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I know I'm relatively new here, but after being a board member for a few days, and having been welcomed as I have, I wanted to post about my, what I think is, an alternative fetish, and get some feedback. As I mentioned in some of my other posts, I have the dual "interest" of both tickling and female feet. I have been into feet since my age of reason, and into tickling since about 1997. Since 1997, I have had female snail mail pen pals. After getting to know them for a while, I would usually ask them if they were ticklish, and went barefoot often. Then, somehow, I got into asking this question, and started asking them if they had ever stood barefoot on a ladder. I have absolutely no clue why I did this, but, as the years went on, it just kept being a question I asked. When I joined the Tickling Media Forum in 2002, I quickly became the guy with the alternative fetish. I would always want to know girls ticklishness, if they went barefoot, and yes, if they had ever stood barefoot on a ladder, to either change a lightbulb, get something from a closet, or what not. Also, while I would be interested in girls who have stood barefoot on say, small stepstools, pool ladders do not do it for me. It always had to be either a small stepstool, or a ladder. In my nearly five years there, I could not stop myself from asking that question, so much so that the mods over there made me a special icon to use in the chat, a barefoot girl on a ladder. After being here for several days, I see that people have different kinds of foot fetishes, from crushing, to soles, and foot worship, and such. I am cool with all of that. I was never much into crushing, but, to each his or her own. I guess the point of my thread is this, and I will not be offended if people say yes. Am I odd for enjoying to see this alternative fetish, of seeing girls stand barefoot on ladders? For some reason, when I see that, or hear that a girl that I either talk to in the TMF chat has stood barefoot on a ladder, or if I myself see a girl stand barefoot on a ladder, I just love it. A couple of years ago, I was walking through our mall here, and saw a completely random situation. A very cute Asian girl was washing the outer windows of the mall's nail salon. I saw her set up the ladder, so I stopped, and, while trying not to stare, she got up the ladder, a big one, with her shoes on, and had trouble with her balance. She then came back down the ladder, took off her shoes, was barefoot, and climbed to the second highest step of a fairly tall ladder, washing the salon's outer windows, and standing on her toes while doing so. I watched the whole thing, and was in my glory! I loved it, because I had seen my favorite foot action for a girl to do, and it was completely random. During my four years plus with TMF, two girls have sent me pictures of themselves barefoot on a ladder, but, I know that I am still considered the oddball of the forum, based on people's reaction to me when I ask the question. So, my question to the members of my newly joined forum, where I hope to particpate postively, and make friends is: Am I odd for enjoying this fetish of seeing girls barefoot on ladders, or asking girls I talk to in tickle chat rooms if they have stood barefoot on a ladder, or, for that matter, if Wu's had a chatroom, and I asked that question to a girl, would I be considered odd? Let me also say, that for those who read this post, and ask:" Mitch, WHY do you enjoy seeing girls stand barefoot on ladders, or asking girls if they have stood barefoot on ladders? My answer to that is I honestly don't know. I am not sure if it is because I like to see bare female feet up high, or for some other reason. My hope is, that, when I get coupled or married, my girlfriend will not mind standing barefoot on a ladder for me, even occasionally. While I realize that this might be a bit of an odd request, that some girls may not want to do, either because of being afraid of heights, or their soles not feeling comfortable on the ladder, I would hope that I could indulge in seeing this from my significant other, at least sometimes. I know this is a long post, but I wanted some feedback. I wanted to post about ny alternative interest, and ask the question: Am I weird, or odd, for having this alternative fetish of seeing girls barefoot on ladders, or is it just another form of a foot fetish? Any feedback on this subject would be appreciated. Thank You.
Mitch
P'S I should also point out that in my four plus years on TMF, three girls have taken pictures of themselves barefoot on ladders. Two different girls sent me picture sets of themselves barefoot on ladders, that I have saved on my computer, and another posted herself barefoot on a ladder in the forum, without me even knowing it.
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You're no more weird or odd than anybody else in their preferences in seeing barefoot girls. The only way I can see it ever being odd is if you were to constantly pop that question of whether or not a girl has stood barefoot on a ladder every time you post. It's all about presentation...how are you going to present yourself and your hang-ups to others?
