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My ex-GF from a long time ago has been my best friend ever since. Amy is the greatest friend a guy could have and for years we have been strictly platonic and I never want us to be anything else. We treasure our past relationship and talk fondly of those days all the time. She was the first GF I ever had who I told about my foot fetish and we enjoyed it. She let me cum on her toes all the time and we even made some footie pornos.
Since then, she's had other boyfriends and none of that has bothered me until now. Because her new boyfriend also is a foot guy. I'm not jealous, I really like this guy and he and I are also becoming friends. I hope it works out for them, but I'm a little annoyed because until now, I was the only foot guy she ever had.
Of course, I shouldn't let that get to me. After all, she's had a number of BFs since me and, according to her, my cock is still the biggest one she's ever had. (Yeah, I know women lie about that, but best friends don't. And, it is a statement I actually find believable because I am pretty big.)
Has this ever happened to you guys? Am I the only one who feels a little... less special now that Amy will be saying things like, "Wow, you BOTH like toerings!" and "Well, you like wiggling toes and he likes soles."
Also, this guy and I are becoming friends. I've been friends with Amy's BFs before and it's never been a problem. I have no difficulty giving a dude advice on how to pleasure her sexually (because I did that for 2 years), but what if this new guy finds out about my fetish and we end up talking about Amy's feet together. Does that seem awkward to anybody?
I don't need advice here. I already know I want them to be happy together and for us to be friends till the end. And I'm not all that hot and bothered by it, but I'm curious if anyone else has ever been in this situation?
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I've only been the new guy with the same fetish as her ex, so i'm not sure on your end. But it seems as though you still hold onto something there with her, if you still want to be the best to her. Like you haven't fully let go.
PS - I don't think you should ever brag or think about your cock size being the biggest she had, because chances are she doesn't think even once about it. Contrary to porn movies, women care more about how a guy treats them and less about how big his dick is.
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Yup! I dated a girl who got tired of my fetish real fast and I dumped her. I saw her at a pool party a few years later. She was with a real nerd and she couldnt keep her feet off of the guy. After dark she discretly put her feet in his lap and and even rubbed her toes on his nose and said kiss em. She was doing this just to fuck with me. He was reluctant about the whole thing and he certainly wasnt a foot guy. What really pisses me off is the fact that she wouldnt play with me but she would bare her soles for someone who didnt want them
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quote:Originally posted by wiggler: Has this ever happened to you guys? Am I the only one who feels a little... less special now that Amy will be saying things like, "Wow, you BOTH like toerings!" and "Well, you like wiggling toes and he likes soles."
Nope, can't say I've been in that situation before because in my experiences I've generally been the first and last guy that the gal has experienced foot fetish with. On a slight tangent, I want to commend wiggler for his ability to remain platonic best friends with somebody that he had a significant intimate relationship with in the past. I doubt that I'd ever be able to do that, so my hat's off to wiggler for making it work!
quote:Originally posted by wiggler: what if this new guy finds out about my fetish and we end up talking about Amy's feet together. Does that seem awkward to anybody?
Yes, somewhat. Out of respect to her (and especially since she's your best friend), I'd purposely abstain from discussing that sort of thing with her current boyfriend because not only is it unnecessary, but it also strikes me as a tad inappropriate as well. Unless it was an open relationship, then what the two of you shared intimately should remain between the two of you. That's my general feeling.
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I wouldn't feel any less special if I felt she would be saying to her new guy: "Wow, you like to get blowjobs too?" Let's face it, everyone we are ever with and is with someone new is going to be intimate with them ( or someone) down the road. Why would it make me feel less special. As Judge Judy would say" "It;s over, put a period, and move on." lol
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Best outcome is that you get to watch him use her feet sexually. Seems like a great turn on to me.
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Wiggler, i am on virtually the same wave length. I re-met my only true love nearly 4 years ago. We broke up over 21 years ago. But, neither of us have forgotten the other. She was the very 1st female whose toes i sucked. She used to gladly rub her feet on my good bits, though both of us had no idea what a foot job was. Together, we did so many things for the 1st time.
I was the 1st to give her a oral orgasm. She the 1st who would let me lick her ass (though she just couldnt take me anally). She was the 1st who we could fight like cats and dogs, and then, make love like invading nations! hahaa. Mind you, my darling wife is very similar to my old g/f (thats why they get on so well i think).
I've been married 5 1/2 years, she's been married 16. My wife and her are great friends. Still, we had a brief affair last year.
We would go out for drinks and fun and see live bands. 1 week i would go, the next, my wife. Well, my ex gal told me she has never forgotten me. And i always thought of her. Her hubby is fairly well paid (i frigging aint! hahaha) and about 8 inches taller than me, but still, while we were renewing a magic that only we had, she would tell me he was deadly dull. It was a major ego boost. And, she specifically mentioned my fetish.
trouble is, back when we were 20, her feet were awesome. Now, she's 43 (i'm 42) and because her hubby has no idea about feet at all, thus, neither does she. And, her feet are - well, not horrid, just not my idea of hot. I guess i'm spoilt by my wifes size 5's
I'll post some pics of my ex, but they dont feature any feet.
BTW - our little fling is over, but it was cool to think it fucked up her mind like she did mine for nigh on 20 years. And, i just admire my wife so much for not being so uptight and jealous. We are deeply in love, but now and then, get a bit naughty with others.
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Yes, I have been in this situation. I had a very cool fiend we were never really a couple but have been frinds now for about 17 years. All during college even though she cae a few years after me. I was the first person she gave a FJ to even though she had boyfriends, they never. Anyway we have stayed close long after college and FJ's continued on through the years. She said only when one of us got married would they have to stop which I jokingly said, they ain't never gona stop until we old and gray and I can't get a woodie out of it. Any way she started dating this dude and she would say things like he would try to gently pull her feet into his lap etc. to which she would ask what he was doing but she was sure that he had a thing for feet. I told her she sholud show a bit of her technique to him but she felt that it was always "our Thing". They have now married and I moved away for the job but thelast I spoke to her I told her to jus break him off and FJ but start by just rubbing on it under the table or while watching T.V. I guess the good thing was that though i respect him when i call their home, I haven't gotten to know him very well because I moved.
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I admire your control Wiggler, I have tried to be friends with my ex's but when I can't have their feet I tend to want them even more!
Sounds like a situation you need to think carefully on, I mean do you really want to run the risk of your ex's new BF telling you what he is doing/done to her feet?
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I'm not hung up on her or her feet. It's more like thinking about your parents having sex. You don't have to be unrequited to find that off-putting.
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wiggler, as far as ex's are concerned... tried to be friends with mines... didn't work out just like our relationship didn't. so.. dunno what to think. though it sounds like you've got some kind of emotional connection that raises the discomfornt around the new guy being into feet... i'm not the expert on such matters.
i just know this... talking about her feet in an intimate way with the new guy is not going to be my number one recommendation.... not really cool in my eyes. however, you've figured what you want to do and i'm glad for that part.
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