My boyfriend has a foot fetish....but he has gotten to where lately he doesn't touch them much he never paints my toes anymore or has anything to do with them sexually. He had a wife who turned him down for years and now he has me and I have a foot fetish, it seems as if it no longer interests him as much???So men what is up with him?????????? Was his fetish not real or is it me he is tired of?
Posted by GoddessFonda (Member # 20038) on :
Oh and by the way he is a member here!!
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
Well. I've recently discovered I don't get much out of "doing" anything with feet. But a beautiful pair are still awe-inspiring to look at Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
"Maybe your Baby done made some other plans.". STEVIE WONDER
_fjb_ Posted by Brandy's Foot Slave (Member # 20905) on :
you should probobly just ask him...and see what he says. Be direct thats what I'd do!
Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
I'm sorry to hear that. I love my wife's feet more now than when we first began dating over 10 years ago.
How long has it been since he's stopped showing as much interest? Sometimes if I've really stepped up my workout routine or have been exceptionally busy with my job, I've gone for almost a week without a sexual urge.
He's very lucky to have a woman like you - particularly after being with a woman who denied him her feet, and I think that Brandy's Foot Slave gave the best advice: Sit down and talk to him about it. You may be worrying for no reason.
Good luck - I hope everything turns out well. Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
I'm still quite head-over-heels about my wife's feet- but then I waited 23 years to tell her about my foot fetish- so I'm still making up for lost time!
Posted by You (Member # 2107) on :
just ask him, i figure it shouldnt be as difficult because you both have a foot fetish. better to be straight and direct about it.
Posted by nephilim_nut (Member # 16243) on :
I really love my fiancee, and really enjoy doing stuff with her sexy feet. I did stop doing things for a little while after a nasty infection. It was absolutely nothing to do with her or her feet, it was just that i had zero energy after the infection. Now i am back to health (more or less lol) i can't keep my hands off her and her feet!
Thats my experience, here's my advice...
Ask him, it will probably be uncomfortable for you to bring up the subject, but it will at the very least get the subject on the table to talk it through.
Good luck, I hope it is going to be ok for you Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
talk to him.. best thing
i have worked hard with my lady to get her to open up to my interest.. however... i've 'adjusted' a bit. i don't "bother" her like i used to and i know i run the risk of appearing like i lost interest.
but to me.. i hate being a nag. sure.. my lady is open to my interest more than ever... however.. sometimes.... i feel i should be a bit more 'respectful' and not bother her so much.
part of the deal for me (not you) is that i like when a woman takes some initiative to tease me. my lady doesn't really do that much. likes to 'ration' her creativity. if i played with her feet today..... to her.. it shouldn't be much fun unless i waited several weeks before doing that again. that is her idea of keeping it fresh.
to me... instead of getting frustrated..... i mix it up with other interests of mines. as well as hers too.
but.. when you do talk to him.. find out how he feels about the interactions you have.... maybe part of the deal was the pursuit... or the mystery.. who knows. ask.
RPM
p.s.i'm curious what he has to say
Posted by GeorgyPorgy (Member # 20439) on :
I do admit I have gotten bored with womens feet who were just always available. It's just like sex, it gets old. I find myself wanting new meat. Just being honest.
Posted by tony_dyer2000 (Member # 9881) on :
I agree with GeorgyPorgy, sometimes you just get a little bored with it. It flows both ways, my wife also gets bored of the stuff we do sometimes.
The way around it I guess is to spice things up a little and try somthing different.
Posted by GoddessFonda (Member # 20038) on :
I took the advice and asked him,...seems as if he enjoys my other fetish as much or more, ..I have an oral fetish giving not receiving, and he is just completely content. I feel much better now, he loves all of me not just my feet so all is well in our bedroom and all other rooms lol!!
Posted by You (Member # 2107) on :
great news! Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
he just needs to lick'em and sniff'em harder to get that taste and toe smell to prime his engine more
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
quote:Originally posted by GoddessFonda: I took the advice and asked him,...seems as if he enjoys my other fetish as much or more, ..I have an oral fetish giving not receiving, and he is just completely content. I feel much better now, he loves all of me not just my feet so all is well in our bedroom and all other rooms lol!!
Good deal. Glad to hear he has taken notice of your other talents. Keep up the great work .
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