I go to FIT in NYC. I was in class with my friend dana. Out of nowhere she says my feet sqeek? In my head i'm like i got to see this. I kept telling her to let me see her feet and she didn't want to because she is insecure about them. she says they probable stink, i need a pedicure. I said i've seen your feet before and their fine. so she says friday she will let me see her feet. I think when she shows me her feet and if no one else is around i will tell her about my fetish. she has a boyfriend. do you think she will let me touch her feet more after i tell her?
Posted by bb57 (Member # 5582) on :
No offense, but why would she if she has a boyfriend, ya know? Plus, if she's insecure about her feet, and then thinks you're perving on them, she'll probably become even more insecure about the whole thing, possibly even getting in the way of your friendship. Just my thoughts.
I'd save it for chicks who won't represent any kind of significant loss if it doesn't go as planned. No point in risking a perfectly good friendship and all.
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
their are grils today that don't care and cheat. not saying that i want to mess around with her in that way.
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
its possible. letting her know about your fetish and possibly giving just a massage or something could be a good thing. i have a couple of friends that are girls who know and it is a great avenue to educate them about it, them being slightly open minded in the first place like it sounds as if this girl is, and also just them trusting that cause were friends i wont just go after their feet, and i wont. the friend relationship can give the girl a way to view the foot 'fetishist' and decide for herself what to think of it rather than just hearing about it and thinking of it as weird or gross. in my experience girls just seeing me for everything that i am, totally confident and enjoying life at least gives a positive representation of us, and breeds curiousity in the girl. for all this rambling i just mean that you SHOULD tell her about your fetish, but not to get her feet if she has a boyfriend, just because its a part of you and hopefully, if shes cool and open-minded, she'll be able to observe you and see that its not a big deal and maybe youll get to massage those feet a little once in awhile who knows. so id say TELL, but dont try for anything more at this point
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by angel wood: do you think she will let me touch her feet more after i tell her?
I'd have to say no based on just the information that we've been given thus far. I'm not suggesting that you shouldn't still go ahead and check out her feet on Friday, but I'm just saying that I probably wouldn't go into Friday expecting anything more than simply seeing them to come of it based on her apparent insecurities or self-consciousness issues regarding them. Unfortunately those types of things tend to cause gals to react less favorably to the news of a man's foot fetish, but alas nothing's etched in stone so time will tell. At the very least I do hope you enjoy the free showing.
Calico Jack
Posted by bb57 (Member # 5582) on :
Yeah, enjoy the eye candy at least. Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
dude, just be glad she agreed to let you see them period. she's already insecure about them and she's showing you a lot of trust that you're cool and a friend and not a perv. rushing to get your 'thrills' of touching can backfire a lot and make it worse for any other foot fans that may want to enjoy her feet in the future.
play on the whole trust thing. get her comfy showing you her feet every now and again. who knows, being she sounds like a healthy normal female, she'll pick up on it. might loosen up and give you a shot in the future to share your views on feet and how they affect guys.
if you really want to push your luck, take the angle (honesty really helps with this one) that you are sharing things that some guys don't often share with the hopes that if her man is into that, it can grow them closer now that she knows. when done right and with honesty, she may let you touch her feet just to help her get over her nervousness about it (big maybe... but worked for me once). as long as the focus is on keeping her and her man happy.
(the one time it happened to me, the lady said her man didn't konw how to touch her feet and she had no idea what to tell him to help her out. so, she got 3 massages from me with full explanation on how to show it to him... weeks later she came back and thanked me because her man now was massaging her the right way)
if you doubt you can pull it off, just enjoy the viewing... that is more than you might have gotten before. relax, enjoy the show. let her figure out on her own you're open to more.
RPM
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
i forgot to mention that she is going to let me touch them when she shows them on friday
Posted by munster (Member # 12452) on :
would letting a guy see her feet, and posssssibly touch lol maayyyyyyyyyyyyyyybe suck on a toe be cheating????
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by munster: would letting a guy see her feet, and posssssibly touch lol maayyyyyyyyyyyyyyybe suck on a toe be cheating????
For some touching would qualify, but once you cross over into toe sucking territory, then yes, I'd say that you've unequivocally got the makings of what could constitute cheating. Here's a link to a thread that we had a while back pertaining to that exact topic.
touch is hard to pin as cheating, one can't read your mind. but sucking... that is harder to slip as non-cheating. most women will pin that as cheating and most guys will call it fun in the gray zone before cheating. advance at your own risk!
RPM
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
she didn't come yesterday but she will come on monday. she doesn't come to school that much.
Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
touching or giving a massage is alright,but once you put your mouth on a woman,toe sucking or what ever,then you have gone to far,and most likely could lead to other things. Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
i don't know what will happen when i tell her. i honestly don't think she will get mad. if any thing she might be curious. i've known dana since october and she is one of the coolest chics i have ever hung out with, shes like hanging out with one of the guys. she doesn't act like a stereotypical pretty girl, like alot of the girls today.
Posted by Gimme (Member # 6872) on :
why would she show you her feet when she already has a boyfriend from the first place? Shouldnt you be more careful about things like this? You wouldnt end up in a hospital after all ... unless you are 7.12inc and practising martial arts for the last 10 years
Anyway...seriously... I wouldnt get things started in such a "lost" case as in the "I ve got a boyfriend" situation. Who knows... she might not have one.. and she justs wants to have control over your insticts by cutting off your enthusiasm in her (typical girlies' attitude).
Gimme.
