have you ever complimented a woman on how nice her feet looked and got a real negative reaction from her? similarly what about maybe trying to massage their feet as a kind gesture and get a similar response? i'm sure it's happened, i mean it's bound to, but how bad was the reaction. personally i'd be real embarassed probably since i already have a tough time talking to women Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
happens to me countless times
Posted by scrunchlover (Member # 21542) on :
I got a negative e-mail from this lady on my job, who told me to stop looking at her feet, as it made her uncomfortable. I'll never understand how women can go through all that trouble with the shoe shopping and such, and then get upset when someone is looking at their feet. Or maybe I'm just a creepy guy. I really don't care, as I won't stop being myself.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Yup. We were at a work function and when we all returned to the bus I saw these amazing pair of smooth, high arched feet propped up on the seat..... talk about .... I asked her if she wanted a foot massage and.... well basically, she told me to "FUCK OFF!" .... I was like "wau wau wau..... ok fine"... I just carried on feelin' a lil' bummed out, but never took it to hart. I'm a sorta guy where It takes quite a bit to bother me. So you could say that I don't have a short fuse or somewhat Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :
yeah i never did understand that myself, i mean why bother painting your toe nails and wearing open toed shoes/sandals if you don't want us to look? ridiculous.
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
I've just gotten the standard, "I dunno, I think feet are kinda dirty" from the few girls who I've told I liked feet in conversation about sex and stuff. Nothing so rude or over the top like what scrunchlover and FootLong have gotten.
Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :
quote:Originally posted by Salvy_Mic: I've just gotten the standard, "I dunno, I think feet are kinda dirty" from the few girls who I've told I liked feet in conversation about sex and stuff. Nothing so rude or over the top like what scrunchlover and FootLong have gotten.
i've had quite a few tell me "feet are nasty" to which i tell them there are nastier parts of the body than feet. ah well.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I've gotten a few negative reactions over the years but nothing that was over the top. It was more of the typical stuff like, "I don't like feet", "I don't like anyone touching my feet", "Feet are gross", "My feet are too ticklish to have them massaged," etc.. I would usually get these reactions while asking a woman if she wanted a foot massage. If she reacted that way, I would just say to her, "Ok, that's cool. It's your loss." A few of them got curious after that and asked why it was their loss. I would then inform them that I give an awesome massage. There were a few who ended up changing their minds.
I think a lot has to do with a woman's comfort level with her body and also with the guy who's asking to give her the foot massage. Women are pros at picking up on a guy's motive and can tell through voice tone and body language what's going on beyond the words he's saying and what his motives are. If they're picking up a weird vibe from a guy and sense something is not totally legit, they will decline the offer. That's why I think it's very important not to make a big deal about it if you get turned down, not matter how great looking her feet are and how much you desire to have them in your hands.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
fate.. dead on!!!
girls doll up their feet for one of two reasons. 1- other women will hate on them if they don't 2- they like to pamper themselves.
only a few do it because guys notice or they want guys to notice.. and even then.. usually in a non-sexual way.
i've got a few no's.. some embarassing... some not... but really don't have the time or energy to recall.. i just move on to the next set of feet.
the more honest and 'noble' the offer for a massage.. the more at ease the gal will be. but.. don't forget.. to gals.. feet are either dirty or initmate parts.. so.. the average joe doesn't get access to them. so.. if you get access. consider yourself lucky for that one moment in time.
RPM
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by Salvy_Mic: I've just gotten the standard, "I dunno, I think feet are kinda dirty" from the few girls who I've told I liked feet in conversation about sex and stuff. Nothing so rude or over the top like what scrunchlover and FootLong have gotten.
yeah, some of that is pretty over the top and downright mean. i probably hang myself after a couple like that.
Posted by DE.501964 (Member # 19061) on :
I've never had a girl turn down a foot massage but a girl I used to work with freaked out when she caught me checking out her toes.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
quote:Originally posted by DE.501964: I've never had a girl turn down a foot massage but a girl I used to work with freaked out when she caught me checking out her toes.
i hate when that happens. but thankfully.. a whole lot less now.. i'm a lot more careful!
RPM
Posted by shadixx (Member # 22316) on :
Heres a good one...Just say 'I have a foot fetish.' and see how they react.If they react weird,just say 'I was just kidding.' and laugh about it.
Posted by leglover1000 (Member # 22095) on :
quote:Originally posted by FootLongSub Zero: Yup. We were at a work function and when we all returned to the bus I saw these amazing pair of smooth, high arched feet propped up on the seat..... talk about .... I asked her if she wanted a foot massage and.... well basically, she told me to "FUCK OFF!" .... I was like "wau wau wau..... ok fine"... I just carried on feelin' a lil' bummed out, but never took it to hart. I'm a sorta guy where It takes quite a bit to bother me. So you could say that I don't have a short fuse or somewhat
Awe footlong, that was mean for her to do that to you. Poor dude. I guess some women don't understand us alternative sexualists. LOL
I love you guys because you are different. it is like being in a little fraternity when I caome in here. One day the world will wakeup and realize feet are no more disgusting than a PHAT ass.
But there is some hope. Remember rapper Redman is a vocal feet lover. He makes no bones about it. So does Howard Stern.
Posted by leglover1000 (Member # 22095) on :
quote:Originally posted by RJ82:
quote:Originally posted by Salvy_Mic: I've just gotten the standard, "I dunno, I think feet are kinda dirty" from the few girls who I've told I liked feet in conversation about sex and stuff. Nothing so rude or over the top like what scrunchlover and FootLong have gotten.
i've had quite a few tell me "feet are nasty" to which i tell them there are nastier parts of the body than feet. ah well.
Like the vagina, leglover will say it and say it straight I prefer sexy toes more than giving vagina. That's I said it, and I am not taking it back. LOL I am sure you dudes don't mind, but the anti-feet or feet apathetics believe I have a disorder.
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Recently I've begun making comments about feet that look nice, but I would NEVER offer a woman a massage that I work with. Just like I wouldn't date one.
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.... I asked her if she wanted a foot massage and.... well basically, she told me to ![[Mad]](cuss.gif)
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