How submissive would you be if you were actually in a long-term relationship with the foot-girl of your dreams?
[ December 07, 2006, 01:22 PM: Message edited by: feetluvr ]
Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
I'm not really into the Dom/sub aspect, but I would role play as a submissive if that's what my sig other wanted.
[ December 08, 2006, 03:32 PM: Message edited by: Bondo ]
Posted by The Champ (Member # 14891) on :
sorry but this is not my style. i dont care who you are, i refuse to let someone control me.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i voted moderately only to make her happy. only because there was no option for slightly submissive. i rarely ever go sub. i don't do the sub/dom thing.. i rather share equally or be in control. (sharing being my prefered approach)
but on a few rare occassions, to make my lady happy.. i've submitted a little. but only a little and for a short period of time.. real short. doesn't do much for me romantically to be a sub.
RPM
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
hell, as long as its in the bedroom, i'd take either role. my wife and i have played both roles and my enjoyment of her feet was present both ways.
quote: sorry but this is not my style. i dont care who you are, i refuse to let someone control me.
when i see something like this, it makes me thing you have either trust issues or insecurities. first of all, in a real sub/dom situation, the sub truly has the most power. s/he sets the limits.. what is a go, whats off limits, etc. second, its a role, its not about respect or lack there of. its not a statement of your life or personality.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: first of all, in a real sub/dom situation, the sub truly has the most power. s/he sets the limits.. what is a go, whats off limits, etc. second, its a role, its not about respect or lack there of. its not a statement of your life or personality.
Good points, in addition to the fact that, although not always, it's usually a role/situation participated in only during sex.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
I can role play with a hot honey to get her heading in the right direction. Role play is cool from time to time in any relationship... again, from time to time --nothing permanent.
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
Honestly, I definitely prefer to be in control, but every once in a while, I don't mind going sub for a little bit. In any sort of relations I've had, I've taken the lead and had control in any foot play. During sessions, I'm always in control.
Posted by tom (Member # 223) on :
switching roles is the way to go.
it's more fun and still has intensity.
Posted by pedactor (Member # 12893) on :
i prefer to be dominant. maybe and i do mean MAYBE swtich the roles once in a while but i think its sexy when a girl presents herself to me in a vulnerable "do what you will to my body/ feet come and get it baby" kind of way
Posted by Adam X (Member # 2872) on :
I'm submissive by nature so I guess it wouldn't be much of a stretch for me.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by pedactor: i think its sexy when a girl presents herself to me in a vulnerable "do what you will to my body/ feet come and get it baby" kind of way
Not that I don't enjoy that too, I do, but I'd also like it if from time to time my wife would take control and call the shots. Don't have any problem with that at all.
Posted by herb 4 (Member # 6786) on :
I think it would depend on her and what she wanted. I'm not really submissive by nature - or dominant either - but I can find my way into whatever a situation might call for, depending on the people involved, the circumstances and how horny I am.
I can be as submissive or as dominate as it takes to set a situation on fire and get it roling....
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I used to like the idea of being both dominant or submissive with regards to my fetish, depending on how I felt with a woman on a particular day. However, I've since adopted being dominant, pretty much, all the time. Personally, I think women respond to this in a more positive way and it turns them on more than a guy being submissive.
Posted by pedactor (Member # 12893) on :
i also dont like the insults and yelling that go along w/ being submissive, role play or not grrr
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
i will love to be her foot slave, but also put her in the pile driver when it comes time for missionary BS. i like to change it up, but control in a relationship and control during sex can be two different things if your world demands it Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fate111: Personally, I think women respond to this in a more positive way and it turns them on more than a guy being submissive.
I agree that the majority of women probably assume that the guy is going to be dominant one. Consequently if the guy wants to be submissive to any degree, he's going to have to clearly communicate that to the girl, and possibly convince her that he's truly sincere and let her know the extent of his true submissive desires.
I know my wife's that way. Though she's not afraid to make a request, she will always aquiese to my desires and request, and always allows me (even expects me) to make all the arrangements and/or plans for a sexual encounter. I've "hinted" at being somewhat submissive (one night I offered to draw her a bath and do anything she wanted). Her having total control was obviously a foreign idea to her. And in fact, because she's as much into the emotional connection as the physical connection between us this can be a dangerous offer for me to make because there's a very good chance that she'd be perfectly comfortable not including anything sexual at all in her plans- allowing me to bath her, massage her, kiss and caress her but not have sex with her. Fortunately the time or two I've told her she's in charge, she's able to see my physical excitation and at least allow me to masturbate for her. (an act itself that, taken in that context, can be exciting)
Posted by dudeman867 (Member # 9367) on :
I'm actually in a relationship like this. I introduced her to the foot fetish world, and she is totally open about it. She thinks it's cute and adorable, and quite the turn on. She really enjoys foot massages, and loves when I suck her toes, She also likes when I lick in between her toes, she says's it's the best.
It's awesome, she also let me take pictures through webcam of her feet one night... Amazing girl i have.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by feetluvr: How submissive would you be if you were actually in a long-term relationship with the foot-girl of your dreams?
As a rule im not keen on being dominated, but if I was in a relatonship with my cleaner I would be prepared to do whatever she wanted, as I would truly be the happiest man on this planet & I know I should'nt be saying that but unfortunatly i can't help how i feel about her & belive me I've tried to fight my feeling but the truthis that Im head over heels in love with her.
Posted by ccs2essentia (Member # 19013) on :
![[Wink]](wink.gif)