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Posted by Aceo20 (Member # 2784) on :

I'm a 20 year old male virgin... Now I've never had a footjob....

I've had the most MASSIVE foot fetish since I was 5....

The fact is I've yearned for one for so long... I'm so spent of waiting....

There's this one girl in my sat. class that is always in clogs... she drives me crazy... I want so bad to be under her desk licking her feet...

It is so hard....

It is real hard.. I have alot of trouble dealing with it...

Any advice...

Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :

Be patient, get your mind on other things, and be patient, that's about all you can do when you start getting that frustrated feeling.

Now, as for nipping the lack of female feet in your life in the bud, you can do a lot about that. Work on your body, maybe lift weights or go running, and take care of your appearance. Work on your personality by inter-acting with girls and your buddies. Go to parties, go to movies, go to the mall, and work on your approach to people. Read books about things other people find interesting and you like too, but don't be a walking text book of info, nobody likes a bore, but they like somebody who knows what they're talking about.

In short, be patient but work toward the goal. It's not going to fall into your lap, you gotta be a man and get out there and pursue it, with tenacity and the will to finish what you start.

Learn about women, learn what they like, learn what they don't, have a deep-seated love and respect for women, and above all be a man about it. Not an over-bearing egomaniacal s.o.b., but women want men, not guys who think like women, otherwise they can get that kind of companionship from their friends.

Don't feel sorry for yourself, and don't let anything like this get you down. Like a dog can smell fear, women can sense self-pity and doubt, and they don't want that in a man, not most women anyway. They want that stability, that sureness only a man can offer.

So, with all that in mind, get cracking! [Cool]

Posted by whitetshirt (Member # 2866) on :

I understand, it's so hard wanting it so bad and not getting it. I am a girl that loves to have my toes sucked, but it doesn't happen near as often as I would like it to...hang in there, it'll be worth the wait.

Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :

quote:
Originally posted by whitetshirt:
hang in there, it'll be worth the wait.

He speaks the truth! At 20, you're certainly young enough to the point where you should eagerly be anticipating many phantasmagorical experiences that lie ahead for you in the foot realm. Your adventure is only beginning. Lou gave you some great advice as well by pointing out that the time is ripe for taking the bull by the horns and effecting a positive change in your situation. You'll be glad you did!

[Wu]

Calico Jack

Posted by Michael86 (Member # 1993) on :

Lou speaks words or wisdom. You're best days are ahead of you!

Welcome to the board whitetshirt! It's good to have you here.

Michael

Posted by Pink (Member # 1577) on :

Lou, I am sure you will be able to explain eloquently, can you push the point of sharing your love for feet with the women you spend time with? Please do. If handled maturely, it is a real turn on to satisfy a man with your feet, knowing that even your feet are attractive to a man, let alone the great foot massages and toe sucking. What real woman doesnt like a foot rub? It is all up to you from there [Wink]

Appearance is important, but attitude will trump it every time. Your words and actions will speak louder than anything. Anyway, with girls your age, if you share your interest in foot sex, you will get better responses than you are expecting. They can wear their clothes, just remove thier socks, and have a new and kinky college experience. LOL!

Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :

Lou is right on target. Invest in you because YOU want you to be worth while for a woman to want. You must bring something to the table.

quote:
Learn about women, learn what they like, learn what they don't, have a deep-seated love and respect for women, and above all be a man about it.

Aceo20, You must be a serious STUDENT of the game; Women come in all types of plays and you must be ready to play. No half steppin' here man. Women don't want a boy they a MAN/Gentleman. Rememeber this, "If you can't hang with the big dogs don't bark, stay on the porch with puppies."

Be about understanding women and how they really are. Books are a start, but you need practicle experience because every women is different and unique in her own right. The right attitude will take you a long ways. You have to go slow to go fast. Take your time and be respectful of a lady when you see/meet one. Notice what I said, "a woman vs. a lady." There is a difference. They are the same for the most part, but they are different. Your time will come guy, but you have got to be ready.

Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :

Thanks for the nice words everybody, y'all all gave some good advice too! [Cheers]

quote:
Lou, I am sure you will be able to explain eloquently, can you push the point of sharing your love for feet with the women you spend time with?

Thanks Pink, I'll try... [Wink]

Without a doubt you should be able to. It's all about a few factors: communication, comfort levels, and trust. That's why it's important to learn aspects of female behavior and apply what you know in smooth, non-intruding ways. But also it's important to work on communication skills with women, because they're no more mind-readers than guys are. Comfort levels can only be reached for both the guy and the girl in the scenario from time invested in the relationship, and the amount of communication they share.

