Many of you have told your stories about how your wives/girlfriends reacted when you "came out of the closet" about your foot fetishes with them. I think it would be a good idea if we devoted a whole thread to this subject. My girlfriend and I worked in the same office together. We went to London together in 1999. Back then, we were just platanic friends. But one evening, I asked if I could take some photos of her barefooted--and she agreed. They remain some of my favorite photos. I also massaged her feet for the first time. Later, she told me she knew about me interest in feet for quite a while--I was kinda open about it at work!
Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
I've told this beofre,but I'll tell it again. I never told her about my thing for feet,she found out on her own.I can put a woman to sleep when I massage their feet.Back in the day,I would massage her feet and when she fell asleep,and started snoring a little,thats when I would smell em,and lightly lick on her toe's and sole's.Well one time I got brave,and thought I'd try some thing new,I put her to sleep with 1 of those massage's,she was out cold so I went to the frig,got out the KC master peice BBQ sauce,pour it all over her toe's and went to town.All! of a sudden she woke up in a rage,and was like WHAT IN THE HELL ARE YOU DOING TO ME!! I was like sucking BBQ sauce off your toe's she was pretty pissed and made me clean her feet off with a wet towel,then she figured out that I was a foot freak lol Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Chocolate syrup is good on a lady's feet! Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
I'll have to try that one of these days Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Though the last few years of marriage my wife's been very open to almost anything she's never been comfortable discussing sex. Though I had given her many hints (by buying her foot jewelry and sandals) I finally divulged my love of feet in aletter to her I wrote while she was away for a few days. Without discussion or debate she accepted it, and, follwing my directions and requests, began an ever-increasing campaign of pleasing me with her feet.
Posted by Lou Gojira (Member # 983) on :
Of the girls I've dated and the one I was married to for a while, the initial reaction was usually a grin, followed by a mild curiosity, and then usually compliance, and on some occasions a total embracing.
There was only one girl I dated years ago that was actually repelled by it. Sure she painted her nails the colors I liked, but whenever I'd grab her foot up and run my tongue over it she'd sneer and complain...
...and so that relationship didn't last too long either! Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
I'm 48 and I have been married twice, dated perhaps 50 other women in my life, and I have yet to find a woman that wasn't a sucker for a good foot rub. I have never been with a woman that didn't find it totally interesting and a turn-on that I loved to go shoe shopping with her, or give her a pedicure at home.....These things make the foot fetish, for lack of a more mainstream phrase, seem completely desirable to 99% of women. I never had to come out of the closet, I like it in there........lots of sexy shoes in there! I am always just myself, and my indulgence in the female foot has been completely accepted by the ladies in my life.
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
after 12 years of married and 15 years together, only the first two years she didn't know. so it has been 13 years of her sweet, gorgeous and always available feet. how did she react the first time? she smiled and siad that it was "intresting". soon after she underestood and love my attention to her feet. Now she is soooo into her feet, she is always creaming them. it is fucking great.
Posted by Jack Bauer12 (Member # 13592) on :
Ive sucked a few gfs toes and i'm sure they had a idea and my confidence grew from there and just told others about it while doing other sexual things. I love having a foot fetish and chicks dig it too. It adds to more of a mystery about me which I already had. By the way chicks dig guys that are mysterious and foot fetish is so lamo compare to some of the stuff people are into today so I'm upfront about it if asked. I would not hid it at all. But the chic that I told first right away was a older chick about 7 years older so it helps to have a older woman they seen it all. Anyhow she moaned her butt off when I sucked her toes. Good times!
Posted by conerz (Member # 12451) on :
I think I told it before but here goes.
I always paid atttention to her feet (foot rubs, buying her foot jewelry) without saying anything exsplicit. I slowly and kinda awkwardly revealed it when we were fooling around one night, talking about what "felt good". I told her Id understand if she felt weird, but I needed to be open about it, and that I find feet sexually attractive. (especially hers, I added) She didnt exactly say "oh honey that's wonderful" but she listened and was understanding and took it at face value as part of who I was, which was really more than I could ever have asked for. She was never shy about her feet, so she didn't give me the "gross" reaction I had been dreading my entire sexual life. Its so cheesy to use the phrase but it was like a weight was lifted off my chest.
Being able to touch and kiss her feet freely now and having her know how much it turns me on was worth any awkwardness anyway.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
my first three girlfriends that i came out to all thought i was a freak. and since i was much younger when those things happened. the reality of those dramatic situations simply set in.
