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Posted by footwilde (Member # 23242) on :
 
I need some help... I have a very strong foot fetish, stocking, lingerie, high heels, toes, foot worship and foot domination are things that send me crazy.

Lately though it has taken over my life.. I am completely obsessed with womens feet, one little dangle will send me completely bonkers and I have to go and jack... I have spent whole days not being able to leave my home as I am unable to tear myself away from the internet (as there is so much material) and I can't stop jacking as soon as I see a female foot it captivates me and I have to release (until it gets really sore after a while and thats the only way I can stop when I physically can't do it anymore). My foot fetish has practically bankrupted me, I have spent thousands on trying to satiate my desires, pay sites on the internet, buying multiple copies of magazines (leg show and others) also I have paid escorts to come back to my home so that I can worship their feet.

I got fired from work as I couldn't get off my computer and out of home and was late so many times.. Also these hookers have such delicious legs and feet I can't stop phoning them to come to my place and they are quite literally milking me dry. I focus everything around this fetish, all my finances and everything to try and quench my thirst...

Basically I can't fight it. It has completely enslaved my life financially and phsysically.. It got like this only this year, after I broke up with my girlfriend last year who didn't like the idea of me having a foot fetish.. I was thinking about going to a psychiatrist or something..

Is there any cure for foot fetish?
 

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Posted by ILickToez (Member # 5833) on :
 
Its not taking over my life to the point where it is for you....but I know I need to slow down drastically. Ive spent days off work wankin it to feet, and at the end of the day Im like: I just wasted the day.

I have a girlfriend and numerous times shes found out that I talk to other girls online about their feet. I really don't want my fetish to ruin what we have, as weve been together 3 years. She has great feet...but I just like looking at a wide variety.

I also sometimes wonder how God feels about me making feet an idol. I don't like the term "foot worship" because I believe worship is something reseerved for Jesus and Him alone.

I really do wish there was a cure, but I dont think there is. Your best bet would be to go to a psychiatrist I think.
 

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Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
 
Footewilde (quite an appropriate name)

In all seriousness my friend, it sounds like you do need to see a professional in reference to this.

I've come very close myself to allowing my fetish desires and activites rule my life- fortunately I've been able to wrestle control of myself most of the times. Because I work at home alone, there have been days, like ILickToez mentioned, that I've spent nearly the whole looking at footstuff online and jackin' off.

But being that it's so affected your life, especially your job- you need help kicking this, or at least backing down a few notches.

Seek out a qualified, certified counselor, psychologist or psychiatrist to at least give you an assessment and treatment plan.

Best wishes!
 

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Posted by john67 (Member # 15826) on :
 
I agree, Footewilde, you should go to good psychiatrist, and try to find some sort or cure.

Fortunately, I don't have that problem, I like feet, but not that much like you, little less.
 

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Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :
 
I think the "cure" is simple. Learn to have some self-control man.
 

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Posted by footwilde (Member # 23242) on :
 
The thing is I like it so much... I have this 26 year old girl who comes to see me often, she is really expensive though $500 for 1 1/2 sessions... I have seen her about 6-7 times now, and she has really cleaned me out but I can't resist her...
Half Korean/American, perfect legs and toes, small pert breasts, to die for tanned body and model face... she is worth every penny.. not only is she a stripper but loves to be really dominant and loves making me worship her feet. I just want to give you an example of what its like when she comes to see me and how hard it is for me not to give in.

I arranged her to come to my place for 2 hours its a nice modern apartment in town. She comes into my apartment gives me a kiss on the cheek, she's wearing jeans, and really sexy high heeled black stilletos and a black top. She puts her hand out and I know its the money I owe her, I've got the cash at hand and hand it to her "it's all there" I say. As I put the money in her hand a seductive smile appears on her face, and she walks past me stroking her hand softly against my crotch and looking me in the eyes. The click of her stilettos is intoxicating, she walks over and goes into the toilet locking the door.

