Foot Fetish Forum: a question for the ladies

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Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

i was just sitting here thinking about this, so i figured i'd ask the opinion of the women on here. though you guys are welcome to chime in with your opinion to [Laugh]

anyway does the size of a guy matter to you, when it comes to having your feet worshipped?

me personally i'm not really a small guy, i'm about 6'2"-6'3" and around....well i won't say how much i weigh but let's just leave at i'm not skinny [Tongue]

now don't get me wrong i'm not morbidly obese or anything, but anyway back on topic. i don't know why i'm even asking, but i've always found (in my limited experience) that girls tend to go for the skinny guys as opposed to bigger guys like me and i wondered if that were true in the case of women letting guys worship their feet.

btw, i know i'm rambling here, but if you think this topic is stupid or whatnot i apologize in advance. just something that popped into my head just now.

Posted by Outback69 (Member # 2217) on :

Hey RJ,

I'm not a woman, nor am I small. [Big Grin]

I stand 6'8" tall and weigh about 275 so I do cast a pretty large shadow....Hehe..

Just from experience yes, at first impression most women tend to back away from me a little...Like I say at first.

Most of them tell me afterward that they just had to get used to me and their initial impression was that I was some angry, forceful bloke who runs over people for fun.

Truth is I am exactly the opposite so once I do have the chance to talk with most women they are more than accomodating to my preference for feet.

It's all in the approach brother RJ. I hope that this helps!

[Thumbs Up]

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

hey thanks for the comment man [Thumbs Up]

i'm generally real shy around women, so it takes some time for me to really start talking to them and everything. and of course being new to foot fetish stuff there's a lot i still want to know/learn. i've got a friend who gave me a big hug one time (squeezed the hell outta me lol) and she said that i was like a giant teddy bear.

most girls once they get past the fact i'm not some skinny dude with a six pack (see i'm a real man, i've got a keg [Tongue]

) they realize i'm a nice guy. i was just curious as to whether most women on here would prefer a skinny guy or a guy our size to worship their feet, or if it made a difference to them.

Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :

Well, I'm a pretty big guy myself. I weight about 230 lbs. now, but unfortunately, I'm only about 5'10", so I look really stocky, a bit like a Latino Mike Tyson bodywise when I was actually working out. But yeah, I've also noticed that any of the guys I notice that get the most play are the thinner guys, whether or not they're taller or shorter than me. And when you're as stocky as me, it makes you seem shorter than you really are, the opposite of thin guys appearing tall and lean.

Posted by Camille (Member # 21761) on :

I'm slim myself and all my boyfriends were slim too. But I don't really know why. I mean, it's not that I would like only slim men, it's just a coincidence. I would like to find a guy with a "lagger shadows" [Smile]

But anyway, tall or small, slim or not so slim don't really matter for me. The main thing is personality [Wink]

Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :

Camille makes a good point about personality, IMO. Although women will have personal preferences like men, I've noticed that those preferences in the physical realm aren't as influential when it comes to women chosing a guy, especially if the guy has a lot of confidence and a strong, likable personality. If a guy has that going for him and a woman is attracted to him because of that, she'll tend to overlook anything that may be lacking in the physical/looks department.

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

well you both have a point there, i mean i personally think i have a good personality. i've been told before i have the type of personality and seem to give off the vibe that women will see me, and realize i'm a cool guy and be comfortable around me or something to that effect. i don't know i guess it's because i've always had a low self-esteem that i have such a hard time talking to women.

i've also met a couple women who say they prefer bigger guys like me simply because they're secure with who they are, and don't try to act like something they're not. and that's pretty much me i don't try to act like i'm some macho man, or whatnot, i am who i am.

Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :

do girls let guys that they aren't attracted to worship their feet?

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

no it's more like do they have a preference for skinny or bigger guys, or does it not really matter to them as long as someone is willing to worship them.

