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I have always been a foot fetishist, and have been jacking to it online for nearly 10 years. But recently, I went to my first foot fetish party, and could not get a boner. Looking back on it, I think it was because I had to pay money, in a sense making them essentially whores and the "party" nothing but a thinly veiled brothel. And I had been looking forward to it for a month. But I will also add it was one of my first sexual encounters, and I didn't get much ass prior. Am I the only one, who thinks anything sexual is far less sexy when you pay for it? I think this because then anyone can get it, and its not as "special"
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and i do find feet sexy in all realms as long as they are hot, and attached to a hottie, so I know it is not a lack of fetish
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I've never had to pay for anything sexual, but i'd imagine it's not satisfying. I think thats the case mostly because theres no chase. The most fun thing about sex in my humble opinion is the "dance" that two personalities do before anything gets physical. The chase. The push and pull between the guy and girl. The anticipation of gratification or the disappointment of rejection. It's a blast! Without that it's no fun. Not to mention the damage your ego does to your self esteem if paying for sex is your only option.
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another reason could be that the party is displayed all in public. not to say that you cant get enjoyment in public, but for a guy like myself i dont think i would enjoy those parties because i want privacy. also everyone else has touched the girls as well. so your getting sloppy seconds and so forth.
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I'll chime in here, as I've been to several foot parties before. Hell, that in itself ought to tell you something: I love foot parties. The whole thing about getting "sloppy seconds" is misconstrued, as the girls clean their feet (or you can do it for them) after a session. At least, that's how it is at the Foot Night parties I go to here in L.A. The biggest thing for me though is the variety, and the fact that the girls there are willing to accomodate your tastes. If you like nylons, girls will carry several pairs of nylons with them. If you like being trampled, they'll trample you. If you like to roleplay, like myself, they'll roleplay with you. Just as long as you keep your dick in your pants and your hands below her thigh, between waist and busom, and above the collarbone, your good.
Personally, I think the guys who don't enjoy themselves there are guys who were expecting too much (foot jobs, etc.), really value their privacy, or like GQGuy says, get their biggest kick out of the chase. As for me, there's a party coming up in January out here, and I'm for damn sure gonna be there.
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I think the whole payment thing would put a damper on my enjoyment, but that's not the biggest issue.
quote:Originally posted by ghost: another reason could be that the party is displayed all in public. not to say that you cant get enjoyment in public, but for a guy like myself i dont think i would enjoy those parties because i want privacy. also everyone else has touched the girls as well. so your getting sloppy seconds and so forth.
This is exactly why I wouldn't go to a party if I were single.
I know that the girls clean their feet between sessions, but it would still be in the back of my mind that some other guy had slobbered all over 'em. Also, I prefer a woman's feet to smell (and not like witch hazel).
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quote:Originally posted by Wing-Washer: I think the whole payment thing would put a damper on my enjoyment, but that's not the biggest issue.
quote:Originally posted by ghost: another reason could be that the party is displayed all in public. not to say that you cant get enjoyment in public, but for a guy like myself i dont think i would enjoy those parties because i want privacy. also everyone else has touched the girls as well. so your getting sloppy seconds and so forth.
This is exactly why I wouldn't go to a party if I were single.
I know that the girls clean their feet between sessions, but it would still be in the back of my mind that some other guy had slobbered all over 'em . Also, I prefer a woman's feet to smell (and not like witch hazel).
I always find it funny when a guy complains about the cleanliness of feet...they're feet! Especially guys into smelly feet.lol
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quote:Originally posted by John Michaels: Am I the only one, who thinks anything sexual is far less sexy when you pay for it?
I'm not sure, but me personally I think it is far more sexy and gets a more honest propensity for her reaction when I pay for it.
Here's a brief breadcrumb trail of how I got there:
1) Generally speaking, if one has to pay for sexual favors with a woman, it means that she would not give it to you for free.
2) And generally speaking, if she won't give it to you for free, there is a higher probability that she is disgusted by you.