So I'm sitting waiting in the open kitchen, she walks out of the toilet and I see she has taken her jeans off, underneath her jeans she has already been wearing fishnet stockings with garters lining her perfect and skinny legs. It matches perfectly with her black top. She walks over to me in the kitchen "you've missed me haven't you babe" she cooes, "yes, yes I have" she goes over and sits up on the table near which I'm sitting. I'm facing her and she moves a chair out from under the table with her legs and then crosses them. Her right leg is dangling over her left and is going in my direction. "You missed these little babies didn't you babe" she cooes again and she slowly moves her right foot up and down. She's staring right at my eyes, and already I'm getting so turned on by her legs and stilletos, all the time my eyes are bursting looking at the anklet she has over her fishnets.. She wiggles her stilletto off with her foot so it is dangling of her toes.. then stroking her legs slowly with her hands lets the stilleto drop to reveal a beautiful thin pointed oriental foot "oops" she smiles and then purses her lips. I adorn her foot with its anklet and toe ring. She points and relaxes her foot very slowly so I can soak it up with my eyes. By this time I am bursting in my pants I take my jeans off in a rush and I try to lean over to grab the foot and suck on it.. but from underneath her other stilletoed foot comes up and pushes my chest away. "OOO, now now don't get too excited". I sit back up on my chair. "You want to be close to these jewels dont you" she says moving her position on the table so she is sitting over me.. Now she puts her stilletoed shoe on my crotch which is throbbing and covered only with boxer shorts. The other free foot is slowly rubbing up my chest and I begin panting heavily as I am getting so aroused. She strokes my body with her free foot, god the fishnets look beautiful on her, and she rubs her foot over my head and cheeks gently. When I try to turn and kiss her foot she grinds her stiletto and twists, teasing me so I know I cannot suck on her foot. She then lowers her foot moves her stilletoed foot away, and moves her free foot down my boxer shorts, ecstasy... after stroking my hard on a little she pulls the foot out raises her legs over my head...

"Come closer" so I come closer to the table I am now right in front of her pantied pussy. I am looking up at her legs which are towering over me. She takes her hands and starts stroking my face gently, then running them through my hair. At the same time she lower her legs, wiggling off the other stilletto off her foot.
She is very flexible and her legs seem to me to be folding everywhere, she pulls her hands away from my face holding a perfect foot up to her face, she lets some saliva trickle from her mouth onto her perfect toes (which are painted perfectly pink!!), then she takes both her hands and stroking my face her left hand goes behind my head, grabbing my hair and slowly but forcefully ripping my head back. At the same time the foot with the gleaming saliva is approaching me "Suck" she smiles an evil smile. With my head wrenched back, I suck zealously on her feet, I am in heaven, licking up all the saliva off her perfect feet...

I can go on for a while but I need to go...

I have managed to get another job.. and I'm really happy that I met this hooker.. thing is I think its money that is real issue.. I need more of it to pay for this vixen.. I don't know if I really need a pyschiatrist which also costs money... It is causing me quite a lot of problems though and if I don't do something fast in several months I will start to get into debt. I hope you can tell from this account just how difficult it is for me to resist this foot thing..
 

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Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
 
Well, first off, I agree with Eliza. You need to learn self-control first off. It's okay to look at feet, but don't let it mess you up to the point where you can't think about anything else. That's when it becomes unhealthy. You probably should see a professional about this. They'll tell you a foot fetish is okay, but like anything else in life, you have to do it in moderation. It's like alcohol; you may like to drink, but you simply can't overdo it.

Second off, $500 for an hour and a half!? That's way too much money, especially if you see her often. Where do you live? All I got to say to you is www.footnight.com . If you've got enough self-discipline to save your money and there happens to be a Foot Night party that comes anywhere near your area, you can get at least an hour and a half of foot play for a little less than $200 (minus the cover charge), and with different girls ($20 is worth 10 minutes). They're perfectly legal too, so no worries. If not, there's www.footworshippalace.com in New York City that's also much more reasonably priced with a selection of beautiful girls to choose from. And if not that, just look around for girls who offer sessions or other sorts of places. When I can't go to a party, I know a place that's only $100 for a half hour, which is pretty reasonable, and I know a girl who gives you an hour for $150. You just gotta look around, but I think $500 for just 90 minutes is way too much money, especially if you're hurting for cash. I don't make the most money either, but I budget carefully when I need foot play and try to get the absolute most bang out of my buck.
 

