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Its funny, I always look thru the old post before I check out the most recent ones. Ok, reading lots of the older, and one recent, post it seems as if plenty people have problems admitting thier foot fetish to a lover or just really don't know how to. In the few relationships I've been in, I have discovered that if a woman has a very high interest in you, she'll wanna know about the things you like, so she could slowly but surely turn herself into those things. Just to keep you focused and only wanting to be with them. Think about it, when most ask you what do you look for in a girl physically, many listen to your list and automatically start to see if they match up to what you are saying. I use that chance right there and say, " I don't really care for physical things but she CAN'T have ugly feet." The response is usually a laugh as if I just told a joke or something but then comes curiousity. "What if she has a smokin' hott body and her feet are kinda beat up?" I say "nope, still can't do it." Usually next would be an breif look at her feet followed by "Do you think mine are ugly?" and there you have it. Most are happy to know thier feet are admired. Most, if they have unkept feet will put up a fight and say mean things to see if you can be pushed over and use something else to direct your attention way from thier feet. In those situations, like I said If she has a high level of interest in you, she may seem sketchy about it all, but soon enough she will eventually cater to it regardless of her personal views. But its always easier to tell them, I think when you first meet by way of simply asking "What physical qualities on men are they attracted to?" When they answer, more than likely they will answer and say"...what about you what, physical qualities do you look for on a woman?" and there you go. I dunno, I think that should help some if not any. Every girl I've dated didn't necessarily have a thing for thier feet getting any attention, but since they liked me so much, they put thier personal veiws aside and catered to what makes me happy. Sometime you have to compromise something for them but don't compromise your dignity by any means, but only just enough to get what you want. Sorry so long.
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