hqo do you gusy feel when another guy rubs your girls feet? that is assuming that this has happened. my girl loved to have her feet rubbed and many time si have seen other guys rubbing her, bare, stocking, or socked feet. she knows how much this excited me, actually it makes me rock hard. anyone lese have feelings about it.? let me know feeling or expereinces???
Posted by Dante Mons (Member # 9580) on :
No other guy would be touching my wife's feet, so that's not something I worry about. See, they can look at day. It doesn't excite me, or my current gf. Nor has it excited my past gf's.
But why would I want another man messing with my gals feet? To some it's fine. To me, as I've stated before, someone would be getting an ass whuppin.
Posted by fj88 (Member # 2631) on :
i hear ya. dunno it just turns me on so see another gusy ahnds on my girl especially her feet.
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
I'm not married but I still know where I stand on this issue. If both partners in a couple are open to the idea of having the gal's feet played with by another man, then I say more power to them as that's certainly their prerogrative. I myself am not currently in a monogamous or committed relationship with one girl, but if I were, then I reckon I'd feel exactly the same way that Dante Mons does. I'd want to be the only person who has exclusive access to her feet. As such, I'd never get involved with the feet of a gal who is married unless she and her husband both openly invited me to do so because that's something they mutually enjoy.
Calico Jack
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
no F-ing way. no other man is allow to touch them, those babies are mine, all mine and only mine. she uses them to walk and get them smelly for me, but they really belong to me. what kind of shit is that; another man touching one's wife/girl feet.
Posted by coedfeet (Member # 2738) on :
I've been into the swinging scene for years, always been able to have my former gf's and my wife participate. Never had a guy do anything with their feet, but seen my women do plenty of oral and regular sex. I don't get protective or jealous, it's silly and chicks don't dig it. This way not only do I get a great show, but I get to sample all kinds of different wives and gf's.
Posted by moman (Member # 479) on :
It depends on who he is. There's a couple that we have been "exclusive" with for about 15 years. I find it a total turn on when he rubs my wife's feet or when she rubs his cock with her feet (I also enjoy watching her give him oral). Not sure how I would feel about someone else rubbing them - I would probably feel honored that someone else finds her feet a sexy as I do.
MoMan
Posted by toelicker91 (Member # 7658) on :
I have massaged plenty of my female friends feet. If their man has a problem with it he can come and see me. I do it because it makes them feel better and relaxed. Also their men dont do it very often for them. If I see a woman whos feet look like they hurt I would offer a massage. wether she be single or not.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Calico Jack: If both partners in a couple are open to the idea of having the gal's feet played with by another man, then I say more power to them as that's certainly their prerogrative.
I agree, and I wouldn't have any problem with another guy playing with my wife's feet, even sexually- though I doubt she'd ever go for it. But I'd never let her do anything else with another guy (nor does she want to). So even though I sexualize her feet as much as I do, I still don't hold them as intimate as oral or vaginal sex.
Would she agree to to it, this would be an increbly erotic activity and "connection" for us. I'm sure it's difficult for some to understand this, but her being willing to share what I see as an intimate body part/activity with another man would indeed provide a very deep emotional connection between the two of us, even though the act itself, between her and him, is a sensual/sexual act.
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Posted by Dante Mons (Member # 9580) on :
Again, I think it's a prefference thing. Personally, women I've dated would be insulted if I didn't like them enough to want the exclusive thing. So I've never had a conflicting interest. For me, I'd not let another man fuck my wife, so her feet are also off limits.
Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
Having another man touch my wife's feet would be a HUGE turn on for me but she'd never allow it.
Posted by toelicker91 (Member # 7658) on :
Dante fucking a woman and massaging her feet are 2 totally different things.
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Posted by zappa2001 (Member # 1726) on :
I don't own my gf's feet. They are not mine even if I marry her. A woman is not an object.
Would it turn me on if another man touched her feet? No. Not even a little bit. Not if he had a foot fetish. It's just her feet. Now I like barefoot women, but what happens when somebody else touches her feet? Nothing. Nothing at all.
