I'm curious....do you enjoy being dominant or submissive when it comes to "foot fetish".
Tell me what makes you tick?
Posted by Julia exposed (Member # 9025) on :
I am dominant and my bf is the Sub. I like to make him smell my feet and worship them while I do "things" to him.
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Strange thing about me, I have a huge foot fetish, but I'm dominant. I don't know why that is, but I could never be a sub. Call it past life experience, or maybe just plain old misunderstanding, I can never be weak in front of my beautiful little Latina.
So foot play is...tricky.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Up until now I've been dominate. But I've been entertaining a strong fantasy about her dominating me in regards to some foot fun. I'm feeling a strong desire to hear her chide, deride, tease me, etc., about her feet, toes, soles. Making me look at them, telling her how beautiful they are and what I'd like to do with them. General dom/sub kinda stuff. Don't know if she'll ever go for it though.
Posted by nylonfootsniffer (Member # 3488) on :
There are definately times when I can get into being dominated by a woman. Have played out a fantasy with a woman once where she straddled me, forcing to smell her pantyhosed feet and insulted and degraded me for being such a foot pervert, etc.. On the other hand there are times when It's not about domination or submission, I just like mutual lovemaking that includes a lot of time with her feet as part of the foreplay. I definately don't hold either title to my foot fetish, in fact it's rare I even thing about my fetish in terms of dominance/submissivness.
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
i am definitly 100% submissive relating to my 'foot fetish',how could you posssibly not be when its the womens feet you desire so dearly?i like it extreme tho,where im being teased and dominated by a women and her feet,being forced to smell her feet,breath play/suffication with feet,worshipping and pampering,etc.
Posted by rhbdz17 (Member # 2492) on :
I like to be the submissive, but I have realized that I'm really controlling the situation and thus dominant. I want the woman to do certain things in a dominant role, but I tend to direct them.
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lexi Lapetina: I'm curious....do you enjoy being dominant or submissive when it comes to "foot fetish".
I've always had a "more the merrier" type attitude when it comes to my foot fetish, so it probably won't surprise anybody to hear that I enjoy playing both the dominant and submissive roles on alternating occasions. Too much of doing anything one particular way can grow to be boring over time, so I'm the kind of guy that's always happy to shake things up and inject a new spark into the mix. As such, I've found both roles to be physically & psychologically rewarding in their own unique ways.
Calico Jack
Posted by Zamora (Member # 1236) on :
Dominant all the way. I loved bastinado and tickling with the consent of the submissive grilfriends or friends I had, which are purely dominant actions.
Smelling feet, sucking toes and licking soles are not necessarily submissive actions for everybody. They could be, but I do not find them humilating to worship beautiful feet like Julia's or Lexi's feet (should I be so fortunate to do so). It is a blessing.
The fact that one can get girls to agree to let us do that to their feet, when they do not really know enough about ff, is in itself a reflection of a strong character.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I have a preference of being dominant myself. I'm not saying that I don't enjoy being submissive at times. I just don't get into the "humiliation" part of the submissive role. I do have a bit of a tickling fetish as well so a woman submitting her ticklish soles to me can be a real turn on.
Posted by juggyand wife (Member # 11519) on :
well in normal life im dominant ,,,but when it comes to feet i like to submissive with my wifes feet
Posted by Jak (Member # 7343) on :
i love being very submissive. i want to be the footslave thats only purpose on this earth was to worship her feet. And i want her to talk down to me as much as possible. my girlfriend doesn't like doing this though, because she wants me to be dominant when it comes to anything doing with sex. SOMETIMES she gets in a little mood where she doesnt mind but its very seldom.
Posted by Lick (Member # 2412) on :
I cannot be anything but submissive and humiliation is the sure way to my heart.
Having said that I wouldn't care much for being treated like that in real life. I suppose you have to disconnect the reality and fantasy somewhere.
Posted by Stryder_007 (Member # 13405) on :
I think for me it goes both ways. Just depends on the mood and the girl.
Posted by Girlgotsole (Member # 14405) on :
Submissive and for her to turn me into her slave. I like to make sure my girlfriend strips me of my dignity for her feet.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
I do dominant and submissive roles on occasion with my wife. It really depends on the mood and what is working at the time. Most of the time it is 60% - D and 40%- S. I hear ya on variety, CJ. Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
Dominant. I love pretty submissive women with sexy feet. My favorite theme is a pretty barefoot girl being "Taken" in the missionary position with her toes pointed. I like doing things to her feet (kiss, lick, nibble etc.) before and during sex. I'm not into BDSM just a little playful force before the girl submits and lets me have my way with her.
The sub role doesn't do much for me but I know I am the minority.
