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I've often wondered how much to women really know how feet are sensuous and attract attention? As a foot guy I've realized that some women are just natural foot flirts, they know how to pose their feet, they know how to dangle their shoes, they dip their feet in and out of their shoes, and they wiggle their toes. Some women seem to understand that men are attracted to feet and they are really good at it!
I personally believe that most men have a foot fetish to some degree. It may be very minor such as liking their girl to wear heels or it may be more kinky, like myself, where I like stocking feet and want to rub, kiss and munch on pretty feet and toes. Whether women want to admit it or not, I believe they understand this on some level. How could they not realize this? Women buy tons of shoes; they wear cute socks or tights, they get pedicures and paint their toes, and they usually take care of their feet. They can't just do all this for themselves; they want to attract attention. I think that foot flirting is partly just the natural response to attraction; similar to how a girl flirting with you will flip her hair, smile and laugh, and sit with an open posture. I've noticed it when I'm talking to a girl who's really relaxed that they foot flirt much more. However, I think there are women who understand this on a whole different level.
My personal belief is that some girls understand from a young age they have pretty feet and notice how men are attracted to them. I think some women are just sexually in tune with what men want; think of a woman like Sofia Vergara who could walk into a room and turn every man's head. I am pretty sure that she would know how to foot flirt and it would be part of her natural charms.
I also think some women who are not as naturally gifted in the sexuality department discover foot attraction. I have known a lot of women who are not drop dead knockouts but have pretty feet and tend to understand how to use them.
I knew a girl in college who everybody used to call "Sarah" (like Sarah tall and boring) because she was kind of plain and average looking. I absolutely loved her because she was so funny and she had some of the prettiest feet I have ever seen. Not only did she have pretty feet but she always seemed to be playful, dipping her feet in and out of her shoes, wearing flip flops with pretty painted toes. Even when she was presenting a project, she just knew how to pose her feet as she was standing and talking to the class. She was just an amazing foot flirt! Another example is a women who I work with who is a very, very petite Filipino woman; she is literally 85 lbs sopping wet. She a really cute lady however she is tiny and flat as a board; she is not a curvy woman at all. One day she had to speak to me and a few of my colleagues and we went into her office. As she sat on her desk I noticed that she started dangling her shoe off her foot revealing a great high arch. She had super small size 6 feet and I was struggling to be professional and keep looking her in the eyes as she playfully dangled her shoe just a few feet away from me! Later as we were talking at the printer she completely took her foot out of her shoe and revealed some of the prettiest painted toes. I couldn't help but look down and get a look at her pretty feet at that moment, unprofessional or not! This women doesn't have big boobs or a big butt however I think she found a way to attract attention using the natural assets God gave her, pretty feet.
This is kind of a deep topic, I know. Can anyone relate to this? Has anybody knew a girl who used their feet to attract attention? I know I can't be imagining this.
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I would say that is not the case for the most part. I believe most women are into shoes as they like how they look on themselves. I would say for most ladies no different than them being into different purses and bags. Its an accessory that goes with an outfit. I think they are far more concerned with what their female friends think of their shoes and pedicures than hoping that there is some guy out there that is leching on her feet as she pops them in and out of her shoe.
Not trying to be negative, but just realistic. Not to say that this doesn't happen, but I don't think its quite done for those reasons as most foot guys would hope to convince ourselves that it is. Now, I would say that a lady that has been "corrupted" by a foot guy she dated or was married to in her past would be totally aware of it. However, I doubt she is sitting down enjoying her latte in a cafe while reading a book unconsciously doing a little shoeplay in hopes to attract a man.
Hope I'm not coming across as a bit of a "Debbie Downer." The bright side is though that pretty much any woman that you would be going out with will pretty much allow you to have your way with her feet if she is into you too. Thus where the actual foot teasing comes into play because they know how you're wired and what turns you on.
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As a woman, I have to agree with LaDaemon. I think women get pedicures because they want their feet to look nice, just as they do when they get manicures for their hands. It's as simple as that, not to attract attention.