I have always fantasized about another man and my gf having sex. Nobody in particular, just the fact that she is getting turned on is such a turn on. I don't believe I could actually let it happen, but it certainly seems kinky when thinking about it. Reality is always a different story. I'm also a jealous person, and believe some of the kinkiness comes from the taboo of me sharing. Reality would be much different and I'd probably be an asshole.
Posted by mywifesfeet (Member # 2630) on :
If it is a guy that we trust and are friends with then my wife and I get off big time on another guy playing with her barefeet. As a matter of fact, if it is sexual for him it's all the better.
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
I don't understand the whole turn on of other guys touching your girls feet.
Why be the guy watching when you can easily be the guy doing the touching?
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
my gf wouldnt allow that to happen and if it did,i swear it would be the last thing he"d ever do in his life.its come close,i went to a fetish party a couple years ago and this guy kept harrassing my girlfriend about her feet whenever i wasnt around and when i saw him come up to her again after she buzzed him off,i got loud wit him n almost slugged his old indian ass.luckly one of the promoters understood what was going on and pulled this guy to the side,and eventually threw him out later that evening for other resons. ive also had guys come up to me personally and ask for "sweedish massages" from her,wich ive always declined ofcourse,and id say every so ofen some guy asks her for somthing foot related to her or asks me)why they ask me is beyond me)and we always decline,we are exclusive and most people respect that,therefore it doesnt bother me when they ask,but like i said,if i saw it,or somguy kept harrasing her,id off him
Posted by toelicker91 (Member # 7658) on :
I think alot of people her are talking alot of hot air. I would offer to massage ANY womans feet if they were sore wether she has a man or not. It is up to her if she wants to let me do it for her or not. If she does it shows she must not care about her man very much. So you guys who are gonna "off or hit " some guy for doing it better take a look at your woman first.
Posted by Benji (Member # 1757) on :
I do not want any other person touching my fiancee's feet except me... it almost goes back to the Pulp Fiction theory of feet touching (if anyone is familar with the opening lines about foot rubbing, lol) But in all seriouness, I think foot rubbing is too sensual to be allowed for other men, if you don't mind that's great, but I DO NOT like the idea of some other guy doing that.
Posted by Craigy boy (Member # 3340) on :
I'm cool with it. I get to play with my mates wives feet all the time. It's only fair i reciprocate.
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
quote:Originally posted by toelicker91: I think alot of people her are talking alot of hot air. I would offer to massage ANY womans feet if they were sore wether she has a man or not. It is up to her if she wants to let me do it for her or not. If she does it shows she must not care about her man very much. So you guys who are gonna "off or hit " some guy for doing it better take a look at your woman first.
On some levels,I agree witcha,look @ the wifey first if somthing happends.but in my mind jus the thought of some guy touching my wifeys feet would be a bad mistake on his part nomatter thr circumstance.unless its the korean women @ the nail salon,I don't want anyone but me touching her feet,as well as any other "special place" on her body.same thing with drunken idiots harrassing her about her feet,or anyother place on her body.a guy one time was relentless nomatter how many times she told him to leave her alone,so I approached him n almost duffed him,made a scene,delt wit the embarressment,etc,true story.weather its feet or anything else,somone who messes or harrasses my gf even after she buzzes him off n tells them no and they don't take that as an answer,deals with me,its been done b4,and probably will happen again. "Toelicker91",I'm sure you ask to give to variouse women,married or not,and I'm sure if they say no,you leave it be n go on ya merry ways right?I think you misread what I was saying,if not then that's some "air" right there
Posted by toelicker91 (Member # 7658) on :
Vineofthorns, You are correct if I offer and the woman says no thank you I say well if you ever want it done and we are here at the same time I would be happy to give you a massage. I have also done it for some women in a bar in front of their man. One guy told me he hated feet so if she wanted it done and she was willing to let me then go for it. He had no problem. He said I know who she is going home with. One guy wanted to fight but thought better of it when his gf told him its ok. He wasnt bothering me. Hey if he swings I hope he would have knocked me out, if not well you know the rest. So i guess it just depends on how the woman takes the offer.
