman.... by yourself single.. that depends on your conciousness interpretation of religious morales.
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I neglected to mention that, in my early youth, I read an article mentioning that masturbation was probably good for prostate health as it prevents semen from filling your prostate (where it is stored). I always regarded this as doing something truly fun for my health. Rarely missed a day without at least one orgasm. Decades later, I have the prostate of someone half my age...I should probably give it back, he's likely to need it more than I.
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quote:Originally posted by RPM: i find it best to use an old measure.. ask the woman you're with if it's cheating. if it is to her.. than it's cheating. if it's not.. then it's not.
trust me.. each woman is different.. and that can be hard to gage.
as for me.. i never fancied masterbating. i've been made fun of for saying this in the past. i've not done it. don't have the fancy to do it.
makes it easier, now married. when she doesn't want it.. i don't have to go jerk off. besides.. to my wife. it is almost like cheating. the only time for her it's no biggie is if you're donating sperm for later use inside the marriage.
jerking off to porn.. to vids of women... cheating. by yourself... when wifee is away.. depends on the woman.... by yourself single.. that depends on your conciousness interpretation of religious morales.
RPM
yea it depends on your wife and her views i suppose.
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alot of guys will jerk off while in a relationship/married without thinking twice. i think it's safe to say that the few who won't because they think it's cheating (edit: have been told its cheating by their gf/wife) definately want to when apart from their partner. my gf knows this and sends me pics of her feet if i ask, she knows what i'll do with them!
but like you just said it does depend on the gf/wife's views.
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I go to bat all the time, and my wife knows it. She is cool about it. Dont get me wrong I would much rather have foot play with her and sex but there is no way I would consider masturbation cheating.
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God if its considered cheating, then I cheat on my husband nightly.
Oddly enough - he knows and could care less. (he works nights) but... he doesnt. He hates it. Even when we are going at it- hand play on him is something he doesnt care for at all. Who knows, I try not to disect it much. It's not a big deal.
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No its not cheating, Cheating would be carnal knowledge of another person in some way. You taking out your sexual frustrations without cheating so relax dude and keep crankin'
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