Do you think that you can develop a desire, or stronger desire in a girl for having her toes sucked by giving her a climax while sucking on her toes?
Ever since I told my wife about my fetish I've gradually been stepping up the amount of toe-sucking/licking that I do. She's told me that she finds it very sensual. But last weekend I really went to town.
After some general foreplay (touching and kissing) I moved down to massage her legs and feet while she lay on her stomach. She bent one foot, then the other up towards her ass so I could access them orally. Every so often I'd scoot up so I could do a little muff-diving.
Eventually I slid back down by her feet so I could suck on her toes while reaching up with my hands to caress her. I laid my left hand on her ass, sliding my left thumb into her vagina. I then used the fingers of my right hand to rub and caress her clit. Needless to say she started thrusting and wiggling to beat the band, which drove me to really start sucking on her toes. It didn't take her long to cum HARD and LONG.
Afterwards it just got me to thinking if that kind of experience would make her desire toe-sucking even more, whether with or without the additional stimulation.
What do you think?
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I think enough reinforcement in any situation will help elicit certain responses if repeated enough over a period of time. Think about the experiment of Pavlov's dogs and how they were consistently fed after a certain bell rang.
I think once a connection is established via certain actions, feelings, etc., over a period of time, it can result in certain responses.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Must differ a bit with Fate111, though he's on the right track. I'm too damned verbose to go into the details of the difference here. To avoid being elaborate allow me to sum it up briefly: The two things that leap to mind first are that (1) the novelty of the situation is very stimulating (humans love novelty) and this gets her off. Being as how you're married, novelty probably isn't it, but think about (2) it pleases her that it pleases you. The knowledge that one is getting their partner going is powerful stuff - very stimulating!
That she is willing to make accommodations for your desires...that's a really good thing and you are to be envied. Sounds like the two of you have a really good thing going.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Almost forgot to mention that it's an even better thing to make sure that you satisfy her um...quirks/fetishes/preferences/fantasies. Tit for tat, so to speak. Just never mention it. Ever.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: ...it's an even better thing to make sure that you satisfy her... quirks/fetishes/preferences/fantasies.
Excellent point, and I always try to, although most of her fantasies are the "big" romantic things like sunset dinner on the beach in Hawaii- things I'd gladly do if we had the money. She has very little in the way of practical sexual desires and fantasies like wanting to see me in something special, wanting to use a new or special toy, etc.
Posted by Reinforcedheelstoes (Member # 1099) on :
I don't know, but I fucking LOVE your research! Now, get back to work!
I gotta agree with Fate111, my girlfriend's vagina get's wet when I smell her feet and she told me point blank it's because " I know I'm about to get fucked."
If that's not a Pavlovian Response, I don't know what is.