Posted by KpandP25 (Member # 10345) on :
I could have predicted where the responses would go on this subject. For all of us here feet are a very sexual thing. So I think for most of us this question is akin to asking "Would you let another guy touch your women's ass or breasts".
Some of us have relationships where a certain amount of swinging or sharing takes place. There are others who are totally exclusive so any form of interaction is unacceptible. You could probably map this question responses along these lines.
As for me, my girl and I do some swinging and having another guy rub her feet would not bother me. On the other hand it would not turn me on either.
Kevin
Posted by bmw2k4 (Member # 2858) on :
my girlfriends feet are mine only!! no fuking way is any1 even touching them besides me!
Posted by shoeslave (Member # 2778) on :
I love watching other guys worship my wife's feet. It turns all three of us on!!!
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by moman: It depends on who he is. There's a couple that we have been "exclusive" with for about 15 years. I find it a total turn on when he rubs my wife's feet or when she rubs his cock with her feet (I also enjoy watching her give him oral). Not sure how I would feel about someone else rubbing them - I would probably feel honored that someone else finds her feet a sexy as I do.
MoMan
It is interesting that you shoul.d say that because my cleaner's husband does'nt seem to get turned on by her feet at all in fact 18 months ag at one of her birthday partys she suddenly put her feet into his lap & he looked at her as if she had just pissed on the carpet, mind you he was eating at the time but it still would'nt put me off because as I'be said before her feet are so beatiful in my opinion.
Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
Actually, at the last foot party I attended, a similar situation presented itself. My wife and I went to a foot party back in September where we met some cool people. The last foot party a couple of weeks ago, I went alone. I was talking with a guy who was asking about my wife. At the first party, he thought she was one of the models and was going to ask her to go into a private session with her. He told me he refrained after he found out she wasn't a model and she was my wife. I told him that, if he wanted to, I would have let him do a private session with her if he wanted. As long as there's nothing sexual going on, I know about it, and my wife is cool with it, I say go for it. I told my wife that this guy was asking for her and she was flattered. She said she'd do it the next time if he asks her.
I don't really share the sentiments that it turns me on to see someone else doing "things" to my wife's feet though...unless of course that someone else is female.
Bondo
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by Bondo: As long as there's nothing sexual going on, I know about it, and my wife is cool with it, I say go for it.
I reckon there's a bit of semantic ambiguity surrounding what constitutes something sexual though. To me, the notion of a man putting his mouth to a woman's foot for the purposes of pleasure (his or hers) is very sexual indeed, though certainly not in the biological sense of reproductive organs, intercourse, and such. It's the scenario itself that's overflowing with sexuality in a case like that, but that's precisely what appeals to me so much about couples who have open relationships and enjoy having the wife allow other men to be intimate with her feet. I must have a voyeuristic streak in me somewhere that causes me to appreciate that sort of thing precisely because I do see it as sexual. I totally get Bondo's point though and understand full well what he means when he says "as long as there's nothing sexual going on".
I think it's real cool that the guy at the party was courteous enough to refrain from approaching your wife after realizing that you two were together. Having been in the foot party scene as long as I have, I've seen that happen and I've also seen what happens when the guy chooses not to refrain from approaching the gal even when he knows that she's attached. Thankfully there haven't been too many of those incidents over the years to contend with, but they were never pretty and given the choice I would've opted to not have been a witness to them.
Calico Jack
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Benji: I do not want any other person touching my fiancee's feet except me... it almost goes back to the Pulp Fiction theory of feet touching (if anyone is familar with the opening lines about foot rubbing, lol) But in all seriouness, I think foot rubbing is too sensual to be allowed for other men, if you don't mind that's great, but I DO NOT like the idea of some other guy doing that.
