[ September 28, 2007, 02:06 AM: Message edited by: aron ]
Posted by Girlgotsole (Member # 14405) on :
Yeah, recently my foot fetish has been stronger. I notice it with my girlfriend and I, and when she dominates me I find myself /still/ masturbating that night, the next morning when I wake up. I find myself having a problem keeping the little soldier down. Ahaha. I think it's seasonal. And all guys have their ups and down periods in their sexual strength. So don't worry about it. Just enjoy the season of bare feet, I know I'm going to make sure my girlfriend feels the grass underneath her soles. =P
Posted by Civis Romanus Sum (Member # 14233) on :
It happened to me as well in the past: there was this girl (she was in my class and that night -it was spring- we were out to have some fun together with some other classmates) in flip flops who had SUCH PERFECT feet that I was like mesmerized and I had a really hard time keeping my eyes off them.At the end she might have noticed that cause she even asked me "are you ok?you look strange tonight,is there something wrong?".
I was "worried" like you too,but I found out it was just a seasonal thing (cause obviously spring brings open shoes and toes to enjoy). I think this autumn/winter you might cool down a bit.
Posted by The foot fu**in master (Member # 2152) on :
I think, from what you've said omg, that it's a problem if you feel it is a problem, and judging from your reactions when you're in the presence of female feet, it may well be. Don't however take my word as any kind of authority as i'm not a psychiatrist or psychotherapist and I might be completely wrong, but what I think you need to try and do is somehow learn to control how you feel when your in the situations which are causing you anxiety. Extreme nervousness, inability to hold a conversation, sweating and having a panic attack suggest that it is quite serious if it's having an adverse and debilitating effect on your ability to function in seemingly everyday situations.
Spring/summer is always a time which is going to have more female feet on display because of the milder/warmer temperatures, and for the exhibitionists, an opportunity to show off their bare feet or lastest styles in pedicures and foot jewellery etc. Maybe just try and relax more and just enjoy the tantalizsation of having all these feet around. I empathise completely with what you're saying though, and whilst my reactions when i'm in the presence of beautiful fem feet, are no way near yours, I understand what it's like to feel compelled to look at (obsessively), or trying to steal glances at pretty feet whenever they're around. I've learned to try and 'catch' myself when i'm doing it and stay in control, however, things are a bit easier for me because I have a wife with incredibly beautiful feet, who allows me to indulge in my fetish, and she also enjoys me playing with her feet, so I have an outlet for my fantasies. I know I haven't provided you with a definite method that will address how you're reacting, but hopefully, the other guys (and maybe girls) will contribute some suggestions which should make things easier for you. I hope things work out, but just remember, you're in control.
[ May 15, 2006, 07:33 AM: Message edited by: The foot fu**in master ]
Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
I think a way to cure that problem would be to get laid more often. That's my prescription! Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Right now it's just making you very uncomfortable, so that's a personal decision you'll have to make. If it comes to the point that you're seriously contemplating or actually doing things that cross the line morally or legally, then there's no question you should seek help. Speaking personally, years ago I reached a point where I had two choices. I could have told my wife about my fetish and, judging from the fact the she's indulged me since I did tell her, I assume she would have done the same back then. Result- I would have still been looking at other girl's feet but probably wouldn't have acted on my feelings, preferring instead to focus on her feet.
But because I didn't divulge my fetish to her back then, but was so sexually aroused by feet, I entered a phase where I crossed the line legally and morally. I stole several pair of sandals for my enjoyment and got into voyeurism, masturbating privately and publicly (but never exposing myself)to other women's feet. Not good stuff, and thank goodness I never got caught (although one blessing of that might have been my wife becoming aware of my fetish- but given those circumstances not sure that she would have indulged me in it). I eventually understood that what I was doing was not good and, though anonymously, paid back the company I stole the shoes from. And I stopped my voyeuristic activity.
Anyway, just a warning to you bro, that this love of feet can certainly gain control over us, so do be careful. And get help if you need it.
Posted by Craigy boy (Member # 3340) on :
Yeah, my fetish is out of control too. But, its heading for winter here, so i am so sad.
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
First off,whatever the case is,You gotta keep your urges in check.I think laedamon stated what one of the resons is.if you have a woman who takes care of your needs,you should be alright.if you have a woman,yet still have urges like that,then dude to be blunt,you have an issue.I mean no doubt,I see more feet during this season due to women wearing open shoes,so ofcourse I look more,and being that feet are everywhere,ofcourse I look or think about it,but that's as far as it goes.I have female friends and on ocation I get a glimpse of their feet,but I'm not running into the bathroom to beat off;how old are u(just curiouse)?
Posted by omg,i need feet. (Member # 13913) on :
[ September 28, 2007, 02:07 AM: Message edited by: aron ]
Posted by omg,i need feet. (Member # 13913) on :
however i wouldnt cross the line legally, lol. Just making that clear. My nervous energy and anxiety attacks keep me pretty much unable to do anything like that. lol
Posted by daemoness (Member # 1980) on :
i think you need a girlfriend!
Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :
quote: I recently have had to excuse myself to my room when they come over, because they wear flip flops and open toed shoes. I have tried, and i cannot control myself. I start to sweat, i get a massive woody, i become so very nervous, and feel extreme anxiety. Today when Kayla came over i couldnt hold a conversation at all. I went to my room and had a panic attack. Even jerking off doesnt work very well anymore. This has been going on since spring started, and its getting worse everyday.