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
she has shown me her feet before. she came today and i mentioned it to her. she said her foot wasn't sqeeking and that she would remind me when it starts again.she told me in the begining it swicthes on and off. so i told her about my footfetish anyway. she said "how is that", i said "i just do". she said "i think feet are ugly", i said "if their ugly then their ugly if their nice then their nice". she said "yeah, so i'll see you on friday, later". i think it went well she didn't get nasty or mad like i expected. but i don't know if she will let me touch her feet now that i had told her about my fetish
[ March 20, 2006, 09:31 PM: Message edited by: angel wood ]
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
what do yah think of the situation?
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
just ride with it. she thinks feet are ugly, but she's not knocking you. so let it ride. she's got a man, so pushing it will make things sticky. if she shows em to you, then she considers you pretty cool espiciall she thinks they're ugly. so don't sweat it, don't push it. just ride with your good fortune.
RPM
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
quote:she has shown me her feet before. she came today and i mentioned it to her. she said her foot wasn't sqeeking and that she would remind me when it starts again.she told me in the begining it swicthes on and off.
You just got punk'd. Any time a woman puts a delay on something, she is taking you for a ride. So one day, her foot squeaks, and she does not show it to you. She puts off the show, and schedules it for another day. You don't see her on the scheduled day; you see her three days later. When you see her, you mention her foot squeak to her (big mistake), and she tells you it is not squeaking, therefore, there is no need to show it to you.
Many times it is best not to mention something to a girl in order to get her to bring it up.
"Women don't make sense to me" is my motto.
I've been on the losing side of the delay game a few times, and have become adept at recognizing it.
If she thinks feet are ugly, then you may as well wait until she unintentionally shows them to you.
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
on friday she was suppose to show me her foot but more importantly suppose to bring me film for my photography class because i let her have my last film the other week. she told me why she was absent before i brought up the foot thing. she had got drunk with one of her girl friends and spent the night at her house and woke up at 12noon. our photography class starts at that time. i had left her a message that day on her phone telling her she was supposed to come with my film, and she said she was sorry. i don't think shes taking me for a ride but your right i am not going to mention it to her again.
Posted by Gimme (Member # 6872) on :
Typical "fr-ock teaser" in every sense.
I agree with Jediofthefeet totally in every angle and view about girls like these.
Girls having the mentality of "here, there and everywhere" shows how immature they are in certain cases. Alright she might had overslept, she couldnt come to the class, but the typical "teaser type of girl" is a 100% before you.
Let things run smoothly ... and most of all [b]do not expose yourself to things that you know they are going to be used against you":, i.e. giving 100% of yourself might be an advantage for the other side.
I wont tell you what to do ... but to my experience with similar situations like this, be careful, hold your horses a little bit every now and then, and keep some things for later sessions in the future. In this way you won't be manipulated, "fooled around" by her.
Gimme.
Posted by She Devil (Member # 13478) on :
Hmmmmmm... I read what you said and being a woman I 100% agree with the fact she is using you for attention. It's like an elastic; you are holding one end and she is holding the other. You keep getting closer to her and making the elastic lose so she has room to walk away and tease you until it is tight again.
I know nothing about this girl so I will dispense my advice accordingly. My advice would be to stop coming on to her so strong. Most women will crave your attention. I assume she fits into this high percentage of women. I don't think she is taking you for a ride to hurt you. I think she is doing it because she can tease you, and get away with it and you keep coming back like a pup.
So I would say continue to be friends with her and drop the idea of you wanting to see her feet period. If you want to see and touch her feet then you'll have to work to it. She won't forget that you said her feet are nice (Believe me I was the same way in school). Stop talking about feet with her all together. Talk to her about school and stuff, and be friends but let her come to you. Because if you stop talking about it and leave it be, and stop giving her all this attention then one of these days she will come to school in sandals hoping you will notice and give her the attention she wants from you.
It's at that time you can have some eye candy... and if you play it right then maybe you can touch them. I would suggest to wait until she's sitting down. Walk up to her, slide off her sandal and say something to the effect of, 'Oh see! I knew you had sexy feet!' And then comment on 1 thing (and only 1 thing) you like the best. Something like 'Oh I love how cute your little toes are, and they are in a perfect line!'
At this time she will either let you keep touching them or pull them away and say, 'no, they're so ugly'. If she pulls away say something like 'It's too bad you think so' and leave it be. If she lets you keep touching them then continue to talk to her about whatever you can think of, but do not 'worship' her feet. If you worship them then she will probably think you are nuts.
If this works well you never know. It could (if she likes the experience and you dont come on too strong) happen again. I don't know if she or her boyfriend considers you touching her feet or sucking on them as cheating. I personally wouldn't, but then I am also very open minded that way.
Regardless if it turns out to be a one-time thing she will always remember what you said about her feet, and she will take more time on them and like them more. You never know what might happen. The most important thing is not to come on to strong, be open to her feelings, and take what she gives you without asking for more.
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
wow thanks she devil. i might be consider her best friend in the class because she talks with me the most and theirs alot of girls in our illustration class. she always comes to me. if she sees me talking with another group of kids she will walk over to where i'm at but ack like she doesn't care. she called me the godfather because i know alot of people in the school. she told me after this semester she is leaving thats only in a few weeks. but i do have her number.
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
any comments?
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
i saw her on friday we didnt bring up the footfetish. i didnt speak to her that much. when we were taking pictures on campus and she followed me a little. she tried to get my attention when she was leaving. what do yah think of that.
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
i saw her today and i wanted to massage her feet so bad. she drew me in class and it didnt look like me so i smacked her foot and she laughed. but when she saw me talking to another girl she came over to see what was up
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but your right i am not going to mention it to her again.