Providing your giving your woman's feet the attention in which they crave I honestly don't think you need to worry about her letting another man rub his feet against her's. As far as Im concerned the only reason my cleaner has allowed me the honour of massarging her feet as well as licking them, as well as painting her Toenails & playing footsie is because her husband neglects her beautiful Feet which baffles me because if I was married to her I would worship those feet of her's at every oppotunity but don't worry I would'nt dare do anything else to her I promise.
Posted by UnholyPriest (Member # 10589) on :
Like others have said, it all boils down to sexual lifestyle (swinger, exclusive) as well as the intensity of your sexual feelings towards feet.
I know I wouldn't want ANY guy near my girlfriends feet. Purely because I view them with the same sexual connotations as breasts, ass, etc. I know I wouldn't like some guy buzzing around my girlfriends feet; they'd be in my mouth later on and the thought of a guy doing stuff with my girlfriends feet isn't a turn on at all.
Each to their own, but in my personal opinion, I dont accept other guys doing anything with my girlfriends feet, let alone touching them. and Toelicker91, if I found some guy harassing my girlfriend for her feet, I'd without a doubt hit him something severe. It'd be just like him asking her for sex.
Would you allow a guy to ask your girlfriend/wife for sex?
Posted by lopey (Member # 11430) on :
I'm in Chicago for those couples looking for a worshipper for some foot play,so talk with your wives/gf and get back to me.
And if she has high arches please get back to me ASAP. Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by lopey: I'm in Chicago for those couples looking for a worshipper for some foot play,so talk with your wives/gf and get back to me.
And if she has high arches please get back to me ASAP.
I hope you got a few couples showing a bit of interest, unfortunatly it's a bit too far for me too travel.
Posted by Benji (Member # 1757) on :
I don't think my girl's feet will be touched by anyone else because I don't think she would want anyone else to and also she knows how much I like them. Posted by crazyscot (Member # 3393) on :
that should do it!!
Posted by lover_of_feet11 (Member # 13186) on :
It is not my intention to turn this into an avenue to vent my frustration, but fj88, I'd just like to take some time to illustrate a point to you.
3 years ago, my girlfriend committed the first of what would be a series of 3 unfaithful acts with her x-boyfriend. I was oblivious to what was happening behind my back for @ least a year and a half until the cat got let out of the bag.
When I attempted to get to the bottom of it all, she grew increasingly frustrated. Not with the fact that I found out, but the fact that she couldn't continue (which didn't matter because once she saw an opening, she did it again). When I asked her why she did what she did, she said she needed excitement in her life. Work, kids, too much and she needed an escape.
Now, to the point, of all the reasons I tried to figure out, I could never guess why she would go back after I found out the 1st time. I asked her if it was sex. Her reply, "...that was a huge part...". I was VERY angry, but not as angry as I would become shortly thereafter. I asked why she took advantage of our relationship. Her reply, "...while there's love, understanding, and stability, there's no challenge. I needed challenge! I'm addicted to that guy! The sex, the fact that I can't have him even though I want him, the foot massages...." WTF!!!
Although I was upset with all that was going on, nothing infuriated me more than the unfortunate fact that she allowed another man, let alone an x-boyfriend, massage her feet. We happen to still be together, but things aren't the same. I still love her, AND her feet with great passion, but knowing that she willingly allowed another man massage her feet just eats away at my brain everytime I look at them. I won't deny that her feet are sexy, but no matter how high her arches are, it won't amount to how low she stooped. I guess that explains why I spend a great deal of spare time on foot fetish sites & this forum.
Fj88, if seeing someone else touching your ol'lady's feet suits your fancy, then my brother, more power to you. But I hope that this story gives you some type of indication that I could NEVER allow another man to touch my woman's feet...
the fact that it's happened already eats away at me all day, everyday.
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by lover_of_feet11: It is not my intention to turn this into an avenue to vent my frustration, but fj88, I'd just like to take some time to illustrate a point to you.