I'm not claiming to be an expert in this, just passing onto Brother Aceo things I've found to be pretty common truth's in the grand scheme of things. Brother Footman9 hit the nail square on the head when he said:

quote:
You have to go slow to go fast. Take your time and be respectful of a lady when you see/meet one.

Is a foot-job attainable right off the bat? In most situations, no. That's why it's so important to work on yourself ahead of time to gain the attention of the girl, and then work on your relationship with the girl, being willing to put the time into it all and being patient in the process once you have her attention. Of course, don't mistake the foot-job as the golden ring you're reaching for, think of it as the icing on the cake, with the cake symbolizing a good, healthy, and caring relationship with the girl. The golden ring symbolizes the love you and the girl have, that's what your main focus should be through it all, IMHO. If the love's not there, and the care and trust isn't there either, you may as well stay at home and jerkoff alone, because essentially that's all the physical will amount to if you don't have the love for the girl in the first place, also IMHO.

But like Brother CJ pointed out:

quote:
At 20, you're certainly young enough to the point where you should eagerly be anticipating many phantasmagorical experiences that lie ahead for you in the foot realm. Your adventure is only beginning.

Amen, and amen. You're young, you've got a whole lifetime of adventure in store, so don't sweat not having anything so far, because things will just get better for you.

Like I say Aceo, you've got some rewarding work to do, now get busy! [Thumbs Up]

Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :

Lou- Great advice, well stated, and Pink

quote:
Originally posted by Pink:
...If handled maturely, it is a real turn on to satisfy a man with your feet, knowing that even your feet are attractive to a man, let alone the great foot massages and toe sucking. What real woman doesnt like a foot rub?

Well said, and thanks for the affirmation. That is so true, especially if you're married. I'm finding that out for myself, as my wife is really "getting into" my fetish more everyday.

And Aceo20- this might surprise you, but I wish I was you. Though, as you lament, you don't actively have anyone's feet to enjoy right now, if you follow Lou's advice, you're going to enjoy untold foot treasure throughout your life. I wish I had been a lot more open with my fetish early in my life, even with my wife, I would not have now been making up for lost time. [Thumbs Up]

Posted by Aceo20 (Member # 2784) on :

Thanks to Lou and everyone else that responded to my dilemma.

I have realized that I've got to take this one day at a time. That's the only way I am going to be able to beat this thing right?

Anyway peace...

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Lou Gojira:
Be patient, get your mind on other things, and be patient, that's about all you can do when you start getting that frustrated feeling.

Now, as for nipping the lack of female feet in your life in the bud, you can do a lot about that. Work on your body, maybe lift weights or go running, and take care of your appearance. Work on your personality by inter-acting with girls and your buddies. Go to parties, go to movies, go to the mall, and work on your approach to people. Read books about things other people find interesting and you like too, but don't be a walking text book of info, nobody likes a bore, but they like somebody who knows what they're talking about.

In short, be patient but work toward the goal. It's not going to fall into your lap, you gotta be a man and get out there and pursue it, with tenacity and the will to finish what you start.

Learn about women, learn what they like, learn what they don't, have a deep-seated love and respect for women, and above all be a man about it. Not an over-bearing egomaniacal s.o.b., but women want men, not guys who think like women, otherwise they can get that kind of companionship from their friends.

Don't feel sorry for yourself, and don't let anything like this get you down. Like a dog can smell fear, women can sense self-pity and doubt, and they don't want that in a man, not most women anyway. They want that stability, that sureness only a man can offer.

So, with all that in mind, get cracking!

being desperate like this guy can kinda make feeling sorry for yourself a safe option. but this is good advice nonetheless.

Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Lou Gojira:

Learn about women, learn what they like, learn what they don't,

haha that's the problem lou what turns on one girl can completly turn off another

one girl might like a guy because he is a caring person and another girl might be completely turned off because he is a caring person

great advice all around though

Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :

damn just noticed this thread is two years old

Posted by coedfeet (Member # 2738) on :

yeah if the guy hasn't had one by now, there is no helping him.
why the hell was something this old dug up?

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

just bored. whenever i get bored on the board i search for stuff. sorry:-\

Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :

well.. i missed it the first time around!!!

