Been a member for a long time but never really posted.
I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, and it's going well. She doesn't know I have a foot fetish, and I am too shy to tell her because she hates her feet and always wears socks when she is around me, so I've never got to see them properly.
But anyway, I always hold her feet an ask why she always has socks on, and put them in my lap and stuff, and the other day she started rubbing me with her foot(Just for a laugh) and I kept telling her how good it felt.
Now she always kinda giggles when I take her feet now, so I have a feeling she might know I like her feet.
Has anyones girlfriends ever geussed your fetish before you've told them or should I just go ahead an tell her?
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The first time you have to do this is really scarry and awful - but it has to be done.
its a dumb thing to say, but honesty is the best policy !
frankly, being dishonest can lead to really horrible and awkward situations.
if you love the girl just tell her - if she loves you she will make the effort to understand - if not, well at least you didnt waste all of your time on a person who is a little closed minded - or just not right for you .
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i don't know how you guys date girls before seeing their feet
that personality stuff is overrated
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Sounds like you're headed in the right direction man! You've given her some good hints, but now is the time to tell her. Don't demand lots of foot-fun at first though, let it be a slow, steady increase.
I'd encourage her at first just to lose the socks and start going barefoot as much as possible. Great opportunity for comebacks to things like "my feet get cold" (I'll keep them warm (by holding/massaging) or top start explaning your attraction by meeting her objections if she thinks her feet aren't pretty.
Then in the springtime, encourage her to wear sandals and flip-flops, maybe even offer to pay for a pedicure for her.
And of course, anytime you're talking in a non-sexual setting hopefully the subject will come up and you can share some of your likes with her. She'll soon start to understand the depth and breadth of your love of feet.
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Thanks Guys, all this has really made me feel like I am not the only person in the world who has a foot fetish, thank god for this site! Havnt really found the chance to talk to her about it, but hopefully going to happen. Shes coming to mine tomorrow and is sleeping, and I asked her to wear a skirt (Plus usualy short skirt = no socks) and she will have a shower. I have seen them definately painted through her socks so I am looking forward to it. And I do feel close enough to tell her about it now, I know she wont run off to all her friends and have a laugh about it or anything so its just a matter of when I tell her really which will come soon enough.
Thanks again guys!
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(Plus usualy short skirt = no socks) and she will have a shower. I have seen them definately painted through her socks so I am looking forward to it.