3 years ago, my girlfriend committed the first of what would be a series of 3 unfaithful acts with her x-boyfriend. I was oblivious to what was happening behind my back for @ least a year and a half until the cat got let out of the bag.
When I attempted to get to the bottom of it all, she grew increasingly frustrated. Not with the fact that I found out, but the fact that she couldn't continue (which didn't matter because once she saw an opening, she did it again). When I asked her why she did what she did, she said she needed excitement in her life. Work, kids, too much and she needed an escape.
Now, to the point, of all the reasons I tried to figure out, I could never guess why she would go back after I found out the 1st time. I asked her if it was sex. Her reply, "...that was a huge part...". I was VERY angry, but not as angry as I would become shortly thereafter. I asked why she took advantage of our relationship. Her reply, "...while there's love, understanding, and stability, there's no challenge. I needed challenge! I'm addicted to that guy! The sex, the fact that I can't have him even though I want him, the foot massages...." WTF!!!
Although I was upset with all that was going on, nothing infuriated me more than the unfortunate fact that she allowed another man, let alone an x-boyfriend, massage her feet. We happen to still be together, but things aren't the same. I still love her, AND her feet with great passion, but knowing that she willingly allowed another man massage her feet just eats away at my brain everytime I look at them. I won't deny that her feet are sexy, but no matter how high her arches are, it won't amount to how low she stooped. I guess that explains why I spend a great deal of spare time on foot fetish sites & this forum.
Fj88, if seeing someone else touching your ol'lady's feet suits your fancy, then my brother, more power to you. But I hope that this story gives you some type of indication that I could NEVER allow another man to touch my woman's feet...
the fact that it's happened already eats away at me all day, everyday.
Wow...fuck that.. =\
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Plastercast to thank:
quote:Originally posted by Benji: I do not want any other person touching my fiancee's feet except me... it almost goes back to the Pulp Fiction theory of feet touching (if anyone is familar with the opening lines about foot rubbing, lol) But in all seriouness, I think foot rubbing is too sensual to be allowed for other men, if you don't mind that's great, but I DO NOT like the idea of some other guy doing that.
Providing your giving your woman's feet the attention in which they crave I honestly don't think you need to worry about her letting another man rub his feet against her's. As far as Im concerned the only reason my cleaner has allowed me the honour of massarging her feet as well as licking them, as well as painting her Toenails & playing footsie is because her husband neglects her beautiful Feet which baffles me because if I was married to her I would worship those feet of her's at every oppotunity but don't worry I would'nt dare do anything else to her I promise.
Ok I will admit that I would love to spill my load all over my cleaner's feet , however this can only happen in my dreams I guess.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
I guess I just find it hard to consider my wife on her knees sucking another mans wood. I dont think I would like seeing her feet on someone else's cock either, But if it floats peoples boat, go ahead.
Posted by reanimation (Member # 2136) on :
No other guy would touch my wifes feet. It's like breast would you leave another guy touch your wifes breasts?
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i use to think i was so open minded that i wouldn't mind someone touching my lady's feet. i didn't mind if someone touched my ex's feet.
now i'm engaged.. the tides have changed.. I do mind.. why? her feet excite me so much.
when i was younger (and cute) i did on a few occassion touch the feet of another guy's gal. but the age difference was such that it was considered cute by her and me.. but after the fact.. i said.. nope.. too risky.. if he gets upset.. i can't outrun him or out maneurver his fist.
anyway.. if a woman has a man.. i won't touch her feet out of respect for the relationship.. my lady is semi-fine with me massaging feet of friends who i've massaged in the past. and whenever i do.. i let her know.. ie.. i almost never do massage such feet anymore.
she on the other hand will kill any guy who tried to get to her feet.. so.. i'm not even concerned there. she leaves her feet for me.
so.. if you are fine sharing that moment.. be my guest.. i used to think i was.. but am not. and i much rather play with my lady's feet anyway.. more exciting and they are the ones I like a lot!
