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so yeh ive been having fun with my new girlfriend who is ten times more relaxed about my foot fetish than my previous girl.
she told me tonight that it turns her on a little and shes enjoying getting used to it, her only problem is she wants to get her feet in better condition for me!
so in my mind i am a lot happier and i no longer feel bad for having this fetish like i used to. i still enjoy normal sex. but the thing that worries my new girlfriend is it becoming a substitute for sex or it taking over.
i have had to keep reasuring her that is not the case and i will still love to have sex with her. she pointed out that it would be like any other oral activity. but in my mind i may still feel bad for wanting her feet too much..
im not sure how to get round this. maybe fairly regular treatment of it will sort it out and as long as i give back im not a bad guy right??
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i got a little woried about the foot thing when i first met my boyfriend. i was new to it and thats all he wanted.take it slow,i enjoy it now .love Cathy
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this makes total sense and after spending the weekend with her, talking about it and having a good time i reaslised how lucky i am!
she is really cool about and and im keeping the feet to sex ratio very fair. in moderation and by making lots of love there is no reason why i can indulge in my foot fetish and let it take over.
it was through denial previously i felt i needed it all the time. in actuall fact to satisfy your fetish is to do exactly that with to need nothing more than moderation
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