Posted by shoeslave (Member # 2778) on :
I'm VERY sub and thankfully married to a natural dominant woman that enjoys inflicting pain. Nothing better than to be spanked with a flat leather thong sandal and been forced to lick the other sandal at the same time!
Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
Dominant here.I can't see being a sub,if it's some thing you really like.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
I cannot be anything but submissive and humiliation is the sure way to my heart.
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I'm sure that Franzilla would say that Lick's comment fits me to a T.
Posted by footboy691 (Member # 14486) on :
I'm Jeckyl and Hyde. Jeckyl derives the utmost satisfaction being trampled and forced to adoringly worship my special Goddess's sweet, soft, perfumed & stinky feet (I'm not into BAD smells!!!). A raging 8 inch erection will leap instantly to attention from this activity, and the more innocently wicked she is in taunting me (like a cute little girl with a mean streak), the more excited and stiff I become.
Then, at some point Hyde will take over BEFORE any ejaculation (which can sometimes take many hours of foreplay), and then my Goddess is in for the hardest and most passionate FUCKING she has ever had in her life. I can go a VERY LONG time inside my Goddess without cumming, and bring her to states of moaning in ecstasy where she literally becomes a raging, screaming animal! Then ONLY after bringing her to MULTIPLE ORGASMS will I ejaculate -- and it is often sheer Nirvana when this happens!!!
Then, after a few more hours of mutual massage, kissing, hugging, crying, laughing, etc.. we fall into a deep sleep in each others' arms. Since I've had sex like this I cannot get off any other way. To me the men who just think they want to be kicked and abused by a distant, cold Domina are truly stunted and probably doing incredible psychological harm to themselves by not breaking out of this self-deprecating addiction!
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by shoeslave: Nothing better than to be spanked with a flat leather thong sandal and been forced to lick the other sandal at the same time!
Damn- that sounds kinda exciting!
Posted by lambskin (Member # 1542) on :
I'm definitely more submissive in the bedroom. I'm not into being totally humiliated or beaten like some, just more what I call "light domination". My wife likes to get on top of me and "force" me to smell and kiss here feet. I say force in quotes because I obviously let this happen. In real life I am definitely assertive, so I guess my bedroom behavior balances it out a bit.
Posted by lambskin (Member # 1542) on :
By the way, Julia gave us her answer, but Lexi we haven't heard what you like. Also, any other ladies please chime in on your preference.
Posted by doitny (Member # 14061) on :
in real life i am a tough acting guy. but when its comes to womens feet, i like her to dominate me with them.forcing me down to the floor and pining me with her smelly feet. most women i have been with that were cool with my foot fetish got off on the fact that they could turn this macho touch acting guy into a foot slave. at first in a relationship i like the girl to force her feet on me. i usually put myself in a position where my arms are going up against her legs which are forcing her feet into my face. since anybody legs are stronger than arms i did not stand a chance.one time in a car my ex forced her feet in my face and had my face pinned to the window of the car door. it was so hard i felt the window bending. if she did'nt stop she could have broke the window with my face. at diners she would put her foot between my legs and pin me to the back of the seat. thank god that diner had a table cloth to hide it from the waitress, but when the waitress came she would always press harder, unless i obey her by saying humiliating things to amuse her. sorry to get off the subject a little, but after she proved she could humiliate me anytime, anywhere with her feet and in public if she wished, at home i became i willing foot slave at her beck and call.because i did not want public humiliation. her strong legs did not hurt, because they made it almost impossible to defend myself against her feet
Posted by ilikesoftpeds (Member # 9269) on :
I'm both dominant and submissive.
I'm versatile!
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
Well, since I'm typically the one dictating any of the foot plays, I prefer being the dominant one. I've tried playing submissive, but it just didn't do it for me, and for sure, seeing it in pics or vids never does it for me either.
I think it also may have to do with the fact that I enjoy sleepy feet, so me being in total control is what really turns me on. A girl who'll let me do what I want to them is what gets me.
Posted by bobthemonkey (Member # 5876) on :
I am defintily submissive, I dont see how you can be dominant and licking feet, but I dont go for that whole girl degrading you thing, I will stick to just foot sniffing and licking.
Posted by Christian (Member # 5824) on :
Both...I love it in a submissive way. But it's also hot to take what you want, do what you want, for as long as you want
As long as her feet are involved I'm not gonna complain!! haha
Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :
Dominant all the way. Furthermore, I don't enjoy seeing guys getting dominated in pics or clips or anything either. Truth be told I hate it when guys are in anything I'm looking at while alone and with my pants down anyway, but if a guy HAS to be there I can't relate if he's not acting the way I would in the given scenario.