RPM
Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :
I have been asked this question before, and my answer has to be No, I would not want another person to touch my Wife's feet in such a personal manner as I do. She would never want that either, as she puts it...her feet and all she has to give are mine and mine alone for me to enjoy and revel in. I must admit, the idea of my Wife having another man be with her feet as I would, does make me feel jelous and envy, not just because of the physical aspect but also because of what it represents emotionally and intimately too. Along those same lines she would never want me to massage or caress another womans's feet as she knows all to well what it signifies for me. This goes along with the Vincent Vega/Pulp Fiction logic, and I am only to happy to oblige her. She completely fills my foot fetish needs and wants.
Posted by Girlgotsole (Member # 14405) on :
If a guy touched my girlfriend's feet, I don't care what reason is for, he's going down. Those feet are for /me/. Lol. They can look, and trust me, they're welcome to enjoy looking at them (providing they're not insanely open about it). But the second those fingertips touch those little blessed feet, it's time for the big slap. Lol.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Girlgotsole: If a guy touched my girlfriend's feet, I don't care what reason is for, he's going down. Those feet are for /me/. Lol. They can look, and trust me, they're welcome to enjoy looking at them (providing they're not insanely open about it). But the second those fingertips touch those little blessed feet, it's time for the big slap. Lol.
Providing you give her feet the amount of attention that I suspect you would give them, then you have'nt got anythin to worry about, as she won't need to go anywere else for her Footfun will she?
Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
No man will ever come near my wife's feet. I don't think my wife would even ask me if another guy could touch her feet. To me as a foot fetishist, thats the same as another man touching my wifes breast or butt. Just don't do it.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by FtLckr26: No man will ever come near my wife's feet. I don't think my wife would even ask me if another guy could touch her feet. To me as a foot fetishist, thats the same as another man touching my wifes breast or butt. Just don't do it.
you will always give your wife's feet the attention in which you belive they deserve, purly & simply because you feel the same way about the sight of barefooted ladies as the rest of us on this site do, as the very fact that you choose to post stuff on this website demonstrates. As I have said earlier it is only guy's such as my cleaner's husband of who clearly fails to appreciate how beautiful his wife's feet are, of whom need to be careful that their wifes could chose to get their foot fun elsewere.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2swift: I have been asked this question before, and my answer has to be No, I would not want another person to touch my Wife's feet in such a personal manner as I do. She would never want that either, as she puts it...her feet and all she has to give are mine and mine alone for me to enjoy and revel in. I must admit, the idea of my Wife having another man be with her feet as I would, does make me feel jelous and envy, not just because of the physical aspect but also because of what it represents emotionally and intimately too. Along those same lines she would never want me to massage or caress another womans's feet as she knows all to well what it signifies for me. This goes along with the Vincent Vega/Pulp Fiction logic, and I am only to happy to oblige her. She completely fills my foot fetish needs and wants.
Having read through your post on this particular subject I can honestly say you have'nt got anything to worry about whatsoever as your clearly giving her feet the attention that she craves & she's obviously quite happy with your exellent treatment of her feet, so therefore she NEVER feels any need to look elsewere for foot-fun & fairplay to you both I say.
Posted by imasoleman (Member # 5044) on :
Massaging them is fine, since my wife went to massage school. But when it comes to licking and sucking, thats where I draw the line, and see knows that'll piss me off good. Some other people may like it, but I don't.
Posted by shoeslave (Member # 2778) on :
I get very excited watching other guys worship my wife's feet, Especially sub guys
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by shoeslave: I get very excited watching other guys worship my wife's feet, Especially sub guys
That's in complete contrast to a lot of the other guys have said & you certainly seem to be in the minority but fairplay to you.
Posted by climax (Member # 6641) on :
I feel the same way about someone rubbing my womans feet as a guy would if someone was rubbing his womans breasts or feeling her ass.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I once massaged my friend's wife's feet--in his presance! No, he didn't get jealous. I dunno. I'd like to hope I wouldn't get jealous if a guy rubbed my girlfriend's feet in front of me. I guess it would depend on the situation.