...so here I am today, I am a freak, just like they said, and I am perverted and kinky and I masterbate a lot in the shadows while I beat my meat and think about feet. i do it a lot too, hee hee
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i've only told a woman i dated that i liked feet twice.. but as an adult i've told a few female friends.
all my friends except one were really cool about it and some endulge me to this day (no not in foot play or the like.. but will visually endulge me). also.. being i've got a thing for girls wwearing heels.. it's made it 'easier' for most to accept.
i only run into trouble if i come across "too strong" whatever that means. but if i back up off the 'strength'.. they tend to get cool again.
my ex.. it was hard work wining her over.. much much resistance.. and when she accomodated.. tons and tons of strings attached.
my lady, my second and hopefully last girlfriend.. she never was repusled by it, but was one who never wanted to have her feet seen or touch.. took her a long time to turn around.. but she never was mean or repulse or rejecting.. she just asked for me to be patient with her and let her adjust and accept whatever adjustment she makes.
it's been years we've been together.. she's still adjusting.. but now.. i'm in paradise. it's taken much longer than i had hoped.. but it was more than worth it.
just last night she explained to me how much she's surprised at how much she likes me touching and playing with her feet..and to my major surprised.. she said she loved it when i sucked on her toes and was afraid to admit it. she told me.. anytime i want to... i should go for it and she hopes that soon, she'll be initiating me sucking on her toes.
i'm still recovering from the massive surprise. when i asked what made the change.. she said.. she just needed time to really get herself comfy with the fact that of all the feet in the world i wanted.. it's hers that gets me the most and she doesn't like her feet and toes. but.. she's adjusted to that idea.. and is currently getting used to the pleasure she's deriving from it.
so.. who knows where the future lies.. but i'm so thrilled she's open minded and adventurous enough that one day (as she said) she may just be the one initiating the foot action. (as you can guess. i got a lot of foot action this weekend and i'm thrilled.. it's been a long time ocming)
RPM
p.s. just in case it sounded bad.. my lady hasn't been holding out on me all these years.. just been a 'reluctant' participant.. and it was always small dosage... thought gradually more dosage over time. this weekend.. it was no holds bar.. no resistance.. no hesitation... she just put up her feet on my lap and said.. do your thing!!!! and she even particpated (not just sat there).. and by the look on her face.. she was enjoying it as much as I!!!!!!!!!!! i'm beyond thrilled!!!
Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
Before me and my wife were married, she had no idea I was into feet. Throughout most of the relationship, I tried to stay away from her feet, other than trying to get a glance at them whenever possible so she wouldn't think I was weird. After a while I got more brave during sex and tried sucking on her big toe every now and then. She wouldn't let me because it tickled but she never gave any kind of "ewww" reaction. Later when she would be on top during sex, as I touched all over her body, I would get a quick feel on her feet before moving on. It wasn't until we got together with one of my best friends, who knew I had a foot fetish, and he and his wife decided to tell her while trying to make fun of me. She looked at me, asked "really" and said that would explain why you try and touch my feet in bed. Ever since then, she's given me her feet to do whatever I want to them and makes me feel comfortable about my fetish.
Its nice to be with someone who'll take the time and try to understand who you are and what you like. Now she makes sure her feet are pretty all the time. She goes shopping for toe rings and makes sure to get pedicures just to please me.
Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
With my girlfriend it just kind of... Came out. Heh. She came back to mine after our first date, because it was a long walk from the bus stop I offered to massage her feet. I'm guessing due to the imbibing of alcohol earlier in the evening I said something like "wow, you've got nice feet" or more likely I just grabbed one and kissed it. She's cool with it and has been ever since. Quite enjoys having her toes sucked even.
<3
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by babeflover: ...she is always creaming them
She's always creaming them or YOU'RE always creaming them?! Posted by OneGiantLeap (Member # 17819) on :
Well with my most current girlfriend, I kind of let it slip during a partially drunken conversation, but it was more of a "What?" "Nothing." moment and we moved on. Then at a later date, (funny enough) while in a discussion about fetishes, I revealed my fondness towards feet. She said it was a bit strange, but had more questions then anything else. Although put off at first by the thought of getting her toes sucked, zoom ahead to months later and she moans(although quietly) while I graciously suck her toes. Ah the good life.
She obviously also loves the constant and willing massages I offer her. She's always felt bad because she feels like it's unfair treatment, but recently it's finally started to sink in through my reassurances how great it is for me while I'm rubbing her feet.