Shoes are exactly what LaDaemon mentioned, an accessory to go with an outfit.
Any time I have shoe-played ,or whatever you want to call it, it was done as absent-mindedly as swinging my leg, or tapping my fingers. I have never once thought that I may be enticing some guy with my feet.
Now, in the past three years since being involved with a foot guy and am aware of these things I am conscious of it. I don't shoe-play, or dangle, unless it's for my boyfriend. But, that's me, personally. I don't want the attention from anyone except him. Nor do I want to come on a forum like this and find a pic of my feet some random person took as I'm popping out of my shoes. Lol But, for my boyfriend, I will polish my nails however he likes, wear shoes he likes, tease him with my feet because I know he likes it, and I am totally into him. And, I love the attention from him. It's a lot of fun. But, I wasn't aware of any of it before him.
This is not to say I don't believe any women aren't aware of the power of their feet over a man. There are most definitely some women who are aware, and who like the attention. I just don't think it's the majority.
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From my experience with opening up to well over 100 women in the age range from 19 to 45 over the years, women are aware of foot fetishism. I've rubbed, smelled, licked, sucked, and fucked the feet of everything from escorts, to bar flies, to the quiet bookworm college girl.
Most escorts will tell you that foot fetishism is very common and mild in comparison to other things that guys are into. Even girls that I've met on dating sites have experience from former boyfriends or getting hit on bc of their feet. They'll also say that there's more sicker shit out there that guys are into from their experience, or from word of mouth.
LeDaemon pretty much nailed it.
Women are self conscious of their feet, and prefer being barefoot. That's why we see so many flip flops/sandals, shoe playing/popping, etc..., plus bc they're trendy. Women expect to have their feet judged by men and women, and more likely not sexually. That's why they get pedicures. Now I'm not saying that there aren't any women out there getting the pedicures and working the shoes bc of a boyfriend with a foot fetish, or to attract foot guys. It's just not as common.
I've had women tell me to please not judge their feet bc they haven't had a pedicure, and even ones with pedicures have told me that they aren't really fond of their feet.
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I haven't had a chance to stop by lately and catch up on my post here.
Interesting that most people on this forum do not think women know about their foot power. I agree that I don't think women consciously wear shoes and play with their feet solely to attract attention from men but I guess the point I was trying to make is that I think subconsciously some women are really good at it and I think they understand that it does attract attention.
I found this article where a foot dominatrix talks about her job. She has a small paragraph where she talks about most women have a foot fetish and don't even know it. I'm not trying to argue my point, just sharing my view and I'm surprised that in this foot environment there aren't more people who can relate to it. There are times I would see a girl at work or school and swear she knew how her foot play was driving me crazy. This is a really interesting article that's actually from a women's magazine.
quote:Originally posted by luvstockingfeet: I haven't had a chance to stop by lately and catch up on my post here.
Interesting that most people on this forum do not think women know about their foot power. I agree that I don't think women consciously wear shoes and play with their feet solely to attract attention from men but I guess the point I was trying to make is that I think subconsciously some women are really good at it and I think they understand that it does attract attention.
If they're doing it (shoeplaying) subconsciously, then that means they're not consciously doing it to attract attention.
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I do feel that women today are more understanding and accepting of men with foot fetishes than, say 30-40 years ago. Most of the women in my office know about my fetish, and don't seem to mind it.
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Girls are generally more open and it's not something weird anymore if it even was something weird at all. I really can tell as I've got contact with many of them
quote: Not trying to be negative, but just realistic. Not to say that this doesn't happen, but I don't think its quite done for those reasons as most foot guys would hope to convince ourselves that it is. Now, I would say that a lady that has been "corrupted" by a foot guy she dated or was married to in her past would be totally aware of it. However, I doubt she is sitting down enjoying her latte in a cafe while reading a book unconsciously doing a little shoeplay in hopes to attract a man.
That about sums it up.
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