The last time this happened to me I started a foot-fetish website Seriously, running a website is the best therapy I´ve ever had.
-Hal-
Posted by omg,i need feet. (Member # 13913) on :
lol daemoness i agree, hook me up
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by omg,i need feet.: lol daemoness i agree, hook me up
How about no Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Hal: The last time this happened to me I started a foot-fetish website.
I love it.
Posted by Craigy boy (Member # 3340) on :
Get a girlfriend, or pay for some one to be one on a hourly basis once or twice a week. Or, and this is probably best, marry one of the millions of Russian chicks who want to escape the cold Russian winters and constant diets of turnip soup. Those girls will do ANYTHING for citizenship.
Posted by gibarian (Member # 11661) on :
if you get a girlfriend and have sex and do some foot stuff i'm sure you'll be fine. i actually have a problem with getting a woody in public sometimes lol cause of all the hot feet... i wouldn't worry about it so much, as long as you don't go grabbing some chicks feet in a public place which is way un-called for.
omg i hope the girls never ask for a foot massage...if they do, and you get a woody..just tell them honestly that you are very attracted to womens legs and feet...make sure you say LEGS aswell...cause then they don't look at you like you have 3 heads.
it's only natural man, i would worry if you DIDN'T get excited at all sexually with ANYTHING.
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
I just realised somthing wile looking back @ this post;you mention anxiety,feeling or being withdrawn,and the compulsion to to touch yourself if you get the chance after seeing feet(compulsive behavior).I'm wondering if maybe your going through a "nervouse breakdown" so to speak,those are all symtoms of somthing in that department,and it may not be just cause you haven't gotten laid. If you are in a city where there's foot parties,attend one,and see how you feel afterwords.also see if you can hook up with a pro dom,maybe they will allow you to do whatever you want to yourself and their feet
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
dude,
i once was told.... 'what you focus on is what grows'. if you're so focused on feet.. soon,that is all you'll know and care about and want and dream of and obsess about. that is not healthy... to be so intently focused it messes up your life's routine.
if this gets too out of hand.. you may not function very well in life.
time to hang back and refocus. getting laid and having a girlfriend won't solve anything. Especially considering most girlfriends want to be cherished as a person, not the provider of feet for your fun!!!! and if you're too focused on feet, she's not going to stay long (even the russian ones who need their legal papers.. once they have the papers, they'll leave you too)
get some support to move on. get another hobby to help you ease your focuse and anxiety!!! regain your control of your impulses. then you can really enjoy life and romance!!!
my 2 cents on the matter
RPM
Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
quote:Originally posted by Craigy boy: Get a girlfriend, or pay for some one to be one on a hourly basis once or twice a week. Or, and this is probably best, marry one of the millions of Russian chicks who want to escape the cold Russian winters and constant diets of turnip soup. Those girls will do ANYTHING for citizenship.
What part of Russia is Mrs. Craigy from???? Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
quote:Originally posted by omg,i need feet.: I dont know if its the spring weather, or if im starting to lose my mind. But my foot fetish is starting to get bothersome. I have a few female friends who come over and hang out with my roomates and I. I recently have had to excuse myself to my room when they come over, because they wear flip flops and open toed shoes. I have tried, and i cannot control myself. I start to sweat, i get a massive woody, i become so very nervous, and feel extreme anxiety. Today when Kayla came over i couldnt hold a conversation at all. I went to my room and had a panic attack. Even jerking off doesnt work very well anymore. This has been going on since spring started, and its getting worse everyday. I guess my question is, do you think this is seasonal? Do i have a bad problem that is permenant? or will this pass? I want to be my old self again. Thanks 4 reading.
so im not the only one, thank god for that. i thought i was the only one who starts to squirm and become really figity when im being teased by feet. Its a surreal feeling, i can hear my hear pump at a silly speed and my cock grows to a stupidly huge size! my body becomes some what paralysed.
Posted by caveman07 (Member # 11468) on :
"Thanks 4 the responses, im 28, havent had a girlfriend ,or sex in over a year,"
There is the root of the problem my son.
Posted by coxy (Member # 6176) on :
quote:Originally posted by Craigy boy: Get a girlfriend, or pay for some one to be one on a hourly basis once or twice a week. Or, and this is probably best, marry one of the millions of Russian chicks who want to escape the cold Russian winters and constant diets of turnip soup. Those girls will do ANYTHING for citizenship.
HAHAHAHAHA wicked -sorry thats not helpful
just pay for some foot sex Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
im tempted to pay for feet too, im going to start getting quotes from massgae parlours soon. I do have a girlfriend but she does not have nice feet!! eww, lol (sorry) lol im ungreatful i know, but u kno, if she found it she would tell the world and freak because ive had this convo with her in teh past.
dan
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: im tempted to pay for feet too, im going to start getting quotes from massgae parlours soon. I do have a girlfriend but she does not have nice feet!! eww, lol (sorry) lol im ungreatful i know, but u kno, if she found it she would tell the world and freak because ive had this convo with her in teh past.
dan
If you're actually seeking to cheat, then just end the relationship and find someone else rather than paying =P
Posted by qqqq (Member # 14615) on :
You need to scratch this itch. If necessary, hire a professional who can provide the girl friend experience to you. Once experienced, hopefully on a more or less regular basis, this will not be such a struggle for you. You could then move on toward establishing a relationship with a lady with whom you could explore your sexuality without it appearing that you are desperate to breed. Confidence in yourself can conquer the quiet desperation so many of us experience. I hope this is of service to you. Be well.
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