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Hi, i'm 24 and I've just discovered a year ago that i'm foot fetish guy. Let's say that is one of the reason why my ex let me down. She found it weird that i start kissing her feet when we are watching Tv or something. she thought i'm kind of crazy guy though i did it in the real romantic way.
I've been reading some of the discussions in this forum and noticed that you guys talk about it freely and normaly. though i got some questions: What do you girls think about a foot fetish guy? About kissing your feet?About footjob? About playing the foot mistress?...Do u think it's weird? or you like it?
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this is the wrong place to ask girls what they think of feet guys
if they post here they approve of feet guys
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my wife took a while to warm up to what i liked. she's still warming up to it. but it's so much better.
prior to me. she had no idea guys loved women's feet. to her.. it was always a guy after her boobs. so. for me to like her legs and feet was new to her.
her friends are super cool about it with me. one even teased me once with her feet.
i've also took a lot of heat in my time from women who just were closed minded and didn't want to hear anything about feet.
your case.. could go two ways. 1-she will open up or 2- she won't and you've got a hard choice to make.
on this site.. we have gals in catergory 3- they're cool about feet.
Bad advice there! Honestly, all women think you are out of your fricken mind the first time they ever have their toes kissed, feet sucked, etc. They warm up to it though if they love you and then genuinely grow to enjoy it themselves. When I first started dating my wife she thought I was completely nuts... well, bad example as I am pretty much "out there" but she went with it and voila'! You have to teach the ladies!
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LeDaemon hit it on the head! (nice response man). Though my wife had heard about foot fetishists (she lived in LA while in college) she never expected to meet one, much less marry one. But because she loves me, she listened, watched and learned as I "schooled" her on the foot fetish world. She has been totally accepting of it and has really learned to enjoy it.
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I just took the liberty to put my opinion on the mentioned site. Maybe some people will understand that liking female feet is just as normal as eating pie.........
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I second Footjoyboy and LeDaemon - she did U a favor - you are the one who decides it is weird not her! Don't ever give a woman that power - if she isn't into it she is not your type anyway - no one wants to be humored or sympathized with. Tell them early and often, play with it - pique their curiosity - it can be a cat and mouse game. Women like nuance anyway.
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i agree with a lot that has been already said. a lot of factors go into it....one of the main ones is you and how you feel about it. me i have all the confidence in the world when it comes to mine....its me and part of who i am....if you dont like it then there really is no real use for you...that said most women i tell seem to find it quirky but they tend to love the fact that they can take their shoes off and turn me into putty....women love to have something that isnt just their tits that mesmerize a guy....plus they can show their feet in public which makes it possible to be turning us foot guys on at all times.....
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Welcome but i have to say if you look back in your life I bet you have liked feet most of your life i can remember all the way back to when i was six which is almost thirty years ago.
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yeah i agree with you cain, i rememeber when i was about 5 or 6, i liked pretty much a shoes Ad on TV that shows red toes with sandals, I also remember when i was a teenager that i liked girls' heels. That's why i like summer, it's too hot that girls wear those flipflap or sandals,Man;that's crazy.
I also wanna say that you guys are right, maybe i'm not so confident about it; i should assume it. It doesn't look like perversion,right?
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The only way it can become a perversion of any sort is if you full on obsess over them, and make everything completely about feet. While most of us are foot fetishists, there's lower and higher levels, so I've noticed. Some guys will think most any girl's foot looks good and is ready to go at it. Not sure if that's the case for everyone..
But for me, I'm pretty damn picky, the slightest thing will turn me away, but I think when you're with a girl, you won't care whether they're perfect and smooth or not quite as well taken care of, you're gonna do what you want with them, as long as she doesn't mind.
You need to talk to your girlfriend about these things, if you're shy about it, then let it be, ask her about it the same way you have on here, have a small discussion or maybe a large one, if she's someone you believe you may have a good relationship with and you've been with her a while, then let them know that's a part of something you like, and that you may end up wanting to do things like that, tell them to be a little optimistic.
Keep in mind it might be something completely new to them, and they may laugh at you or be like wow, you're really weird. Just show a regular appreciation for their feet. Let her know they look nice, and that you've noticed them as much as you do the rest of her.
I think before you pull into something like that, you've got to gain a woman's trust, if she trusts you touching her elsewhere, maybe you'll be lucky to be able to do the same with her feet. They may turn you down at first, but I mean, look at what RPM said. I found that to be a sort of shining light, to be honest. While it's something he likes and she isn't as interested in, she lets him touch her feet because he's interested.
Maybe you can do a similar thing with your next girlfriend if she's the right one, maybe she'll like something you think is weird, keep that in mind as well. Maybe you can share that spot with her while she shares her feet with you..but maybe you'll get lucky and get into it sooner than expected!
My girlfriend and I are long distance, we've yet to meet to be honest and I play a game with her(No, not WoW.) Probably going to meet sometime this year hopefully, and I've expressed my feelings about feet to her, she hasn't shown me them, but to be honest, I don't even care if they aren't anything extremely special, because I love her, and if she's willing to let me touch them at all, I'm going to be pretty thankful. But anyway I've said this because, I think if someone is really into you as you are to them, if you show interest in a..more unexpected? part of their body, perhaps they'll shine a light for you and allow you to take into what you're interested in.
Wow, I don't think any of this makes sense, but I just spent so long typing it that I'm going to add it anyways, hopefully this helps at least a little, even though I've obviously veered off a bit..at least I think so.
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Thanks dude,you seem to know much more about it. i'll try to show a normal interest to feet so she won't freak out. Actually, i'm dating a girl 3 weeks now. We haven't slept together yet and, i haven't seen her feet either.i'll see her this weekend and had an idea to take her to the beach maybe she'll be obliged to take off her shoes hopefully.
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