Posted by conerz (Member # 12451) on :
quote:Originally posted by Martial Law: With my girlfriend it just kind of... Came out.
Yeah, i've had that same reaction to my girlfriend.
RIM SHOT
Posted by video586 (Member # 9044) on :
I'm lucky in that every girl I have ever dated has not only accepted, but completely embraced my foot fetish. Even all my female friends find it fascinating/hot/endearing. I think, generally, that women are far more into it than most guys would think. If they find it odd at first, I bet it will grow on them.
Posted by KissesLadiesFeet (Member # 14769) on :
My wife and I didn't date before we married (she was visiting from abroad; we hit it off, but her visa was expiring), so I had her married to me already before it came out. I'd massage her feet, and sometimes slip in a kiss or two. Any more, and she'd ask what I was doing. She was very inexperienced sexually, a complete virgin, and came from a sheltered upbringing (once married, though, she came completely uninhibited.) I had some writings in a journal book, and I wrote kind of an essay about my fetish (fortunately, it's the same word in both Russian and English), explaining that I don't know from where it came or why I can't shake it, and made it seem like it was just idle rambling, not intended for any audience. I know she read it, because I had shown her other writings in it before, and I would leave that journal where she'd find it. After several weeks, I left an email in her email box discussing it further, pretty much saying the same, what pleases me, and that it is unexplained and not something I sought out (I've had it as long as I can remember.) She never spoke (or wrote) of that email, but has been obliging since. She knows I love women with hot feet in heels (even points 'em out for me!), lets me kiss and worship hers, puts her sexy shoes on my lap or in my face, and even steps on my fingers whan I'm sitting or doing anything on the floor. It's been great! My ex-wife knew something was weird and that I was into feet, but could not accept or even discuss it. Funny thing, though, after we divorced, and she was still in love with me, she'd dress in hot skirts and hose with heels, make some excuse to visit (and for why she was dressed up, since she hardly ever did while married), then invite me to massage her feet or put them near my face if she got the chance. Nice, but too little, too late...
Posted by Ras (Member # 2743) on :
My fiance knew back when we were in high school. It was hard for me to just flat out tell her but I did eventually. She was actually fine with it and told me "That's actually a common fetish for men to have." I tripped out,and on top of that, she told me nobody has EVER done anything with her feet before. So not only didn't she mind..but they were virgins,lol.
Posted by Bman (Member # 2267) on :
With ALL of my girlfriends and wife I simply told them that I hated feet. Feet are gross. Sometime later, after a few weeks or months I wouldl tell them that although I hate feet youres are beautifull and somewhat sexy and very femenine. I eased into it with foot rubs and a few kisses on their soles and toes. PROBLEM!.. I only like feet in nylons and I told all of em that their feet smelled like leather and soap. I never admitted to a woman that I had a foot fetish! Why would You?
Posted by Arch-Fiend (Member # 20142) on :
I lived in Europe for 11 years and what I discovered is that European women think its absolutely normal to have a foot fetish. Its like having a fetish for any other part of the body. No big deal. It took a while to get used to that since on the average American women think its weird. I look at it this way: We worship nice asses even though its the location of the poop shute. How are feet any worse than that?
Posted by hilarydufffeetslave (Member # 2512) on :
I told me girlfriend before we started dating that I had a foot fetish. She doesn't have a problem with it and I have actually gotten to worship her feet a few times. She really likes it when I kiss her feet
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
quote:Originally posted by Arch-Fiend: I lived in Europe for 11 years and what I discovered is that European women think its absolutely normal to have a foot fetish. Its like having a fetish for any other part of the body. No big deal. It took a while to get used to that since on the average American women think its weird. I look at it this way: We worship nice asses even though its the location of the poop shute. How are feet any worse than that?
I've always felt that Europeans are much more open sexually than us Puritan Americans. Would you agree?
Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :
right now i'm single, so i'm kinda nervous about when i actually get a girlfriend how she'll react
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so I went to the frig,got out the KC master peice BBQ sauce,pour it all over her toe's and went to town.All! of a sudden she woke up in a rage,and was like WHAT IN THE HELL ARE YOU DOING TO ME!!![[Laugh]](graemlins/laugh.gif)
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she was pretty pissed and made me clean her feet off with a wet towel,then she figured out that I was a foot freak lol ![[Cool]](cool.gif)
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