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Sup people, this is my first post so i guess im officially introducing myself :-p... i have a question for you guys. I apologize ahead of time if this topic was already addressed. Ok so if you compliment a girl on her manicure and what not and she is very flattered that you took notice, what do you think the probability is that she will be flattered if she gets compliments on her pedicure?? I think id personally maybe say like 65-75 percent... theoretically speaking, Ive always thought after a few (perhaps less than a few) manicure compliments and finally complimenting her on her painted toes, it would seem to be a pretty safe way of initiating the beginning stages of hinting to a girl the fact that you are attracted to pretty feet. Just my thoughts, what do u guys think?
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girls like compliments on anything they try to make pretty. if they react poorly to a foot compliment when they have all prettied up feet, i'd say skip them on the grounds of insanity. maybe i've just been lucky but i've never got a wierded out reaction from telling a girl she's got hot feet, especially when she's put effort into them.
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i've learned that there is no correlation between what happen to a girl's hands and her feet. it all depends on the girl. it's a hit or miss thing.
step up with confidence and a bit of humor and go for it. you'll find your answer a lot faster that way!!
quote:Originally posted by ozkar: girls like compliments on anything they try to make pretty. if they react poorly to a foot compliment when they have all prettied up feet, i'd say skip them on the grounds of insanity. maybe i've just been lucky but i've never got a wierded out reaction from telling a girl she's got hot feet, especially when she's put effort into them.
call me crazy, but a girl once bashed on me for complimenting her manicure... stupid bitch... unfortunately i didnt have a comeback to save my life to make her look like the dumbass she was for makin that comment.... haha needless to say from that moment i knew i wouldnt be chillin w/ her
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She bashed you for a compliment? Two thngs, there are some people who are really offended/embarassed by compliments otherwise she was just uneducated that compliments are a good thing. Most women love you to notice something about them especially if they have had something specifically done like a mani pedi....Welcome to Wu's
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quote:Originally posted by Lyrical: She bashed you for a compliment? Two thngs, there are some people who are really offended/embarassed by compliments otherwise she was just uneducated that compliments are a good thing. Most women love you to notice something about them especially if they have had something specifically done like a mani pedi....Welcome to Wu's
thanks for the welcome... yep for the most part, the girls ive complimented on manis and pedis have said thank you. Oh well, i know what to say next time someone says something about it.
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oooppppppssssss..... left out the welcome in my statement!
some girls think that they're being cute by 'rejecting' a compliment. to me, it's plain rude! and shows a lot about the person's self-concept.
go for the compliment and have a blast!
i've had a few gals reject compliments of mines..... and that was fine. never really been bashed for it. but if i ever came close, i usually said something silly like "forgot i was blind and couldn't tell pretty from ugly" or some other stupid thing.
quote:Originally posted by RPM: i've learned that there is no correlation between what happen to a girl's hands and her feet. it all depends on the girl.
Welcome to the forum pedactor.
Yes, every now and then we delve into the deep subject of female psychology here on the forum.
I think what Ozkar said: "girls like compliments on anything they try to make pretty." is generally true most of the time. But I also strongly agree RPM's comment (quoted above) that girl's can have a very specific and different reaction to a compliment about their feet then about their hands, which goes to back to the perception of liking feet or having a foot fetish, which some girls just don't either understand, or they make the instant assumption that we see their feet as sexual objects, which makes them uncomfortable.
The hands are always visible and uncovered, but the feet are not, which makes drawing special attention to them, even though perfectly normal and expected in our minds, "unusual" in some girl's minds. My guess is this attitude is even more prevelant in colder climates, where girls have their feet covered in the winter with shoes and boots.
But in our own defense, I don't think it's a much different reaction than we'd get if we complimented them on their new bikini as they're sunning for the first time in early spring/summer. We all know she looks great in it, but don't usually comment on it because the comment would be assumed, by them, to be sexually oriented, and therefore make many girls uncomfortable.
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"i've had a few gals reject compliments of mines..... and that was fine. never really been bashed for it. but if i ever came close, i usually said something silly like "forgot i was blind and couldn't tell pretty from ugly" or some other stupid thing." lmao
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quote:Originally posted by RPM: i've learned that there is no correlation between what happen to a girl's hands and her feet. it all depends on the girl.
Welcome to the forum pedactor.
