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There's this girl I have a bit of a crush on at college, even though she's naive to me sometimes I still find her cute and very appealing.
But there is a problem among all the other issues i'm finding along the way, she doesn't like feet, and by that I mean nearly a phobia of feet.
So if I actually did go out with her that would mean I will have gone from a girl who let me do ANYTHING to her feet, not to mention having beautifully perfect feet to a girl who probably won't even let me touch her feet let alone see them. Oye, girls are weird and I miss feet, but I miss girls more. :shrugs:
but at this junction.. you can always walk away and find someone esle.. imagine you went on and pursued a relationship.. and she never lightened up about.. worse.. you tried to ignore your desire and push the relationship long term..
that topic can be the source of friction for the boht of you in the future and being it means so much to you.. you can be quite unhappy and resentment can fill in from both parties.
so.s. at tthis point.. reall think hard before getting more emotionally entangled and one of you get hurt.
is she''s totally opposed.. you're not in a good situation.
I still remember my early days.. my lady was a 'thou shalt not touch my feet' gal.. but she was curious.. i can work with curiosity! i can't deal with 'phobia' like fear of feet
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RPM got it right by saying that friction will inevitably occur. You would always push the subject while she would always shoot it down therefore causing you unhappiness, and what is a relationship without happiness.
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quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: You would always push the subject while she would always shoot it down therefore causing you unhappiness, and what is a relationship without happiness.
I agree, you saved yourself a lot of frustration.
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Man here's my advice, if you love so much feet and you're going to be with a girl that is not going to let you play with her, man you can't be with here because then you'll be looking to satisfy that part of your soul, and that means probably cheating o her, going to hookers, and you know all i mean, so we this type of comunity if we want to be happy with our selfs we have to find people that either, don't matter about too much attention to her feet or girls that are totally inn foot action.
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That's too bad, because those French toes are the perfect nail length, I mean absolutely perfect. Simply gorgeous. But stick with it, if she likes you, she will eventually open up to you. You just need to be patient. Let us know if it works out.
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I guess you just need to decide how much you want feet in any relationship that you have.
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Give it time. Things may change. nelieve me, women can change their minds about things. A lot of it has to do with how she feels about you. Make her love you and I am sure she will compromise.
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quote:Originally posted by nylonfootsniffer: Give it time. Things may change. nelieve me, women can change their minds about things. A lot of it has to do with how she feels about you. Make her love you and I am sure she will compromise.
I agree with nylon
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nylon is up to something.. however.. she may not get as into it as if she was already open to the foot idea..
i have a friend who loves her man to death!! been married several years and have a couple of kids. she has always hated feet.. and if she allows him to touch.. he must first wash with soap before re-touching her (even if she just got out of the shower at the time he touched her feet). he's learned to live with that.. and he's one of us!
she just flat out hate feet!! and finds hers to be the ugliest ever.. if you see her feet.. you'll drool.. one of the finest sets of feet i've ever seen!!!! ever!!!! you can't touch or anything!! period.
so.. there you have it.. some women can change their minds... you've got to ask yourself.. are you willing to risk she not changing her mind!
you're not involved with her yet (if i read correctly).. so you have options. if you were already hooked up.. i'd say.. go the way of nylonfootsniffer's comments
But there is a problem among all the other issues i'm finding along the way, she doesn't like feet, and by that I mean nearly a phobia of feet.
Bit of an awkward one this, it mainly depends on how much you need feet in your relationship.
I remember first starting out with my girlfriend, and how i would suck her toes during sex, she probably thought nothing of it at the time as she was so wrapped up in being fu*ked, and did not really care where i kissed or licked her.
Over time i would gradually continue to express interest in her feet til the point where she would joke "you have a thing for my feet!" I am now fully open with her about having a crazy fetish for feet which she does her best to meet.
Its a shame you have already mentioned feet with her as you could have got with her and subtly introduced your fetish the same way I did, e.g kissing her toes whilst doing her in missionary with her legs/feet up around your shoulders. She may not even notice if she is enjoying being poled so much.
If she is a complete and utter "anti foot girl" I would not bother as you will cause yourself frustration.
Had to edit quickly, you old gals toes are horny with the french!
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No dude, I think this can work. I have dated many a woman who did not like their feet being touched...till I showed them what's up. For starters, women look at sex completely different then men. If a girl is really really into you and feels comfortable that you appreciate her for her, and ALL of her-she will be down. I have gotten tons of feet. It may take a while for trust to develop, but it works. I'm usually the first guy to suck on their toes-and I'd honestly say 99.9% LOVED it. At first becasue I liked it, but it made them realize they were overlooking another part of their body that was very sensitive. Any person with medical knowledge will tell you there are Tons of nerve endings on the feet. Annd the biggest sex organ in men and women is the brain. It all starts there.
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