This is a subject that continuously fascinates me when it comes to our appreciation for female feet. Very often, it does seem like the submissive foot guys outnumber the dominant ones. Personally, I've always seen girls as being more feminine when their shoes are off...stepping daintly, arching elegantly, splaying their toes as they give the balls of their feet a subtle twist in their cat-like walk...so seeing domineering behavior come out of any of this tends to spoil the mood for me.
Also, maybe I'm old-fashioned or whatever, but I've always thought of dominant behavior as being an inherently male characteristic anyway. If I see a woman getting all dominant, in my mind she's acting more male...and talk about killing the mood, sheesh! Posted by keywiz2112 (Member # 997) on :
Hey footboy 691, blimy its like reading somthing I would have wrote, without having to write it.
That is me as well Jeckyl and Hyde
Posted by Lexi Lapetina (Member # 3249) on :
Interesting.....seems like from reading all the posts it is 50/50 depending on your mood.
Posted by Lexi Lapetina (Member # 3249) on :
quote:Originally posted by lambskin: By the way, Julia gave us her answer, but Lexi we haven't heard what you like. Also, any other ladies please chime in on your preference.
When it comes to foot fetish I am up for being either submissive or dominant. I would find it more exciting to be submissive in a role play scenario....other than that I'm really not one to take orders from others.
Posted by doitny (Member # 14061) on :
i am trying to figure out how a man can be dominant with his foot fetish? do you let your girl just lay there and you do want you want to her feet? do you tell her, honey now i want you to rub my face with your feet, or rub my dick with them. i think i have tried this a few times. and every time i did the girl just layed there and seamed like her mind was somewhere else, waiting for me to finish with her feet so we could get on to the good stuff. i always felt bad because i felt i was forcing her to do something she was not into. but the same girl that is in control of the foot play must be paying attention to see where her feet are at and whats she's going to do with them next.she was always smiling at my perdicament at her feet, which made me feel like she was into it. i am submissive with my fetish and i was just trying to figure out how you dominant foot guys are being dom with it. i mite want to try it once.
Posted by Feet_sniff (Member # 14590) on :
I like to be dominant when it is about bondage, torture, but when the foot fetish is 'in the game', i'm submissive. i just turn myself into a helpless worm who can only smell and lick someone's pretty feet.
Posted by Zamora (Member # 1236) on :
Feet sniff, did you try bastinado with female feet ? It is a rare occasion when I find a fellow foot bondage man, so I am curious. It does not seem to be very widely common among us foot lovers.
Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :
quote: i am submissive with my fetish and i was just trying to figure out how you dominant foot guys are being dom with it. i mite want to try it once.
I'm sure the answer would vary from guy to guy, but speaking for myself my dominating consists of things like having her go barefoot for the day...that means out in public or in the cold or on hot asphault if need be, or spanking her feet, or pinning her down and biting her feet...just stuff like that, I usually play it by ear if and when the opportunity is there and don't go by some list. It's important though to differentiate dominance from mutual playing around...don't make dominance so important that you neglect what she likes, and NEVER do anything unless you have her consent and she enjoys it to a degree too. Also, put yourself in her position in your mind in advance, and ask yourself if this is something you think you could or would do. In other words, don't expect to GET unless you'd be willing to GIVE...don't come up with something so outlandish that it's impossible for her to derive any kind of enjoyment out of it...don't push your limits with her in what she's willing to do for you for the sake of pushing it.
Hope that helps, but then, if you're already enjoying yourself being submissive, why go against the grain? I think you'll find everything more enjoyable if you just let it happen...not shoot for something that may not come natural for you or your girl.
quote: I would find it more exciting to be submissive in a role play scenario....other than that I'm really not one to take orders from others.
Oh my...
Lexi, do you have any idea all the mental images those words invoked? Jeez...more excited being submissive during a role-playing session? Mmmmmm damn!
If you'd like to share some details, some ideal fantasies you'd like to have happen, I wouldn't complain one bit! Posted by slimebass (Member # 1409) on :
I have submissive tendecies, I agree with the person that said how can you not licking feet, but my wife is very submissive. I think she does like the fact that she can raise her foot and I'll immediately smell, kiss or lick it.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lou Gojira: ... it does seem like the submissive foot guys outnumber the dominant ones.
This is an interesting question, especially in the situation, as one person mentioned, that if we're requesting or making the girl be dominant, who's truly the dominant one? I'd say the guy is, at least until such time as the girl can really get into it and dominate on her own without direction. In my case I'd be the one requesting my wife dominate me, and I'd consider myself the dominate party. (Just as a point of interest I've been feeling an increasing desire toward her doing some dominating types of things to me, especially verbally) She'd never do it on her own. Guess it's a "which came first the chicken or the egg" kinda question huh?