Yes, every now and then we delve into the deep subject of female psychology here on the forum.
"I think what Ozkar said: "girls like compliments on anything they try to make pretty." is generally true most of the time. But I also strongly agree RPM's comment (quoted above) that girl's can have a very specific and different reaction to a compliment about their feet then about their hands, which goes to back to the perception of liking feet or having a foot fetish, which some girls just don't either understand, or they make the instant assumption that we see their feet as sexual objects, which makes them uncomfortable."
The hands are always visible and uncovered, but the feet are not, which makes drawing special attention to them, even though perfectly normal and expected in our minds, "unusual" in some girl's minds. My guess is this attitude is even more prevelant in colder climates, where girls have their feet covered in the winter with shoes and boots.
But in our own defense, I don't think it's a much different reaction than we'd get if we complimented them on their new bikini as they're sunning for the first time in early spring/summer. We all know she looks great in it, but don't usually comment on it because the comment would be assumed, by them, to be sexually oriented, and therefore make many girls uncomfortable.
Let me ask u somethin though...Please don't bash me if im not right.. Since some girls assume that we see feet as a sexual object, aren't they right in some way being that feet for us is a turn on (aside from the fact that we are ALSO simply admiring pretty feet)? and if so, then we can't let them on too quickly or we will scare them away , because there is a right time and a wrong time as well as a wrong/ right way to fully unvail the secrets of our love for feet yes?? so then we jus gotta convince those that assume feet it just sexual objects for us that it is not as harmful as theyre making it out to be(based on approach) yes ??? and if they done get it then fuckem and move on.. that parts easy. i feel like fuckin plato askin the damn question like that .. anyway thanks guys for the welcome
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quote:Originally posted by pedactor: Since some girls assume that we see feet as a sexual object, aren't they right in some way being that feet for us is a turn on (aside from the fact that we are ALSO simply admiring pretty feet)? and if so, then we can't let them on too quickly or we will scare them away , because there is a right time and a wrong time as well as a wrong/ right way to fully unvail the secrets of our love for feet yes?? so then we jus gotta convince those that assume feet it just sexual objects for us that it is not as harmful as theyre making it out to be (based on approach) yes
Yes, I think you understand. As we frequently discuss and encourage each other here on the forum, we, as footguys, don't want to hide our love of feet. However, how and when you make comments and divulge more info to a girl is critical. I think of it in terms of courting a girl that you just met- you take things slow, gradually getting to know everything about them.
Even though most girls don't think of their feet as being sexual, we still have to treat them as if they are, and as if they do. In other words, you don't walk up to a girl and make a sexually related comment about their ass, breasts, or any other body part, so you shouldn't make one about their feet. Similarly, just as you'd "work up to" saying things about, or doing anything sexual with another body part you usually must "work up to" saying things about or doing things with their feet. You do not have to be nearly as careful if you're with a known footgirl who truly understands a guy with a foot fetish.
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whenever i compliment a mature woman on the beauty of toes being painted, they usually give me alittle smile,giggle,and thank you all at the sametime.
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Champ, I have had the same experience. For some reason I think older women (30s and up) are more receptive. I constantly wonder why but who knows.
I also heartily agree with feetluvr, based in large part on my wife's schooling. Women don't want to be told, "I want to _____ your _____" by anybody they are not in a relationship with. The other day a coworker told me that on the train on the way to work a total stranger asked to suck her toes, and she was wierded out. Pretty sure it wasn't because of the feet part - hers were seriously dolled up.
But "nice pedicure" seems to be received well. Most women somehow don't know that anything about them that a man compliments, the guy wants to put his mouth on it. In fact, there's a couple women I suspect think I'm gay, cuz we talk about (their) shoes a lot. LOL
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quote:Originally posted by mas: Most women somehow don't know that anything about them that a man compliments, the guy wants to put his mouth on it. In fact, there's a couple women I suspect think I'm gay, cuz we talk about (their) shoes a lot. LOL
haha, it will be quite the experience for them when those few find out the truth... and not to mention quite an experience for you too
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unfortunately i didnt have a comeback to save my life to make her look like the dumbass she was for makin that comment.... haha ![[Thud]](graemlins/thud.gif)
needless to say from that moment i knew i wouldnt be chillin w/ her
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.. anyway thanks guys for the welcome
