Hi all, I had an MSN group which was for the sale of well worn aromatic footwear, I have a few friends who sell their worn footwear nothing big just a small amount of sellers and customers. A woman joined a few months ago and because it is a small group there are very few members so I e-mailed the woman to ask if she was intrested in selling her worn items she was a student so I thought maybe she wanted to earn some extra money and sell worn items, why else would she join such a group. I made the group clear that it was a fetish and that it was for worn smelly footwear as regards to new footwear. She replied you are a freak! I was taken aback by this and had to e-mail her back and apologise, for what I thought afterwards? although I did start to question my foot fetish. I did in my reply tell her that foot fetish is very big and would you call everyone with a foot fetish a freak? it upset me a bit I am a genuine guy with a love of female feet, also what really annoys me about your response is you joined the group in the first place. There seems to be many women out there with a dislike of foot fetishists!
Posted by ToeLuvinFirefighter (Member # 2688) on :
She just doesn't have a clue. I wouldn't worry at all about it. She just hasn't had a real man worship her feet and pamper her. Just think she might have ugly feet anyways...
Posted by Dazzz (Member # 12539) on :
JUST DOESNT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT IT MATE
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
quote:Originally posted by muleslicker: Hi all, A woman joined a few months ago and because it is a small group there are very few members so I e-mailed the woman to ask if she was intrested in selling her worn items she was a student so I thought maybe she wanted to earn some extra money and sell worn items, why else would she join such a group.
I've joined MySpace anti-foot fetish groups, and found some incredibly hot girls as members. I contacted a couple of them to find out why they were against feet. Both told me they liked their feet, but not other peoples feet.
My motto is "Women Don't Make Sense to Me".
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
I agree with ToeLuvinFirefighter & Dazzz. The concept of foot fetish is likely foreign territory to her and it's the nature of the beast that people will often fear that which they're not familiar with or which is not socially welcomed with open arms by a large majority for acceptance purposes. As such, I wouldn't be surprised if there are also some self-esteem & inhibition issues operating there as well as she sounds like a prime candidate. Thankfully I've met plenty of gals in my life who could reassure me that a great many women aren't inherently like that at all and are often just the opposite in fact.
Calico Jack
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
yeah who cares, you should apologize about anything to do with who you are
Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
Just bump her off your group and forget about it already. I'm assuming its not like you were advertising for anyone to join your group without them knowing up front that it was a FETISH group.
Don't lose sleep over this!
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
I would disagree that acceptance has *anything* to do with a real man pampering or loving her feet. I don't know, maybe I just give women a lot of credit, but I don't think they need to be 'shown' how good it can be. All they need is to possess the maturity level to understand their guy or others like a certain thing and then they accept it because it is part of who they are.
Then again, i've never encountered anyone who i've had to show that it isn't that bad. My experiences were usually "oh, you like feet?? hehe that is different...here what do you want to do with them?"
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
problem with her is shes probably young and hasnt dated or know anyone personally with the fetish.you will find alot of girls when theyre younger(from what i remember being under 21)dont understand it @all but it appears to me for the most part that most women once they know or have dated a footguy or have delved into world of fetish,they tend to lighten up a bit...nodoubt,used footwear is not my glass of absinthe,but hey man dont hate yourself,its not like you like beiing shitted on(litterly),know what im sayin?fuck that young girl n wtf is she doing on a "well worn shoe"msn group anyways nah mean?
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by vineofthorns: problem with her is shes probably young and hasnt dated or know anyone personally with the fetish.you will find alot of girls when theyre younger(from what i remember being under 21)dont understand it @all but it appears to me for the most part that most women once they know or have dated a footguy or have delved into world of fetish,they tend to lighten up a bit...nodoubt,used footwear is not my glass of absinthe,but hey man dont hate yourself,its not like you like beiing shitted on(litterly),know what im sayin?fuck that young girl n wtf is she doing on a "well worn shoe"msn group anyways nah mean?
Depends. My encounters with girls have gone as young as 16(I was younger then! i'm 23 now) and even she, who had never had a foot guy before, was perfectly accepting of it. My range is 16-29(6 girls total) and have never had an issue. So I don't think it is age as much as just maturity and upbringing to accept others or only abide by what is socially known
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
quote:Originally posted by guitardrew: yeah who cares, you should apologize about anything to do with who you are
haha, i meant shouldn't apologize for who you are...
Posted by phlove (Member # 13665) on :
i wouldn t worry much about it. everybody has his own 'favours' but we should try to respect that. so calling you a freak was totally wrong. She doesn t have to like it. i ve always felt insecure about my fetish but i have found that a lot of girls have no problem with it (as long as it s not part of your introduction ' Hi i m Pete and am a foot guy ;-)
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
a growing trend ive seen in women (accept a few) they do not seem to understand and value our submissiveness to them. Why are we freaks??? we only like feet, and it gives females a dominant edge on us...
what women do NOT like feet, are freaks!!!
fuk em! we are not freaks!
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
a freak is considered a good thing in the bedroom most of the time, thank her, hehe
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
She is on the outside and not trying to look in with understanding. WE are no different thatn breast men or buttman ( ). Don't worry about her comments. Stay true to who you are and what you like. You will definitely stay happier that way. Posted by DennisIsEvil (Member # 11755) on :
Lets see she's the idiot who joined a foot fetish group and then goes and complains when she gets approached about it. STUPID!
Don't apologize she's the one with the problem. If only it was painful to be stupid.
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