3) If she is disgusted by you, there is a higher probably that you can reminisce on those feelings of being a foot fetishist of the 80's and 90's
4) The reason I like the feeling of those years is because those are the formative years when I personally became aware of other foot fetishists and where we typically stood in the eyes of the world... fused with my personal experience of whackin it to feet pics back then that seemed much more fulfilling.
5) That was a foot fetish golden age for me when just a glimpse of a woman's foot in my mind could get me off and I love all the associated feelings of that day and age (including overarching female sentiments about foot fetish from that time, that would match an average woman today who is being paid for just her feet)
Funny how all those pleasantries can somehow be tied to paying for feet today, LOL!
Foot parties are great BTW because it does feel exactly like paying for feet! Maybe because it is, and I feel like a dirty old man every time I do it
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I always find it funny when a guy complains about the cleanliness of feet...they're feet! Especially guys into smelly feet.lol
I assume that you're referring to me.
As for my idea of cleanliness:
"dirty" and smelly feet =/= other guys' saliva...
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I always find it funny when a guy complains about the cleanliness of feet...they're feet! Especially guys into smelly feet.lol
I assume that you're referring to me.
As for my idea of cleanliness:
"dirty" and smelly feet =/= other guys' saliva...
not to mention that spray they put on it after a session, it dries them out and takes their smell, both of which are the flavor. I think GQguy hit the nail on the head, part of sex or fetish (with people, not jacking) IS the chase, and foot shows are just like anyone can get it and you are nothing but a customer to the girl. thats why i could never go for prostitution, and would prob have a tough time getting up on that. Becuase part of this all is HUMAN interaction, and should not be turned into a commodity like so many barrels of oil, pounds of gold, or lean hogs.
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I've never had to pay for anything sexual, but i'd imagine it's not satisfying. I think thats the case mostly because theres no chase. The most fun thing about sex in my humble opinion is the "dance" that two personalities do before anything gets physical. The chase. The push and pull between the guy and girl. The anticipation of gratification or the disappointment of rejection. It's a blast! Without that it's no fun. Not to mention the damage your ego does to your self esteem if paying for sex is your only option.
I, personally, would rather pay. mostly because i know i'd probabyl wouldn't get it for free. so i might as well get it. too bad i'm broke most of the time, lol
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It might not have been anything to do with the paying aspect. I think it probably had to do with the whole building it up and looking forward to it thing. You "expected" things to be ABCDE and they probably went ACFHB, for example. You have to go in there with an open mind and have fun with the girl.
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I went to the very first one it was at someone's house in So Cal - I had the opportunity so suck Lissa's feet. She was the only one with long toes. I am sure things have changed since. Sucking toes is a bit more intimate for me than that, but I'll never forget it.
I may go with a couple models to the one in LA on the 24th, that may be fun.
Paying for it for me is like tipping the bartender BIG on the first drink - you never know when they'll get familiar with you and you get the HOOK-UP!
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Paying for feet is all good for me. My wife give's me her feet whenever I want. And I have always managed to smooth talk many of my past girlfriends into allowing me to enjoy their feet. So getting pretty feet has never been a problem for me. But never have I been able to enjoy such a wide variety of womens feet in one night! My wife even encourages me to attend these parties. I just went to a footnight party last month. Had no less then 20 sessions. That's 20 different pairs of feet! I had a blast! I did'nt have to pay for dinner and a movie. All I had to say was " I would like a session". And I was on those feet in less then five. Although I did enjoy engadging in conversation with these lovely ladies. They really seem to enjoy the attention their feet get. Not to mention the easy money that's being made. It's just fun for everyone. I just hate that I did'nt come up with the idea. It's genious!! Although there's always going to be haters. I believe a lot of you would enjoy it if you tried it. Trouble is, too many people are worried about the wrong things. And always worried about what someone else is thinking. Such wasted energy. I have had this passion for female feet since I can remember (age 5), currently age 42. It's amazing to look back at how far we've come. Who would have thought we would someday be able to attend a party just to worship pretty feet. I'm looking forward to seeing what the future holds for us.
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