Lou.. awesome words. I won't add to it much.

RPM

Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :

yeah, i'm kinda in the same situation as the guy who posted the topic. so i guess i can use some of the advice.

Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :

quote:
haha that's the problem lou what turns on one girl can completly turn off another

one girl might like a guy because he is a caring person and another girl might be completely turned off because he is a caring person

True enough Mike...but I was talking in more general terms of what women may or may not like.

For instance, there are a handful of girls out there that actually like to talk about video games...but let's face it, video gaming is predominantly a male sort of hobby, so it's safe to assume that talking about Halo or Resident Evil on a first date is a bad idea.

You know, stuff like that. [Cool]

Thanks go to the folks who complimented my posts.
[Cheers]

Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :

callista plays resident evil

http://www.callistamodel.com/cblog/?page_id=3

check out her feature model set here

Posted by demonic_angel666 (Member # 6509) on :

Question to lou, have you got a fj yet?

Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :

quote:
Originally posted by demonic_angel666:
Question to lou, have you got a fj yet?

Answer from Lou:

Yeah. [Big Grin]

Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :

quote:
callista plays resident evil

You're right! Now that you mention it, I can remember when she and Brother Mystik had talked about how cool RE4 was back when the game first came out on the GameCube here on the forum! She said she missed the zombies if I remember right. Yeap, that made her just all the more cool in my book. [Thumbs Up]

Posted by footlover116 (Member # 18609) on :

Well I have had a foot fetish for as long as I can remember and I want to bring that into my girlfriends life as well. I've done a couple foot rubs but nothing big. She dosn't know I have this fetish......how do I tell her?

Posted by ozkar (Member # 13264) on :

No shame in that. Things will happen when they are supposed to. Rushing it will just give you baggage.

Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Lou Gojira:

quote:
Originally posted by demonic_angel666:
Question to lou, have you got a fj yet?
Answer from Lou:

Yeah.

Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Pink:
Lou, I am sure you will be able to explain eloquently, can you push the point of sharing your love for feet with the women you spend time with? Please do. If handled maturely, it is a real turn on to satisfy a man with your feet, knowing that even your feet are attractive to a man, let alone the great foot massages and toe sucking. What real woman doesnt like a foot rub? It is all up to you from there Appearance is important, but attitude will trump it every time. Your words and actions will speak louder than anything. Anyway, with girls your age, if you share your interest in foot sex, you will get better responses than you are expecting. They can wear their clothes, just remove thier socks, and have a new and kinky college experience. LOL!

Pink, your absolutly correct in everything you've said & your attitude on this particular is fantastic & it's like a breath of fresh-air, your so cool good on you I say.

Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :

I don't think I'd had one at 20 either. I'm 25 now and have had my share. [Wink]

Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :

I dont see why more women wouldnt want there guy to have a love for feet! I mean...all they have to do is lie there..hell, just grab a book or watch tv and we can do the rest! [Big Grin]

Plus, like Pink illustrates,all the foot rubs they will recieve which we all know women love for the most part.I can see them not liking getting their toes sucked everytime they recieve footrubs...but sometimes when I want to play with my girl's feet,if I feel she is leaning more towards the "No" side I say "It's not like you have to do anything" and then I click ont he tv for her,find her fav show and voila! her peds are mine.She agrees with me in saying that she would rather just let me do what I want with her peds than have to have her arm fall off jerking me off.

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Aceo20:
It is so hard....

It is real hard.. I have alot of trouble dealing with it...

Any advice...

Fortunately (or unfortunately) for me I had the pleasure of working with a 300lb fat short haired red headed freckled face stinky lady who delivered pizzas with me many years ago when I worked for Papa John's.

Ever since then, I've run into occasions where I've needed to get rid of a hard on really fast. I always just picture my fat colleague sitting on her boyfriend's face whenever I run into those sort of problems. I'm sure everyone out there can identify with a coworker similar to my red-headed Dawn.

It usually helps immediately with the thoughts that caused the boner, but takes just a tad longer to get the blood back where it belongs.

Hang in there though, you're 1st FJ will probably be one to remember if you're young and got a wild one to release.

Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:

quote:
Originally posted by Aceo20:
It is so hard....

It is real hard.. I have alot of trouble dealing with it...

Any advice...
It usually helps immediately with the thoughts that caused the boner, but takes just a tad longer to get the blood back where it belongs.

Works better than a cold shower, eh Tyler? [Laugh]