Posted by aerodrew (Member # 2682) on :
Hey all, this is a very interesting topic as it does play a big role in my foot fetish. When I think of the words Dom/Sub, I kinda picture dungeons,whips and chains and stuff, while I am not into the straight humiliation and her degrading me as a person I do like her to use her feet to have control and power over me... And she has learned over time how to use her feet to pretty much take control of me... so I guess in those terms I am Submissive to her feet. She obviously knows that I love to kiss, lick, suck, rub, massage, tickle and whatever else to her toes and soles...especially when she has me to the point that she can make me cum at will usually with her feet or hands. I must have her feet in my hands or mouth... So her "DEMANDING" that I do any of these things doesn't really make sense,,, however frequently she will easily dictate how, when, and for how long I can have her feet. Most times she teases me with them and makes me beg or ask for them, or tell her how pretty they are. Maybe even promise to buy her a new pair of shoes or a unscheduled pedicure.. just silly shit sometimes.. If I am tied up then it is a whole new ballgame!! I am obviously very vulnerable and at her her mercy... she uses her feet and toes to do anything and everything to me... In these situations she also tickles me (I am sorry, I know there aren't alot of tickle fans here) this is actually one of her favorite ways to tease me, using her nails to tickle me, while her feet or the other hand is keeping me right on the edege of cumming... I really do feel lucky that she takes care of and indulges my cravings for her feet.. Some of you have seen our picture posts, any that haven't you can searh in the "picture" folder under "ANDI" and see her feet pictures... Also, we are in the process of shooting vid clips of her feet in various themes as well as footjobs will be the primary focus of content.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
Never played a sub but would try it if it isn't to severe. I know of guys who take it to the level of being kicked in the jewels not quite that far for me but I would try a little sub at least once.
Posted by footlover14 (Member # 26169) on :
a little of both but mostly submissive
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I definitely like to take the dominant role in my fetish experience.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
I'm MAINLY submissive, but my girl and I like a change every now and then when I become the dom...
Prefer submissive, but it's a nice change Posted by archadmirer (Member # 3142) on :
Dominant primarily, though I've enjoyed playing submissive twice for a grand total of ~5 minutes... there is a definite paucity of quality DOMINANT foot material, here's hoping you do your part to correct this imbalance Ms. Lapetina Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
i had never been dominant until i met my boyfriend, and was hesitant to try it as i am naturally not a dominant person, but i found that i loved it. and a dominant woman works much better than a submissive one with footplay (i find, but thats just my opinion)
switching it up is good fun too tho, as well as just... being yourself lol
Posted by Toesucker85 (Member # 16795) on :
quote:Originally posted by rhbdz17: I like to be the submissive, but I have realized that I'm really controlling the situation and thus dominant. I want the woman to do certain things in a dominant role, but I tend to direct them.
lol im submissive too but at the same we do have control lmao! weird.
Posted by bruce4c5nf3d6 (Member # 20195) on :
ah I think quite a few of us have different ideas on what dominance and submission actually means and involves
A few things to earlier people's posts
Sinnister: you say you could never be weak in front of her, I dont know how you see it exactly, but when I submit to a girl's feet, I really run the show, she is endulging in a fantasy I have created, I'm really the boss, she is pleasing me, at least thats the way I see it, I dont see it as a weak act at all, it's a choice
Also Lou Gojira: you say that her being dominant is more of a male characteristic and kills the mood? I dont know exactly what you mean by dominant, but to me nothing is more female than a girl tying me up and forcing me to lick her feet and pussy, you cant get more feminine than that
In summary my type of submission is not real "submission" its just sex play, so some would see me as dominant others as submissive, depends on the definition, who knows eh
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by Athena K: i had never been dominant until i met my boyfriend, and was hesitant to try it as i am naturally not a dominant person, but i found that i loved it. and a dominant woman works much better than a submissive one with footplay (i find, but thats just my opinion)
switching it up is good fun too tho, as well as just... being yourself lol
! I never knew Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa:
quote:Originally posted by Athena K: i had never been dominant until i met my boyfriend, and was hesitant to try it as i am naturally not a dominant person, but i found that i loved it. and a dominant woman works much better than a submissive one with footplay (i find, but thats just my opinion)
switching it up is good fun too tho, as well as just... being yourself lol
! I never knew
hahahaha i thought id made it fairly clear Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
quote:Originally posted by Athena K: hahahaha i thought id made it fairly clear
Yes dear Posted by Dirty Foot Man (Member # 9086) on :
Me I am very submissive dont know why I just am
Posted by charlotte (Member # 33673) on :
From a woman's point of view I like both - but my preferance is for dominant, telling and demanding rather than asking - but not humiliation as such - I also like to be submissive - again as with mose people on the board depends on the mood and the situation - go with the flow and see where it takes me.
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