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Ever ben called on your fetish? What did you do? Deny or own up to it? Here are a few instances that happend in the past few weeks.
1) I've got approx 12 people over my place including a girl i'm "seeing". Anyway She and I are chillin on the couch when I pull her feet into my lap and start playing with them. My boy sees this and says "eww man I hate feet". I smile back at him and say "I love feet, but they've gotta be cute. "See" pointing at her toes, "she knows whats up". And we all laughed. 2) We're partying and I really want this cute asian chic. We all leave the bar and head to denny's where I ended up sitting next to her. I'm flirting telling her how'd she'd make a bad girlfriend(reverse psychology try it!) any way she's digging it. I ask her if she's got pretty feet and she says she doesn't know. I say probably not and she hits me playfully. She then asks if I have a foot fetish. I smile look her in the eye and say yeah. But they've gotta be pretty.lol no big deal. My boys even agreed with me that a girl with ugly feet is a scary sight. No big deal ;o)
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I've gotten called on it a couple of times.
One time I can remember was pretty interesting. I didn't really know the girl all that well. I had met her one night when I was out at a bar. I sat with her for awhile making small talk, as we were introduced to each other by a mutual friend and she didn't really know anyone there. We hit it off decently but I didn't think anything of it. I had to leave because I had another commitment later on that evening to get to. However, I ran into her a couple of nights later at another bar. When she got there, she came over to me, sat down, and we began talking. There was another guy there that I sort of knew that got introduced to her and was trying to make a move on her to some degree. I could tell what was going on and that she wasn't interested in this other guy so I kind of moved in so that he would "get the message" when she started paying more attention to me. He was massaging her shoulders at the time and I began massaging her legs, as they were up on a bar stool next to hers. I think I may have made some kind of comment about how I also give a great foot massage when I was massaging her legs but that I couldn't do it there in the bar (It was around Christmas and it was cold outside so it would've been pretty obvious if she started taking off her sneakers and socks.). To my surprise, she replied to my comment with something like, "Ooooo, that sounds great." She then asked if I lived in the area and would I be interested in following her back to her place to give her a foot massage. As it turned out, she only lived about 15 minutes away from the bar and the bar is only 10 minutes from me, so I agreed that I'd follow her to her place.
Once we got to her place, she took her sneakers off and got comfortable. I think I removed her socks without any protest from her. In the course of giving her a foot massage, we made small talk and then she asked if she could give me a back rub. I said "sure", then turned around to scoot closer to her on the couch we were both on so she could massage my back. I then took her feet and put them on my thighs so I could continue giving her the foot massage as she was massaging my back. I think she was a little surprised by that move and that I was going to continue to massage her feet. Once we settled into the new position, she just flat out asked me, "Do you have a foot fetish?" I replied, "Yeah, I do." or something along those lines. I do remember being very nonchalant about it and making like it was no big deal.
After she massaged my back for awhile, I thanked her and moved back to the other end of the couch where I proceeded to continue to massage her feet. She was getting quite relaxed so I then decided to just go for it and began sucking on her toes and licking her feet. She liked it quite a bit and said it felt so relaxing. I think I spent the better part of the next 2 hours or so sucking on her toes and licking her feet. I do remember my toungue being a bit raw after I decided to stop, since it was getting quite late.
Just goes to show that when you're one on one with a woman and she's comfortable with you and you have confidence in who you are, things can happen. By the way, GQ, good move with the reverse psychology and being playful about it! Busting on a woman and being funny about it can turn her on and get her interested in you. Yeah, it does defy all logic, but it works.
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yeah, but i don't mind since enough people know.
There was this one girl i was with who totally called me on it. We're out with some friends, walking down town. she was wearing flip flops, not the most appropriate for along walk and someone brought it up after she said something about how far it was to the bar. she said "well, i do own lots of different shoes but i just got a pedicure"
He didn't get it so i explained that she just spent a lot of time making her feet look pretty, so, in this case, her feet are the accessories instead of the shoes.
She said she was glad there were men who understand this but i totally outed myself as having a foot fetish.
God damn i wish she wasn't dating someone.
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Since I'm married (and don't fool around), and don't really "hand with boys" or other groups of people very often. No one's called me out. However, with the vast collection of flip-flops, sandals and foot jewelry my wife's sporting these days I wouldn't be surprised if someone did!
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quote:Originally posted by Spotlight: I cant get called out!My policy is to let the whole world know and then reep the rewards when they come!!!
good for you
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GQ I like ur style - I told a woman at Norm's that since I like slender toes that even tho she was smokin' no one girl is purrr fect. It does work!
Told a date once that I wanted to lauch my own line of shoes, she asked if I had a foot fetish - I said the answer lies in the question and if we bolted she'd find out! She said "L'addition s'il vous plait."
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one time a girl at a get together asked me if i was looking at her feet, because we were all by the fire outside and she took her shoes off to get her feet warm and she had these little pink socks on. her feet were really small, anyway yeah she kinda called me on it and i just said "uhhh, uhh, no haha". my gf was sitting right beside me and she knows all about my ff. so it kinda sucked :|
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years ago, i used to get called on it once in a while and i'd of course nervously deny it or rationalize it (like a typical pervert). but then i dropped the whole creepy vibe and decided to be upfront when called out.
it usually works much better when upfront and honest, unless of course, she's your boss and you're in a business meeting with normal people around, cuz then you don't want to let them know you're a freak.
it's also good to impress upon a woman that you are selective too (ie. by telling her you like good feet, not all feet). makes her feel like she needs to qualify for your attention.
quote:Originally posted by Fate111: Busting on a woman and being funny about it can turn her on and get her interested in you. Yeah, it does defy all logic, but it works.