I'll give you an example...I have a friend online that's as cool as the day is long...I would never knowingly do a thing to this guy that could ever hurt his feelings. But when it comes to his hang-ups and making requests for them, I honestly wonder about his self-control, or lack thereof. In other words, he has at times come off sounding like a looped record when corresponding with models or the photographers. His requests are already sorta' questionable (that's not being judgemental, a lot of us have questionable fantasies), but when he hammers the requests he starts to sound kinda' psycho. He's put a few online models off to him...and for that matter he's creeped out some of the other posters on certain forums as well. (no, he doesn't post here)
Like I say, he's good as gold really, but going on how he presents himself to others, these other folks would never know his good points. He comes off as obsessive.
Now if you've read enough of my posts, you might gather pretty quickly that my biggest hang-up (and I've got a bunch actually, but I'll just discuss this main one) is seeing a girl go totally barefoot outdoors, and in public in particular. Let me tell you, the urge to ask every single model I see to fulfill this request is tempting, especially if they put the offer out there to us posters to make a request. But I pull back a lot of the time...I only spring the question when it feels okay enough to do it. Sure, in my own mind I'm obsessed with certain fantasies, but that doesn't mean I need to run the risk of creeping other people out with them.
Just my two pennies on this.
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Thanks for the feedback. Actually, on TMF, I used to pop that question to girls in the first private message I sent them, which would make people angry. What I do now in any private message, before popping questions about feet, or in the case of the TMF, tickling, is to introduce myself first, tell them how I got into feet, and, in the case of the TMF, about my pen pal Don Fraser who got me into talking about tickling. After a few messages back and forth, on TMF, I will ask them if they mind if I ask them questions, about tickling, and a couple about feet. If they say yes, I will then ask the question about their ticklishness, going barefoot, and if they have stood barefoot on a ladder. I have greatly toned things down, in the four years plus that I've been on TMF. Thanks for the feedback, Lou. I wouldnt go so far as to ever post a poll on here that said " Girls, have you ever stood barefoot on a ladder". I imagine that wouldn't go over too well, I wouldnt get many replies, and it would quickly make me unpopular. Wha I might hope to do is to get to know someone for a bit first, ask them if I can ask questions, and then slip the question in there. Hopefully that would come off better. Thanks for the advice and insight, it is appreciated.
quote:Originally posted by Lou Gojira: You're no more weird or odd than anybody else in their preferences in seeing barefoot girls. The only way I can see it ever being odd is if you were to constantly pop that question of whether or not a girl has stood barefoot on a ladder every time you post. It's all about presentation...how are you going to present yourself and your hang-ups to others?
I'll give you an example...I have a friend online that's as cool as the day is long...I would never knowingly do a thing to this guy that could ever hurt his feelings. But when it comes to his hang-ups and making requests for them, I honestly wonder about his self-control, or lack thereof. In other words, he has at times come off sounding like a looped record when corresponding with models or the photographers. His requests are already sorta' questionable (that's not being judgemental, a lot of us have questionable fantasies), but when he hammers the requests he starts to sound kinda' psycho. He's put a few online models off to him...and for that matter he's creeped out some of the other posters on certain forums as well. (no, he doesn't post here)
Like I say, he's good as gold really, but going on how he presents himself to others, these other folks would never know his good points. He comes off as obsessive.
Now if you've read enough of my posts, you might gather pretty quickly that my biggest hang-up (and I've got a bunch actually, but I'll just discuss this main one) is seeing a girl go totally barefoot outdoors, and in public in particular. Let me tell you, the urge to ask every single model I see to fulfill this request is tempting, especially if they put the offer out there to us posters to make a request. But I pull back a lot of the time...I only spring the question when it feels okay enough to do it. Sure, in my own mind I'm obsessed with certain fantasies, but that doesn't mean I need to run the risk of creeping other people out with them.
Just my two pennies on this.
i understand what you're talking about. I still have problems with it(hence why i think girls think i'm creepy) but it's not as bad as it used it e, just at the wrong time.
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