Posted by Champpalmer (Member # 16374) on :
Even with the permission of another guy, I would feel totally uncomfortable massaging his wifes feet. I think its more of a respect issue even if he says its okay. I know my motives for doing such a thing would not be pure and I would more than likely get sexually stimulated from it.
I'd pass.
Posted by mattu2 (Member # 9895) on :
I think if I saw a guy touching my girl's feet I'd probably burst into flames and hurl my body at him so he would burn too. Wow, maybe I do have jealousy issues.......
Posted by Champpalmer (Member # 16374) on :
I can't think of one scenario where this would fly for any guy walking into a room and seeing some guy massaging his girls/wifes feet. Its one thing if it was some random guy but a better question would be... What if the guy is someone you knew such as a long time friend or someone you've known for about 2 years or less.
Would that change things?
Posted by mattu2 (Member # 9895) on :
Wouldn't change a thing. Unless there is a medical reason and the guy in question is a podiatrist.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
What if you're wife was an actress on a sitcom and part of a scene (that they were paying her lots of money for) included having an actor rub her feet? Also, would it make a difference if the male actor did or didn't share your fetish?
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.: What if you're wife was an actress on a sitcom and part of a scene (that they were paying her lots of money for) included having an actor rub her feet? Also, would it make a difference if the male actor did or didn't share your fetish?
That's a good question & a clever way of putting it as well.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Ya tyler...if the guy in question didnt have a love for the female feet then I guess it wouldnt be as bad as having someone like me(or anybody else on this forum ) rubbing them. I definetly would not get turned on by it though.
Posted by feetlover2 (Member # 4788) on :
I have shared my wifes feet with a friend of mine, I was secure with it, It was fun. I know there was nothing more than us sharing her feet.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i take it case by case. i'm very secure. if she let another guy touch her feet, she really needed the relief that badly and i'm happy she got the relief she needed. i know where my lady's head is.. and i've got no reason to doubt her choice. believe me.. i'd be pretty excited to know what was on her mind if she let another man touch her feet. she's very very very very strict about that!!!! so much so, sometimes i don't get to touch.
if i was dating another gal.. id' still take it case by case. what was her motive for getting the massage. could care less about the other guy's motives. to me, his wanting to touch only affirms what I know.. my lady got's hot feet. it's more her mind i'm concerned about. is she needing it and i wasn't around. is she enjoying it too much and i'm loosing my touch.. is she getting emotionally attached to him.
as long as her head is in the right place.. i've got nothing to worry about. i've never been with a gal who was ok with another man touching her feet (to my knowledge.. my ex.. who knows.. my lady.. she won't let anyone really touch.... hence why she preferes to do her own pedicures)
but in all truth.. i would be annoyed.. especially considering that sometimes i get a no answer when i want to massage her feet.
RPM
Posted by grimbold (Member # 19007) on :
Wouldnt like it and may [most probably] react violently. Dont like the idea of someone touching my wife.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Champpalmer: I can't think of one scenario where this would fly for any guy walking into a room and seeing some guy massaging his girls/wifes feet.
There's no question that seeing someone doing anything that can be construed as personal or even sexual to your SO is a very specific, and rather rare sexual trait, but it does exist.
I've met, on another forum, and extensively PM'd with two guys who have let their wives openly sexually cavort with other men in front of them. The interest was twofold: 1) I was fascinated by how someone could enjoy this and yet 2)I've had very strong fantasies about having my wife do this and get very aroused by it. Men fantasizing about this is very common, but those that actually go through with it very rare.
For me I can absolutely can fantasize and anticipate the giddy eroticism I'd feel if someone else was enjoying my wife's feet, particularly if I was present and she knew it. There's no question that in part at least, this is a submissive or cuckhold related experience, and that's what causes some or all of the excitement. As I said, it's just one of those things you're into or you're not. BTW, as best I know after 25 years of marriage, my wife would never consider doing such a thing.
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that should do it!!
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) rubbing them. I definetly would not get turned on by it though.