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Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
 
Here's my prescription for you. Unplug your computer from internet access for a month to start with. It may be tough, but you'd be surprised how quickly you can get used to not being jacked in to the net all the time and maybe going out for some outside stimulation with the real world.

$500 for a whore too? I've never in my life had to hire a lay. That kind of dough could go towards taking a girlfriend out for a romantic weekend somewhere where you would be able to get mucho payback in the foot department.

You don't need a cure for foot fetish. You need to get a grip and get a little self discipline.
 

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Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :
 
With that kind of money you could have hired 10 foot models and taken thousands of photos...ever thought about starting a foot-fetish website?

-Hal-
 

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Posted by Outback69 (Member # 2217) on :
 
The only other thing that I would add to this is

CUT UP YOUR CREDIT CARDS.

You are heading for financial ruin which can affect your daily life all too much....

Then spend some money on a pychiatrist to at least get a handle on it...not necessarily cure it but at least get it back to some sort of normality.

I can only wish you the best of luck on this and hope that you can stop it before it's too late....


 

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Posted by foot_sniffer2281 (Member # 21756) on :
 
I would just echo what everyone else has said really. I urge you to go see a doctor so he/she can recommend you a therpaist/psychiatrist.

It's only a problem once it begins to dominate your thoughts and activities...so for your own financial future and mental sanity, i really do advise you to talk to a professional. Hopefully they will be able to bring some sort of balance back to your daily activites.

Also, as others have pointed out, you can help yourself by making the first step (i.e. unplugging the modem, not calling out the girl, etc)

But you will still need to talk to someone so you can moderate your behaviour towards the fetish.

Best of luck.
 

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Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
i know where you're coming from, it's tough. it takes complete hold of my life at points, and at others it doesn't. doesn't help that i don't have the best social skills already.

idk, i think you should take these peoples advice and get help. at this point, i don't think you can control yourself even. so you might as well see someone about this.
 

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Posted by Maxmillion (Member # 15651) on :
 
Dont let it take control of you. I too have tried to dismiss my fetish for loely female feet. and it gets harder if that is all you do in your sexual life and especially if that is all you are experienced with. Funny thing iswhen I get drunk I almost completely forget my fetish and am at a point that are not even attracted to female feet when I am drinking.

#1 thing is just dont let your fetish control you ( its easy for me to say, but that is it)

#2 You need more will power and disipline ( someone said this earlier)

there was a semester of college that I made it a goal to not look at female feet ever ( internet and in my college/classroom) and I made it through most of the semester doing so. I didnt look at internet porn... but when I returned an dlooked at all the contrubtion models from wusfeetlinks.com (maybe 3 months worth of missed models)... Bu bo when I looked at it, how fast I came. I mean literally it took me a minue or 2 to cum. Usually takes me a good 30 minutes at the least!

I started concentrating more on boobs and women wearing skirts and trying to imagine how horny some of these grils are and if their pussy is wet Mmmm and Im glad I did so, I developed normal female sexual bodypart attractions. and maybe I would have trunered out weirder if I never did so.

- as long as you have other things to do in life and can prioritize them, you should be fine. Try seeking help, preferrable from someone that have been in your situation before.

dont idolize feet, even though that is almost what seems to be happening with guys and a foot fetish. Look at me, at work the past few weeks all Ive been doing is trying to look at femal efeet and having them take off their shoes. I need to stop also, there are points in my life where it kind of takes over, then I kind of lay off.

(Ps) I will mnention some of the female feet I was able to encounter last week) and I am making it a gaol to not do as much this week, if any) so I can slowly prioritize doing better at work and concentrating on other important issues I hae in my life as well as hobbies)
 

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Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
wow, you sound almost exactly like me and addicted to feet. i thought i turned out just fine but now that i look at it, i realize it has made me a freak. i guess it would be nice to have a cure and get rid of the addiction.

i was almost beginning to think this addiction was normal until you just talked about it from a perspective making it not seem so normal. wow, i got some very close type of problems like that too.

we need a cure guys! anyone out there got one?
 

