I have a beautiful girlfriend who has BEAUTIFUL feet! She knows of my fetish and let's me touch and play with them all the time.
Originally she wasn't into having her feet touched and said she would never want them massaged! Now she can't get enough of the foot rubs and always asks me me to rub her feet! Last night she came out with "baby, I want your hands on my feet"...that was hot...anyway, on my main question...
Sometimes, I'm kinda not in the mood! You know after a long day, sometimes I don't wanna give a massage...it's crazy! I never thought I would think that when I have gorgeous feet on my lap!
So I wanna know if you guys ever feel the same?
I'm not worried about my fetish disappearing just...not craving it all the time...
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First of all, congratulations on having a girlfriend who gives you access to her feet whenever you want.
To your question, I think it's just a mindset between having a girl's pretty feet available whenever you want versus the mindset of not having access and wondering when you may have access to a pretty pair of feet. Because you know that her feet are there and for the taking all of the time, it changes how you think about them. Since you know you have access to them, there's no sense of urgency about wanting/having pretty feet.
Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with that or anything "wrong" with you. I'm sure that if you took a "break" from massaging her feet and/or having immediate access to them, that craving will come back.
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I am sure there are times even when the horniest of the horney are just not in the mood. I know I can rub a girl's feet for hours over movies, hanging out, etc. Sometimes though, it just feel nice to have them in my hands and more or less, just holding them or caressing them lightly that the girl enjoys. A full on foot rub all the time can also be a bit much. So try the light caressing or just having them in your hands. She just might want to feel you touching her.
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Life gets in the way of life. Stress, exhaustion, getting older, so on and so forth. Plenty of things can distract you.
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What about in the morning? Do you ever sleep with her feet in your face? I bet you'd be all over them in the morning.
This is only normal. Really, it will start going more downhill the older you get unless you have the right diet, exercise, and control stress.
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All I'm going to do here is throw a few darts at the wall to see which one sticks.
Isn't it possible that the reason you're not in the mood sometimes is because you're tired of having the same feet on your lap all the time? It could be like watching old episodes of I Love Lucy: been there, seen that.
I'm going to speak in hypothetical terms here for a second. Let's go back to the last time you felt tired or exhausted coming home from work. Let's say that while you're making your evening commute back to your place some smokin' hot seductress sits next to you in the train and strikes up a nice conversation with you. All of a sudden, she wants to place her feet on your lap and wants you to massage them. How tired would you be then? If you massage them, the last thing you'll be is tired. Even if you decline her offer because you'll feel wrong about doing something like that behind your girl's back, just the thought that some hottie who you never met before wanted you to do that to her feet to relax her mood won't make you exhausted. You'll feel very flattered, if anything.
Again, I'm just asking here. I'm not saying that what I'm saying IS the only reason why you feel the way you do sometimes. It could very well be the case of what Larr, Kokaith and what Patrick are describing. But I think it's worth asking the questions I asked. Also, Fate111 is onto something with what he said.
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I agree with quite a few things in here. There's been quite a few times I haven't been in the mood to massage my womans feet, regardless of which one of them it was. Many of those times, I have asked myself if I would be against massaging the feet of a completely different female. I can't answer that, as I haven't ever had that opportunity, but I believe it's the availability more than the gumption. Too much of a good thing isn't always good.
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Hasn't happened to me yet. The closest would be when like I'm really trying to focus on doing something, like watch a hockey game or finish a project of some sort and the wife decides she wants my attention and is having trouble getting it. She might be yapping about something and come to a point in the conversation where my input would be required and she'd catch on that I wasn't really paying attention and had no idea what she was talking about because I was occupied by whatever it was I was into. That's when she goes in for the kill and props the feet on my lap asking for a message or throws em in my face or something. There are times when I really do want to finish what I was doing but I never turn em down, and usually within a minute or so, I have forgotten all about what was previously on my mind and am 100% focused on her feet and loving every second of it.
The odd time if it was a real big game or some other thing I really had to do or something I was right in the middle of and really wanted to finish, I'll go back to it, but she'll get whatever she wants for as long as she wants it first be it a little attention and some foot play or some foot foreplay and sex and the whole nine. Once it's all done though, there've been times when I've gotten up to go have a smoke and picked up my project where I'd left off or resumed the hockey game on the DVR or something but I've never had the ability or conviction or resolve or self control to deny em in the moment. A couple of wiggles, a flex and a toe point and I don't stand a fucking chance. Whatever it was I was into is put on the back burner because well, it is no longer the most exciting or intriguing option when those tootsies come looking to play.
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I think when you get home from a long work day, that last thing you want to do is work some more. Women want a massage until your thumbs fall off, so I can see why your not in the mood. But let's face it, some times you need to get dirty. So man up,
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Usually it's just from having a long day that I'm not in the mood to play with my wife's feet. Haven't been too many times that I've turned down her feet though.
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I obviously wrote this the wrong way because i am in no way looking for sympathy or ungreatful for my girlfriends feet! I just have such a foot fetish that i thought it was weird that sometimes im just not in the mood to give her a foot massage just like sometimes you might not be in the mood for sex! Its rare but every now and then it happens!
Haha, i most certainly do not need to 'man up' i was just wondering if anybody has ever felt the same way and apparently, no!
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Quite the contrary for me on this discussion. If I'm NOT in the mood, all I do is massage my wife's hot latin feet and I'm ready to go!
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Its because your getting the "milk for free"... you said it was a challenge at first of your relationship to get access to her feet so now that you have 24/7 access to em' you are all tapped out so to speak. Cut yourself off from them for a few days and you will be good as new.
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