-------------------- "Nina, this is my house, you work for me, and I want to suck your toes." -Big Trouble (2002) Posts: 1855 | Registered: Nov 2007
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It's funny how "to each, his own" is repeated so much but still there are many folks who evidently feel like begrudging some other folks "their own" if they like something on the borders...
I am reminded of the oft-repeated position that we shouldn't use the word "fetish" because it brands us weirdos. I feel bad for those members (probably lurkers) who identify themselves as those guys who have an honest-to-goodness foot "FETISH" and, as described, cannot get gratification without feet. Would YOU dare to expose yourself as such, here, knowing how everyone seems ready to come down hard on anyone who "makes us look bad"?
I mean, there are guaranteed to be those guys out there who are indeed really locked-on and treat feet as serious fetish items in the classical sense of the term. Why are they made to feel ostracized here? I mean, I see the comments made and I have to imagine that they do feel that way...
-------------------- You give pleasure to the feet, you give pleasure to the person. Posts: 1297 | Registered: Jul 2009
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quote:I am reminded of the oft-repeated position that we shouldn't use the word "fetish" because it brands us weirdos. I feel bad for those members (probably lurkers) who identify themselves as those guys who have an honest-to-goodness foot "FETISH" and, as described, cannot get gratification without feet. Would YOU dare to expose yourself as such, here, knowing how everyone seems ready to come down hard on anyone who "makes us look bad"?
uhhh... where did you come with any of that?!?! i dont remember anyone ever looking down on someone else because they were a 'true' fetishist. as far as people getting down on those of that make all foot guys look bad.. every comment that i have seen is aimed at the guys who cant control themselves. you could be a partialist, a hardcore fetish freak, just think feet are cute, but if you are crawling under tables at libraries and painting women's toes, you are definitely a problem. not using the word fetish is just a smart thing to do.. a case of semantics. most people (especially women) are going to react better to someone saying 'i like cute feet' or 'i think feet are sexy' over 'i have a foot fetish'. the word itself has a negative connonation whether it's about feet or gas masks but not because these people are bad, but because others dont understand or arent accepting.
quote:Originally posted by Pjay: I mean, there are guaranteed to be those guys out there who are indeed really locked-on and treat feet as serious fetish items in the classical sense of the term. Why are they made to feel ostracized here?
i think it's cuz alot of guys have deep shame and they can sorta make themselves feel better by pointing the finger at others who they believe have larger problems with their fetish so as to feel more normal from the standpoint of relativity.
pretty sad if you ask me. i enjoy my brethren's existance and yes i FREAKIN LOVE licking and sniffing women's feet and also getting my weiny wanked good by their soles or toes. I will always love hot women's feet and there is no changing who I am