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** This was a reply to another topic, and I wanted to share this again..edited a tad***
My female perspective, will shine some light, I hope.
Boys...your empathy should play a roll. If you want her to accept the worship her feet deserves in your eyes, then there is a way to go about it. Don't throw away a good thing unless you are absolutely sure.
My story. I dated a man for over six years, and in the last couple of years of our relationship, he developed (whether he was into my feet all along...he had me fooled) a fascination and obsession with my feet. At first, it was fun and sexy..and it did turn me on, and God knows we all need to spice it up sometimes in the boudoir, so this was perfect...but then it seemed that my feet were the only thing that would get him off. The way he looked at them, touched them, the things he would whisper in my ear about what he wanted to do to them and with them...it was all about my feet, "I, the person" seemed to have disappeared...or at least that's how I felt, that's how he made me feel...That my friends, starts to play on a girl's ego! Especially after six years of being together. It completely turned me off, to no end...it eventually broke us up. Even after I tried to understand this obsession, after I asked, him...he would just say.."I dunno, I just love your feet" it wasn't enough for me..he never explained.
Fast forward to now. I met a man recently that not only has me craving for him to simply look at them , let alone touch, massage, kiss, suck and bite them. The way he went about it was undoubtably the way ever man should.
I liked this man the second I met him...and my thoughts immediately were after he casually talked about his love of women's feet.."oh no, not again..."...but I had an opportunity here..I was simply going to ask him...maybe he could explain..so we started to talk..He started off by telling me how his mom's feet were always well groomed and how his dad would always massage his mom's feet in the family room...then a story about the hottie babysitter that would paint the toes of his little sister, and her own...and so his love begins. When he talks about women's feet he is educated, he knows every muscle, he knows reflexology...studied in his own right. He explained it to me. He explained it all to me. He told me that it was a part of him, that I would have to accept, if I was going to be a part of his life. He let me ease into it, in my own time. He made me so curious about it. I even started to educate myself on the history behind it. Starting browsing websites...joined this wonderful site. And when he plays with my feet, he looks me dead in the eyes, (my ex never looked me in the eyes, he only ever looked at my feet while touching them) my man doesn't even have to utter a word. I know, he knows my beautiful feet, are a glorious extension of me, and that's how every man should make thier women feel. He looks at me and tells me how beautiful I am, as he sucks on my toes..my heart melts.
So give her time, if you feel she is never going to be on the same page as you...then a kick to the curb is in order...cuz she really doesn't know, and she probably never will...and it is a part of your life, and you may go find it elsewhere, if she can't give it to you..educating her, is the way to go! And if she truly wants to be with you, she'll give in..what she doesn't know is how much she'll love it. What a wonderful journey it is. Any smart girl is going to be curious, if she meets a guy and he starts hintin' that he's into feet...but if he eases into it...SHE WILL RESPOND, if she wants to be with you.
Because at the end of the day, what women on earth, would not be happy at the fact that she can lay on the couch her feet in her man's lap massaging them, kissing them, fondling them, after a day at the office...in my eyes, 'the ultimate foreplay'! The fact that I know it turns him on, turns me on!!Hummmmmm...and I am getting them rubbed down with love at the same time?!?!?!...wow...there is nothing better! A double-whammy in my eyes.
I also love the fact that there men out there that are beyond the T-zone..that there is more to a women than that. The fact that men know what women carry on these precious feet of ours...the fact that men worship that..is endearing.
Wow..and not such a long time ago, I was sooooooo turned off by a man worshipping my feet...and now...its a part of me, its a part of us. And I believe, it is all because my man showed me, the right way.
So boys, put yourself in her shoes..its the unknown for her...everyone is scared of the unknown..teach her. She'll never know what hit her.
-------------------- YOU SOOTHE MY SOUL N' SOLE... Posts: 8 | Registered: Nov 2009
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I am man. I like feet. If she can't get with that she's simply not attracted enough to me(it happens...rarely ;o)). Contrary to popular belief there are many beautiful, intelligent women out there that would cater to her guy's foot fetish if he acts in a way that strengthens her attraction. Really, it's not a big deal. If it is for one woman...she is in the minority and it's best to move on. Fellas this mentality is vital!
I've had many women engage in my foot fetish and have told many more about it. It's never an issue. Because i'm comfortable with who I am...and more importantly...I LIKE who I am. Women like who I am to ;o). Say that with me. "I like who I am. Women like who I am".
Amazon: Your ex sounds like Creepy McCreepster. Good for you in finding a better man. You're lucky.
Fellas: Don't be Creepy McCreepster.
GQguy
-------------------- If she won't indulge your fetish, I bet you that cuter, smarter girl across the bar will. Lets go find out. Posts: 1877 | Registered: Aug 2006
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