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Originally posted by PrettySoles:
I was wondering how you approach a woman and ask to photograph her feet?

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with a little bit of money and balls, or a lot of just either.

oh, and don't act too excited or creepy when you approach/ask, cuz she might get freaked out, and if that happens your chances of getting a consentual set of photographs go down dramatically.

sometimes it's good to break the ice with a vaguely humorous opener. bad example, but: "hey, i'll give ya $40 for that cigarrette"

then work it from there after you have created a feeling of easy money for something completely innocuous over an idea that is slightly different but humorous (kinda like feet modeling if you present it to her correctly).

BTW, never mention what your internet friends really do with her feet pics. VERY IMPORTANT to find substitute answers for those questions of hers which may very likely come up as to why your are getting the material. Ie. when responding, know that we're not "fetishists" as an example, we are "feet fans" or "enthusiasts"... and you have no idea why some of those guys are simply fascinated at just looking at the shape of feet for artistic reasons or some BS.

Pull the friendly version of wool over her eyes and you increase you chances as opposed to telling her about a bunch of sick old perverted men behind their computers and deranged thoughts in their minds.

I wish you the best in your attempts and please share some with us when you get them

and if she asks you if you have a foot fetish, don't divert your answer. be direct and honest with her and keep it simple and vague. do not answer back by saying something like "lots of people have foot fetishes" or "someone you know probably has one too"

just say, "yeah i think it's kinda cool and different" and then move to the next topic

[ June 15, 2007, 06:09 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
 

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Posted by Joef (Member # 801) on :
 
I have asked if I can have a summer photo. Maybe it would be better if they could sit barefoot...
 

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Posted by GeorgyPorgy (Member # 20439) on :
 
It's just like getting a girl to "F" you. In fact, if you can get her to "F" you first, you can usually have your way with her feet.

Any way. Chat'em up, make'em laugh, present your proposal like it's no big deal, just another thing your into. If she's down, well, then it's on. If not, move on. It's a numbers game.

Be confident, don't act coy and nervous or give her the impression your whole life consist of obsessing over feet, even if you do. If that is all you do, get a life and get you'll get more feet, I promise. Later. Good Luck.
 

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Posted by PrettySoles (Member # 11802) on :
 
thanks for the advice. Tyler, you have some great advice!
 

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Posted by deeparchlover (Member # 7021) on :
 
I agree with what most of the other say but every girl is different and you kinda have to change your approach for each situation. I've taken pics of women for free by asking to take a pics of maybe their tattoo, toe ring or their shoe. I've gotten free pics by having a knowledge of shoe types and complimenting a woman on her taste in shoes. I once had a girl take my camera from me to take a pics of her own foot because she thought she had prettier feet than the woman that I showed were in my camera.
Life is an adventure so you just have to go give it a try and reap the rewards when they come.
 

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Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
if you ask politely.. not totally out of the blue... and aren't trying to hard to 'deceive'.. you'll get away with it. i've got nearly 10 gigs of pics. done over time.. modestly. (focus more on high heels.. my other foot related passion). however.. gotten a few gals to tread the water.. see i'm not a bad guy.. then take off the shoe for a foot pic.

but.. don't get overly excited. dont' get greedy.. don't get pushy. make it seem like it's the most natural thing in the world to ask.. and you'll get a yes every now and again.... but if you get all flustered.. you'll almost always get no's.

RPM
 

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