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Posted by deeparchlover (Member # 7021) on :
 
This can be a tough addictive to curve because unlike alcohol or drugs, feet are everywhere. Footwilde, I would follow the 1st step of staying off the computer and get help. If you have the resources to pay $500 to an escort then you can afford therapy.
 

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Posted by footwilde (Member # 23242) on :
 
I don't live in the US.. but this footnight.com and footworshippalace.com things are I think the most amazing things I have ever seen.. I'm going to have to visit the US and go to these things... The thing is if there is no cure to this foot thing, I simply just have to make more money to accomodate for this fetish? Maybe accept it controls me.. its like smoking, which is pleasurable to the smoker, addictive and ultimately not good fot you.. but I like feet so much the pleasure they give to me is beyond me, and if I could I would suck on them forever, I have a new job now and the pay isn't bad, I just have to start thinking of other ways of making money fast!

P.S are there any more of these foot fetish parties? Like UK or holland? thanks

[ May 18, 2007, 04:20 PM: Message edited by: footwilde ]
 

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Posted by ILickToez (Member # 5833) on :
 

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Originally posted by footwilde:
I don't live in the US.. but this footnight.com and footworshippalace.com things are I think the most amazing things I have ever seen.. I'm going to have to visit the US and go to these things... The thing is if there is no cure to this foot thing, I simply just have to make more money to accomodate for this fetish? Maybe accept it controls me.. its like smoking, which is pleasurable to the smoker, addictive and ultimately not good fot you.. but I like feet so much the pleasure they give to me is beyond me, and if I could I would suck on them forever, I have a new job now and the pay isn't bad, I just have to start thinking of other ways of making money fast!

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You, my friend, need Jesus.
 

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Posted by foot_sniffer2281 (Member # 21756) on :
 
Dude, you shouldn't focus on going to foot parties till you have curbed the intensity of the fetish....otherwise its only going to get worse and worse.
 

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Posted by footwilde (Member # 23242) on :
 
Yea I know but for future reference can you guys tell me more about these feet parties? Do they happen world wide? I really want to be able to go to one of these parties they sound like heaven.. one day (after i see my psychiatrist)..
 

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Posted by Ummmmm (Member # 15145) on :
 
$500 for 1 1/2 hours???
I hope you got anal and a blow job, bro.
 

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Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
 
I only suggested the palace and Foot Night as less expensive alternatives. Look, it's only natural that you want to have foot play in your life. All of us do, and some of us are willing to pay for it. However, you do have to be shrewd with your money as well. I don't pay for it all the time, and when I do, I look for the best bargain.

That being said, I don't let my foot fetish control me. I got over that phase a long time with, and I just learned to sort of go with the flow and found other things that I like to do...non-sexual things. Maybe you need a hobby to take your mind off feet. I myself watch a lot of sports, play video games, read, write, and I shadowbox a lot. And at one point, I did go to therapy (mostly for my anger problem, but I got help with controlling something similar to an addiction), and it helped me. That's what I recommend to you. Help yourself before you think about the Palace or Foot Night. It may be cheaper, but you may end up spending more money because of the relative cheapness. You have to rationalize the most important things in life. For me, it's family, work, bills, friends, food, with sex and sex-related activities (feet) barely scratching my top 10.
 

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Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
 
Footwilde, you do not need a cure for foot fetish. You need a cure for sex addiction and the hormones produced during sex. Get a good girlfriend who enjoys your footplay or see a counselor. You'll have more fun with the girlfriend.
 

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Posted by footwilde (Member # 23242) on :
 

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$500 for 1 1/2 hours???
I hope you got anal and a blow job, bro.

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Originally posted by Ummmmm:
$500 for 1 1/2 hours???
I hope you got anal and a blow job, bro.

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Originally posted by A&F_FootDude05:
A "cure" would only be nice for certain situations for a limited time, such as in an event where you just can't be distracted by feet for whatever reason, a cure forever is unimaginable to me. Perhaps the only cure is to somehow spread this 'Foot fetish' concept so more and more people could get into it as it is something I believe everyone has a legitimate potential to have and experience.

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