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I never fully indulged into my foot fetish fantasy, but I have the opportunity to. Since I'm not talking to any girls sexually at the moment. There's a women near my area who is willing ti indulge into foot worships, foot job, shoe job etc, but I have to pay. I don't want to which is the problem. I've NEVER payed for any sexual activity from a women in my life. I feel as if I do...a lit bit of me will die inside. What would you do?
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So you're at $115 and you may not even get anything but a kiss. So what's wrong with paying $50 or $75 bucks to worship a pair of beautiful feet? You can mold her into the kind of goddess you want (dominant/submissive, talkative/quiet), you can maybe video, take pics, etc...
I'm always amazed as guys who think paying for sex is some kind of cardinal sin and they draw a HUGE line there.
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And Jerking off alone imagining what it would be like is better? Im gunna be that asshole on this one, but if a little bit died in me every time I paid I would be dead years ago, But fuck it atleast I am living Posts: 220 | Registered: Jan 2009
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quote:Originally posted by combine_hunter: I'd get her price down as low as I could.
Or I'd just go without.
ehh...I guess
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quote:Originally posted by ucflyeah: Man, let's look at a typical date.
Dinner: $50 Movie: $25 Drinks: $40
So you're at $115 and you may not even get anything but a kiss. So what's wrong with paying $50 or $75 bucks to worship a pair of beautiful feet? You can mold her into the kind of goddess you want (dominant/submissive, talkative/quiet), you can maybe video, take pics, etc...
I'm always amazed as guys who think paying for sex is some kind of cardinal sin and they draw a HUGE line there.
You have a point, but the difference is...I'm not paying for any sexual activity up front directly. I think when guys do pay for any type of sexual activity it makes them look madd desperate. Btw this person is charging... $150.
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quote:Originally posted by curly09: And Jerking off alone imagining what it would be like is better? Im gunna be that asshole on this one, but if a little bit died in me every time I paid I would be dead years ago, But fuck it atleast I am living
But still..
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$150 is high. I made my fetish quite known with most the ladies I meet. I wound up finding a girl that would let me do whatever with her feet, as long as she didn't have to do anything, and I would give her $20 and download some music for her. I know that price is low compared to most that pay, but consider it as paying for her time, not her feet. Realistically, I would think, depending on where you live, $50 should be enough unless you're recording everything.
quote:Originally posted by Doc Ock: I never fully indulged into my foot fetish fantasy, but I have the opportunity to. Since I'm not talking to any girls sexually at the moment. There's a women near my area who is willing ti indulge into foot worships, foot job, shoe job etc, but I have to pay. I don't want to which is the problem. I've NEVER payed for any sexual activity from a women in my life. I feel as if I do...a lit bit of me will die inside. What would you do?
I know what you mean. I was facing a similar possibility a long time ago (like 15 years ago!). I too felt like a bit of me would die. It's like cheating (in the game sense). I didn't go through with it. I just think now that explaining what I did years ago to my girlfriend now would be tough and she'd rightfully think less of me.
I held off. Just socialised more, met more people. Going to parties did it for me. The number one method of getting some is to be at a party with a girl sat lying on the couch, 9/10 they've put their feet on my lap asking for a foot rub. That's how I met my first long term girlfriend too haha.
I can't put my finger on what makes paying for stuff like that wrong, it just does, doesn't it? It makes it too easy.
Disclaimer: I consider myself an average family man.
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If you are going to give a dance you have got be willing to pay the band! ------------------------------------------ I remember by in the 1990s I paid four women at least $20-$65 just to play with their feet and I also most of the time got sex too, in Ohio. Right now, I live in Reno and I am looking for some foot action. while living in Oregon I got free foot action but no sex.
quote:Originally posted by kingler: I can't put my finger on what makes paying for stuff like that wrong, it just does, doesn't it? It makes it too easy.
Disclaimer: I consider myself an average family man.
It's the male ego, if you put a lot of effort into it you feel rewarded or like you've earned it. Funny thing is you're paying for it either way, one is up front and the other just involves a third party handling the money all night long.
Paying for it up front gets you exactly what you want, when you want it. The other way might get you a "Ew, don't look at my feet" after you've invested a lot of time and money.
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I agree with kingler. The same ends can be met by talking to girls, getting to know them and them getting to know you and then having her get comfortable being around you.
While some may argue that time is money or that you have to "take a girl out" - i.e. dating - to accomplish this is, in my opinion, a thing society has conjured up and deemed as what's "acceptable". Think about the whole aspect of "dating". You, as a guy, are, basically, saying to a girl, "I don't think you'll accept me or hang out with me purely based on the fact that I'm a cool/interesting person so I'm going to bribe you with a dinner and/or movie so that you'll spend time with me and, hopefully, I'll win your approval somehow and I'll be more acceptable to you." The whole thing is a farce from the get go!
There are things guys can do that can get a girl involved with them and it doesn't cost money. Taking a walk around the neighborhood, sitting down and people watching, or going to a park to throw a frisbee are just a few things that come to mind that you can do with a girl that doesn't cost a penny. All they involve are time and, something which I find is more and more lacking in today's world, social skills.
There have been a number of girls that I have gotten to know over the years who have started off as just friends and, through hanging out with them and doing things that don't cost anything, have turned into friends with foot fetish benefits. It sure beats the hell out of paying $100, $50, or even $20, for a quick fix every time there's an urge to get the old foot freak on.
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quote:Originally posted by ucflyeah: Man, let's look at a typical date.
Dinner: $50 Movie: $25 Drinks: $40
So you're at $115 and you may not even get anything but a kiss. So what's wrong with paying $50 or $75 bucks to worship a pair of beautiful feet? You can mold her into the kind of goddess you want (dominant/submissive, talkative/quiet), you can maybe video, take pics, etc...
I'm always amazed as guys who think paying for sex is some kind of cardinal sin and they draw a HUGE line there.
Huge difference.
If one of these pros would consider having the children of one of her johns after he paid her to have ex with her feet then I'd think you'd have a point. If those pros truly respected these men as potential lovers then I'd say you had a point.
Guys that secretly die inside after paying do so because they know she doesn't respect him. They know its not he same. They know they've finally accepted the fact that they aren't competing in the game and now have to resort to a form of cheating. Not to be confused with the guy that has women at his disposal but simply wants no strings attached drama free hookups. But those guys usually don't report dying inside when paying.
I'd love to hear a story where a guy that lacked success with women..started paying and all of a sudden started to become more successful with women. It won't happen. Invest in yourself......not even monetarily but time wise. Ask "why don't I have the relationships I want with women" and fix it.
Or...pay for foot worship for a chic that likely fucks your unemployed neighbor and buys him dinner with your cash.
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