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Hi all, A few of my friends (foot fetishists) were talking through the messenger service and we actually all came up with would it be better if we did not have a foot fetish? I think it has to be the most frustrating fetish in the world but I certainly love it and never want to lose it. I have wrote to agony aunts about it but always put an alias when asking the question my boyfriend has a foot fetish. Does it actually take over your life? in everday situations seeing pretty feet and wanting so much just to worship them or even just watch them walking without feeling so hung up about it. A few of my friends thought they could wish for not having it as it is always so frustrating.
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quote:Foot fetish do you wish sometimes you never had it?
Never. The truth is that I can't begin to fathom my life without my foot fetish, nor would I even want to. I've been open with people and forthright about my fetish for as long as I myself have even known that I had one, and it's been a constant joy for me that's brought and continues to bring unparalleled pleasure into my life. From time to time out here on the forum I've addressed the importance of one's foot fetish being an indulgence rather than a compulsion. We must not lose sight of this concept because without a firm grasp of what it means, we can easily find ourselves in over our heads and consumed whole. If a healthy and well-adjusted foot fetishist has the wherewithal to master his fetish rather than to be mastered by it, then the rewards he can reap from it are seemingly limitless.
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as a kid i used to pray to get over my interest in women's feet. but as an adult.. i'm cool with it and find it a point of originality that sets me apart from the breast and butt guys out there. i can see a woman for who she is. enjoy and endulge in all of her and focus on part that usually get ignored by other guys (feet). and the woman is usually grateful I can see the whole picture and even look her in the eye instead of down her blouse.. a major browny point for me!!! so, yeah.. it's cool.. hard to talk about but great to enjoy!!!
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I must say that I don't mind at all having a foot fetish. It's not really different than any other fetish. Some men may choose to look at the ass first or the breasts first. But as for me I look at the feet first. And I see this being a good thing simply becasue after checking her feet out I can then check out her ass and tits.. I'm multi talented..LOL
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i dont mind having one and i dont find it to be the most frustrating. just think of all those guys that like to pissed and shitted on. i think they have it a lot tougher then we do. i dont think wu has a forum for any of those guys.
i agree with RPM as a kid it was hard to enjoy because your a kid so you dont know much, but as an adult you can enjoy. unlike that guy in that blog the girl wrote about, if you play your cards right you will get a lot of feet in your lifetime. i have never really been rejected on my fetish although i dont go telling everyone i meet. but when i think i have the right person, i tell them. i dont make it look like im obsessed, i just tell them in a nice calm way. it seems to work everytime. the thing is most guys jump right at it and make it look like thats all they want the girl for, which makes the girl get turned off easily.
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my attraction to feet came late in life wheni was 19 (im 20 now) and i do have times where i wish i didnt have even though it feels good But I have the fear that i can only get aroused through feet one day since my attraction is slowly developing i once avoided foot close up pics now i love them i thought footjobs were to extreme now i think they're cool and the constant hard-ons over a random girls foot frightens me since it would be so embarrasing getting caught hard over feet right now im still coming to terms with but still question howd it happened
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I wouldn't change a thing...BUT...if I had a choice in the matter before I was born, knowing what I know now, I might choose to lose it.
Don't get me wrong...I don't hate that I'm attracted to barefoot girls, and since that's part of who I am I embrace it and enjoy it. But at the same time I think about all the time, money, energy, and resources I've either used or concocted down through the years to feed this "obsession", and I honestly wonder what more I could've done so far with my life.
The thing about "feeding the need", and I'm just speaking for myself, is this: It NEVER ends. Most of the time it's good and enjoyable, but sometimes it feels like some annoying itch right in the middle of your back that you're trying desperately to scratch, and no matter how much you rake your nails across your skin as you strain and stretch, it just keeps on itching...like a carrot dangling in front of the mule, you try and try to reach the goal of fulfillment, and deep inside I know it'll never come, no matter how many bites off the carrot you're lucky enough to snag.
As a result, I have to wonder at times what else I could've done with my life had I applied that kind of zeal or ambition toward something else.
Like I say, I don't regret that my attraction is there...it's just one of the many cards I've been dealt in this life, so I'm playing accordingly. But still...I wonder what "may have been" without this undying, unquenchable desire inside me.
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I will cherish it forever. Wouldn't have it any other way. period. Some close friends, to whom I have revealed my way, thought it as strange at first. If your a "breast guy" it might equate somewhat to 80%(maybe less) of the women going out topless in warm months. Here in the South it's warm 8 months a year...that's a lot of boobs! They get it now....some even wish they had the "power." perception is reality.
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I've done some embarrassing things, in the name of my love for women's feet. But in general, I don't regret having a foot fetish. When I was a teen, I fantasized going to a mental hospital to "treat" my fetish. I'd have a brain operation, then wake up "cured!" But I don't feel that way, anymore:)
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yes I do wish I didn't have it because it eliminates many attractive girls as potential prospects for me
I won't like a girl if I don't like her feet
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I'm 53 and developed my foot fetish at a very young age, maybe about 7 or 8? I have no idea how it started, but I remember jerking off to my sisters shoes as a kid. I have been married for 30 years and my wife love my fetish and the attention i have given to her feet over the years. She is dominant and I am VERY submissive. We role play often and I always take the role for her slave. We frequent fetish clubs in London and I love been forced to worship her feet with others watching. No, I would not chamge for anything
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quote:Originally posted by Lou Gojira: I wouldn't change a thing...BUT...if I had a choice in the matter before I was born, knowing what I know now, I might choose to lose it.
Don't get me wrong...I don't hate that I'm attracted to barefoot girls, and since that's part of who I am I embrace it and enjoy it. But at the same time I think about all the time, money, energy, and resources I've either used or concocted down through the years to feed this "obsession", and I honestly wonder what more I could've done so far with my life.
The thing about "feeding the need", and I'm just speaking for myself, is this: It NEVER ends. Most of the time it's good and enjoyable, but sometimes it feels like some annoying itch right in the middle of your back that you're trying desperately to scratch, and no matter how much you rake your nails across your skin as you strain and stretch, it just keeps on itching...like a carrot dangling in front of the mule, you try and try to reach the goal of fulfillment, and deep inside I know it'll never come, no matter how many bites off the carrot you're lucky enough to snag.
As a result, I have to wonder at times what else I could've done with my life had I applied that kind of zeal or ambition toward something else.
Well I thought I was the only one going through a mid-life crisis!
I echo your sentiments exactly, especially the last year or so, but I think most of it has been driven by my job situation (and that's a whole other story). There's no question that when we latched on to feet, we latched on tight bro.
To tell you the truth, I honestly believe that there's something in our personality that gives us this "addiction" or attraction, and I believe that, were it not feet- it would be something else. So wishing it away IMHO is fruitless.
And although I've said it before, I'll say it again. I can't thank this forum enough for finally encouraging me to tell my wife about it. She's become a regular little foot-babe for me, and I love her to death for it. I've really been able to focus my desires on her and "feed the need" at home, which has really helped me physically and mentally.
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yeah sometimes i do regret. can't focus on whatever im doing or while walking while i'm looking down at some preety feet or even checking them out
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