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

i've seen a guy that's bigger than me in the store before, and his wife is H-O-T. gives me hope [Big Grin]

Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :

quote:
Originally posted by RJ82:
no it's more like do they have a preference for skinny or bigger guys, or does it not really matter to them as long as someone is willing to worship them.

well i would think most don't want him to be fat but i've seen so many odd looking couples lately (ugly or fat guy, pretty girl) i'm not so sure it really matters to alot of girls

I know a good looking guy when I see one [Wink]

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Mighty Mike:

quote:
Originally posted by RJ82:
no it's more like do they have a preference for skinny or bigger guys, or does it not really matter to them as long as someone is willing to worship them.
well i would think most don't want him to be fat but i've seen so many odd looking couples lately (ugly or fat guy, pretty girl) i'm not so sure it really matters to alot of girls

I know a good looking guy when I see one

oh i hear ya bro, i've seen some odd ones myself. and lot of times i'm like "how the HELL did he get her?!" [Eek!]

Posted by rosedesire (Member # 18356) on :

If we are talking about what physically attracts me to a guy, my ideal is 6'or taller if possible and a good solid build. i would be attracted to a guy who is a bit overwieght rather than a really thin guy. But personality plays a major factor in who i am attracted to. You could be the best looking guy in the world and if you don't have a personality that turns me on, then i won't be attracted. i have dated guys 6'3" &250 lbs, down to 5'3" & 150lbs. It all depends on how i am treated by the guy. So for me i guess it wouldn't matter how you look, but who you are that would determine if i would let you near my feet, if i were available that is. *L*

Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :

I had a ex who told me of past experiences with guys and she dated tall guys who by looking at them you would automatically assume that he is "hung like a horse" only to find out he is hung like a mouse! she said that has happened more than a few times she said...I dont want to brag here fellas but she said out of the guys she has been with I was the biggest...I literally told her to fuck off and not to try and fill me with bullshit..I mean really though...I couldnt care less if I was her "biggest" she had. She insisted to me that it was the truth...so yay me..and Im only about 5'8 or so...so by looking at a guy my height you would assume that Im not "hung like a horse" [Big Grin]

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

quote:
Originally posted by MissMcKenzie:
Not a size thing with me, it's more of "is he taller than I am if I wear high heels" thing.
I had a friend hook me up with a friend of hers. I assumed he was tall because next to her (she's barely 5'1") he looked tall, so I wore high heeled boots on our first "date." He comes to pick me up and I was an inch or two taller than he was.
I have no idea why I want the guy taller though...

couldn't tell ya, some people just like the idea of having someone taller than them *shrugs* now me i don't care if a woman is the same height, shorter, or taller than me. in fact i've seen several women that were taller than me that i wouldn't mind getting my hands on [Big Grin]

get those nice long legs wrapped around me and then.... [Thud]

Posted by rosedesire (Member # 18356) on :

For me it has nothing to do with how big i think a man is down there. i am 5'2" and i like having a man tower over me. It is a submissive thing i think. i like feeling small and i like being taken care of and protected. Not that a shorter man can't do that, but i feel it more with a tall man. It could be because most of the men in my family are tall. Tall men have always attracted me. Maybe it is because i have so much trouble reaching the top shelf. *LOL*

Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :

quote:
Originally posted by rosedesire:
For me it has nothing to do with how big i think a man is down there. i am 5'2" and i like having a man tower over me. It is a submissive thing i think. i like feeling small and i like being taken care of and protected. Not that a shorter man can't do that, but i feel it more with a tall man. It could be because most of the men in my family are tall. Tall men have always attracted me. Maybe it is because i have so much trouble reaching the top shelf. *LOL*

yeah a lot of women take advantage of the fact i'm tall, if i had $1 for everytime i've heard "here you're tall grab that for me" i'd be rich.

Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :

they prefer the guy taller because he makes them feel more lady like, he makes them feel safer, they want their kids to be tall

also taller guys are more confident in general because guys that grew up short get shit on by cruel kids, date girls later in life, get less respect from adults, and don't totally recover from the torment they always dealt with

yes many do think that the tall guy is more likly to have a bigger penis but penis size has absolutely nothing to do with height