Speaking of pushing the right button with women, I was hanging out with a Pick Up Artist the other night, and before he got on his train, he suggested I go straight where this girl was sitting and sit RIGHT next to her.
I was wondering if anyone knew. What message would this be sending to her? I couldn't work out how this worked on some sort of 'body language' level.
He said a few hours later she "liked" me as she was curling her hair with her fingers.
I'm skeptical of that claim though. I'm too ugly and I wasn't doing anything special.
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^^ DeadGoon - it all depends on how you play it when you go strait like that - since that shows confidence the voice and mannerisms should follow (otw, it will seem skulky).
Sense of humor is an attractive quality to women since it shows chameleon like nature, gets them present since they are laughing prob. fall away and if you have a self-depracating way abt you it shows your not a PUA (pick up artist).
Playing with hair does tilt toward boredom and sexual tension - I call them on it in an innocent way and make them laugh. Eye dialation works the best for me, since they certainly aren't aware at all. And if they deny it, doth protest too much.
Women are a so subtle and love the tease and the test - like a tootsie pop - can you get to the candy center - it may take more than 3 licks!
quote:Originally posted by DeadGoon: Speaking of pushing the right button with women, I was hanging out with a Pick Up Artist the other night, and before he got on his train, he suggested I go straight where this girl was sitting and sit RIGHT next to her.
I was wondering if anyone knew. What message would this be sending to her? I couldn't work out how this worked on some sort of 'body language' level.
He said a few hours later she "liked" me as she was curling her hair with her fingers.
I'm skeptical of that claim though. I'm too ugly and I wasn't doing anything special.
If you approached with confidence, then I'm sure the girl noticed you. I would think that sitting right next to her would be a risk in that you might possibly be "invading her space", depending on how close you were to her. Then again, if she was interested, then this might not have been too much of a problem.
Women do give off subconscious indicators of interest to males they're interested in that aren't easily picked up on. One of these is playing with their hair. Another one is when a woman scratches on top of her hand.
Guys, typically, are pretty skeptical about body language and don't usually pay attention to it because it just doesn't come up on our radar screens. Since we don't pay attention to it, a lot of guys tend to miss certain non-verbal cues women may give off that indicate that they're interested or, the flip side, that they aren't interested. We, as guys, think communication is entirely made up of just words when, in fact, that is entirely not the case. Most communication, when interacting with people face to face, is mostly non-verbal and things like the way the person is carrying themselves (i.e. body language) and the tone of voice are taken into account by women.
As far as being "ugly" goes, it has less bearing than you think when it comes to attracting women. While looks do help, it's not a deal breaker if a guy looks far from being on the cover of a fashion magazine. A woman will pass on a good looking guy who doesn't have a good voice, body language and doesn't carry himself well. More guys need to stop thinking that it's all about the way they look. It's definitely more about the attitude they convey outwardly and how they carry themselves.
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LOL. Don't worry, I wasn't really serious about the ugly comment. I guess I'm thinking of an excuse to think something negative about myself. Because if the PUA WAS truthful about her showing interest, I'm kinda embarrassed about it as I don't see myself as a ladies man in anyway.
For the record, I wasn't "sarging" that night (I never have done that). He was just talking about what he did, and just before he left, he suggested I sit next to those chickies. That's ALL he said to do. And I was just curious as to what that whole experiment was about :shrugs:
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SO I was at a Jazz Jam session last night because a friend of mine was performing. Naturally she was open-toed heels and dressed very nicely (mind you, she's 55 and I'm 22. All my friends are older than me. How'd that happen?). The jam session wasn't just for playing or singing but for poets and spoken word as well. So one guy got up and did a poem about his foot fetish. Naturally, I was blown away. Of course my friend, who just happened to be hosting that night, made open jokes about it. Of course, I had to tell her later that night that I had liked feet too but it didn't go past that...yet.
By the way, that guy's poem was beyond wierd even for a foot lover like I am. Just thought I'd share that with you all.
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quote:Originally posted by DeadGoon: Speaking of pushing the right button with women, I was hanging out with a Pick Up Artist the other night, and before he got on his train, he suggested I go straight where this girl was sitting and sit RIGHT next to her.
I was wondering if anyone knew. What message would this be sending to her? I couldn't work out how this worked on some sort of 'body language' level.
He said a few hours later she "liked" me as she was curling her hair with her fingers.
I'm skeptical of that claim though. I'm too ugly and I wasn't doing anything special.
If you approached with confidence, then I'm sure the girl noticed you. I would think that sitting right next to her would be a risk in that you might possibly be "invading her space", depending on how close you were to her. Then again, if she was interested, then this might not have been too much of a problem.
Women do give off subconscious indicators of interest to males they're interested in that aren't easily picked up on. One of these is playing with their hair. Another one is when a woman scratches on top of her hand.
Guys, typically, are pretty skeptical about body language and don't usually pay attention to it because it just doesn't come up on our radar screens. Since we don't pay attention to it, a lot of guys tend to miss certain non-verbal cues women may give off that indicate that they're interested or, the flip side, that they aren't interested. We, as guys, think communication is entirely made up of just words when, in fact, that is entirely not the case. Most communication, when interacting with people face to face, is mostly non-verbal and things like the way the person is carrying themselves (i.e. body language) and the tone of voice are taken into account by women.
As far as being "ugly" goes, it has less bearing than you think when it comes to attracting women. While looks do help, it's not a deal breaker if a guy looks far from being on the cover of a fashion magazine. A woman will pass on a good looking guy who doesn't have a good voice, body language and doesn't carry himself well. More guys need to stop thinking that it's all about the way they look. It's definitely more about the attitude they convey outwardly and how they carry themselves.
One thing I read in a body language book years back that is a dead give away. If a woman touches you she digs you. Trust me this is so true and for people that don't pick up hints easy here is a dead give way.
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