quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: i've never heard the media describe somebody with a foot fetish as a pervert unless it was one of those guys who violated a girls feet
Wow, wish I had been so blessed about never hearing those blasphemies about innocent individuals or even against the overall group. I haven't been though.
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: you seemed to like being thought of as a perve, heck you admitted to telling some of your chicks to make disgusted faces while you take pics licking their feet
now all of a sudden you don't want to be thought of as a perve
It's a delicate thing, so let me resolve the assumptive confusion hopefully once and for all, but I'm sure it will come up again. **sigh** okay where to start... let's see, I kinda like reality, or more accurately speaking, I am able to accept it without too much personal pride or denial getting in the way. I try to look at many things in life objectively and with that, I'll say it allows me to have a certain level of appreciation that does not necessarily equate to enjoyment persay, let's just call it appreciation of fact.
By appreciating reality, I am able to identify better with the probable liklihood for a foot fetishist's encounter with the typical woman. Chances are more probably that disgust will eminate from such an encounter taking into account all foot fetishist's in the world and doing the math on what is likely to happen.
To me, this average statistic represents reality, or greater liklihood. Do I necessarily like the outcome... no. Do I accept it and move on with it for the sake of identification purposes, yes.
I enjoy the statistical representation more-so than the specific outcome itself. I accept it and make it a more believable part of my fantasy simply because logic dictates to my thinking mind, that this is more believable.
A lot of people should at least identify with some level of the reality porn theme cuz it permeates the web in so many different forms. Anyway, that is trend nowadays, and that is my little piece of how I plug into it's appeal.
I like the statistically representative aspect of it rather than the specific act of being a freak, however since they are so closely related and basically one in the same it is easy to assume that if you like one of them, that you in fact like both.
Problem is that for those who only like the statistical representation, it is kinda hard to masterbate to chalk writings on a blackboard, so we make it real by imagining a scenario congruent with the math. I hope I'm making sense here, cuz this is kinda hard for me to explain. But I don't like being a freak; I simply accept the likely probability that I will be seen that way by most of society.
Also, the act of not being bothered by a fact does not necessarily equate to enjoyment of said fact. My acceptance of reality does not have to mean I am jumping for joy over it. Reality is only a validating subset of my overall fantasies. The other subsets are in fact more important, which generally consist of me licking and sniffing a hot girl's feet, (with or without representative foot fetish probability in play).
Yeah, I know, my mind is finnicky and I am complicated when it comes to fantasies, but women have already made this resoundingly clear to me and I just deal with that too.
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chicks don't think it is perverted, they just think it is a little strange at first because THEY AREN'T USED TO IT
if a chick is into you a little foot play will not be perverted in her mind
maybe you overdo the whole foot thing, i could've sworn you said you prefer footjobs over actual intercourse, that can't be good for HER needs so maybe that creeps her out, the fact that you choose feet over pussy
also i think that last girlfriend you had who bashed your fetish to her friends has made you insecure and bitter
maybe tone down the fetish somewhat, tend to her needs a little more and try not to let one bad experience get you down
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quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: if a chick is into you a little foot play will not be perverted in her mind
undoubtedly true. now i wish that were the statistical probability for our brethren (including lurkers) i usually don't have the said problem above (personally). that's why i have to tell them to seem weirded or disgusted many times so that I can live vicariously through others. the girl in this thread was a pleasant exception.
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: also i think that last girlfriend you had who bashed your fetish to her friends has made you insecure and bitter
maybe tone down the fetish somewhat, tend to her needs a little more and try not to let one bad experience get you down
yeah, true, but damn near all my other experiences with girls have been way too good, so i think that last girl was just a fluke. besides, she had multiple personalities and was on crack. pretty sure it was her and not me, LOL!
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i usually don't have the said problem above (personally). that's why i have to tell them to seem weirded or disgusted many times so that I can live vicariously through others. the girl in this thread was a pleasant exception.
